calm down dear, don't jump into conclusion yet and don't let urself down, just try to control ur emotions and also pray for him maybe his views about marriage is different from ur own now so ask for God's direction. likewise me I'm always scared whenever I remember someone talks about marriage to me because I'm not yet ready financially. so his phobia could be financial or otherwise, all u have to do is to pray for him.

djoe21:


You are a guy be mature bro.

Olofofo, why not stay out of this?.

Rorachy:
Yes if you don't put your whole mind in it.
Nobody is indispensable.

mama d mama!

Rorachy:

The person should just have the few attributes I like in a partner, then the rest is history, no forming, I don't form or play.
I'm just me.

hey lady ...tell me the attribute nd let me check if am in for it

Rorachy:
Truth is, the guy is not ready to settle down.

Wait for him or you date a guy that is ready to settle down.

Next time don't love to the extent that you will not be able to leave a person.

come on now, that's the best kind of love, that's true love, anything aside that is just 'dating'

Rorachy:
Some people don't worth the love given to them.

he is worth it please.. I read her threads .. She comes off like someone who is very much unsecured and depends on love to survive. She is her problem, not the guy

Nearly everyone starts out this way, infatuated and vulnerable. Then some learn their lessons.

OfficialDad:


Olofofo, why not stay out of this?.

Lolz

Loveeneh:
Normally what he said we often joke over it but when he said I wasn't in a good mood n I took it so hard on him but I expected him to say something to calm me down but he didn't.

My sister the fact that you are in love with him is making you expect too much from him. Dear, the way guys reason is different from the way we do. Just calm down and try forgetting it or take it as a joke.

I can relate to your feelings right now.