I asked this question because of what i have seen happened in our society today. Sometime , people do not understand this. Does having sex before you married a thing a proper thing to do between couples ?

This is usually practiced between boys and girls now. why?

I think it is very wrong to have sex before you get married. The reason is that when you do this the kind of affection that you have for your partner before will be lost once you engaged in pre- marital sex.

I don't know what you may think, But i would like to here your opinion too.

Oh shut the hell up. Stop generalizing crap. How can having s[i]e[/i]x before marriage cease once you get engaged? If you're in a serious relationship, that shouldn't happen. Also, you aren't obliged to have intimacy SOLELY with your boyfriend. My parents are divorced and my mom was a virgin. Dumbfuck cheated on her and did whatnot. So your theory is bullshit.

To pretend as if you know too much poster, i am saying the fact, ask a relationship expert the same thing i am telling you now id what you will still receive from them.

Really. Give me the name of your relationship expert please. Dummie.

NO.

@Poster,

The ultimate decision is up to you and your partner. Pre-marital sex comes with its´ advantages and disadvantages.

Moreover, this subject had been discussed here some years back.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-3742.0.html

That might help you.

wait until you married would be the best for yourself, don't do it because many other girls are doing it. poster you are following the right path

Depends on you

I mean if u take into consideration religious factorz

then you can say 'its a sin'

then if by personal choice u feel its wrong- stick to what you belive in

not everyone will share this belief with you!

I dont pay attentin to the s.ex b4 mariage crap- you gonna be doin 4eva anyways! so the weddin nite shizz is ovarated!

but if its casual s.ex then i also think its wrong!
but who am i to judge!

If you're God fearin, the answer is NO. If you listen to your first love satan (the ugly guy that makes you do tings you should not be doin), the answer is YES!

sista-jay:

If you're God fearin, the answer is NO. If you listen to your first love satan (the ugly guy that makes you do tings you should not be doin), the answer is YES!

Poor Satan. Why is every shit you do his fault? Why not take responsability for your actions?

No its not gôôd

^^exactly