I mean acts like pulling her chair out for her on a date, opening the door for her, opening the car door for her and stuffs like that. Is that a gentleman thing or is the culture of being a gentleman dead, or what some would refer to arse licking? Ladies do you like such gestures, guys what do you think?

Cos I'm in love with a young lady and I'm motivated to be nice to her on our date and beyond....if you know what I mean.



Lalasticlala, Mynd44

Over to you romantic nairalanders and nairaland love lords

cc: ishilove, amarabae, ....which other romancelanders do I know sef?

like seriously, thread to thread

RETIREDMUMU:
like seriously, thread to thread

I don't understand what you just said

Its not dead

Of course not, Real men still do

Bibi294:
Its not dead

Thank you... but we had hardly see people doing it before someone would start looking sheepishly stupid.

FemiEddy:
Of course not, Real men still do

Oh really. That's a plus to my morale. Do you do it, did it or still do it? Just want to know

Uchenaija:


Oh really. That's a plus to my morale. Do you do it, did it or still do it? Just want to know

I still do, it's part of me sef

FemiEddy:

I still do, it's part of me sef

Alright. I'll be like you

Uchenaija:
I mean acts like pulling her chair out for her on a date, opening the door for her, opening the car door for her and stuffs like that. Is that a gentleman thing or is the culture of being a gentleman dead, or what some would refer to arse licking? Ladies do you like such gestures, guys what do you think?

Cos I'm in love with a young lady and I'm motivated to be nice to her on our date and beyond....if you know what I mean.



Lalasticlala, Mynd44

Firstly, that's not been nice to a woman, its called chivalry. It's something that is expected of you to do. Don't bother about the people around, just be a cool gentleman

FemiEddy:

Firstly, that's not been nice to a woman, its called chivalry. It's something that is expected of you to do. Don't bother about the people around, just be a cool gentleman

Oh thanks for that term...Googling it already seems to be leading me to a lot of fun reading on subject already.

One of the definitions I googled something interesting to say, "Something women complain is dead even though it cannot logically exist in an equal society, which is something women wanted. It's one or the other.
Jesse lamented about the death of chivalry while she lambasted the days when men oppressed women which was a time when chivalry was common. Makes perfect sense." http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=chivalry

Nonetheless I'm sticking to your advice: be a cool gentleman that it that is not a bad practice, it is a sign of respect and high regard for a partner.

Uchenaija:


Oh thanks for that term...Googling it already seems to be leading me to a lot of fun reading on subject already.

One of the definitions I googled something interesting to say, "Something women complain is dead even though it cannot logically exist in an equal society, which is something women wanted. It's one or the other.
Jesse lamented about the death of chivalry while she lambasted the days when men oppressed women which was a time when chivalry was common. Makes perfect sense." http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=chivalry

Nonetheless I'm sticking to your advice: be a cool gentleman that it that is not a bad practice, it is a sign of respect and high regard for a partner.

My nigga! But be a bad guy as well o, read her body languages , some ladies ain't dat exposed and might take it for granted or see u as been fake, so if she behaves weird, as a bad guy, since its a date, u come down to her own level......

FemiEddy:

My nigga! But be a bad guy as well o, read her body languages , some ladies ain't dat exposed and might take it for granted or see u as been fake, so if she behaves weird, as a bad guy, since its a date, u come down to her own level......

There comes my niggah.....thank you already.