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| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Moorish: 8:08am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Tell your dad. If he still has feelings for your mom, even 1%, knowing us men and our egos he might come to his senses.. But do not tell him your mom had sex with dudes.. just say some men are flirting with her 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Lusile(m): 8:27am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Pls bro, just allow your mother to look for joy and happiness wherever shhe can find it, however, u may advise her to stop sending her nude pictures and probably stick to a serious one among the men. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by blockchainz(f): 8:29am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Confrontation won't help...the body and heart needs what it needs. 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sanjay4224(m): 8:37am On Sep 17, 2017 |
send us some of the nude photos to confirm your story the devil has almost made your parents house his secretariat more dicks to your fucking mother lips and more pussy to your father dick And more discovery to you their son |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by AntiWailer: 8:40am On Sep 17, 2017 |
If I were u, I will advise her against sending nudes so they dnt blackmail her with it. tell her to always use condom. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by digoster(m): 8:49am On Sep 17, 2017 |
drunkcow:you don finally crase 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by verycheese: 9:10am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Divorce is no good, agreed. Yet, it is not this horrible thing that society makes it. You can find yourself on a wrong bus, do you continue going or you alight? We serve God through marriages, when one or both parties prove excessive, it becomes a hotbed for satanic and shameful things, honour is shredded, the safety it should provide is blown open to attack. People know what to do, but the society likes pretentious lives. God understands why divorce has to happen in some cases, even He knows that people can be terrible. Instead of what she's doing, let her consider divorce and encourage her to seek men who are finding love and stability, and remarry. Instead of nudes sending guys. How hot can she be at 50s, those pics no go too add up. Best she finds a responsible man, they are out there, looking for the same thing she's looking for. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by carammel(f): 9:10am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Mrnairalandd:Listen attentively in class,no you wouldn't,You only choose to be a backbencher. It is not my fault that you can't comprehend. Mumu oshi,omo ale radarada. 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nobody: 9:35am On Sep 17, 2017 |
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| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 9:46am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Yelabechi:My brother, I "was"like in the same boat with you,yes, same age,married too.. .i used the word "was" coz daddy did same thing, but my mum.. ."God bless her soul "Didn't take advantage to cheat or commit adultery, now the painful part is she was even divorced at the age of 36,naturally she has the rights to, coz daddy was remarried with several women and living large, even though mum was living an average Life, she didn't do the men coming to her, muchless marry them at that very young age.... If you will take my advice, your mum is too old for that path she has found herself, I will advice you call her to order, ask her to stop the nude pics she sends, having sexual intercourse is even not funny to the ears, how much more sending her pics out, she's still in the knot for heaven's sake In this part of the world"Africa",such things can defame and destroy a character of any woman who does that, call your pastor, if you have one, cos your father had owned up that he doesn't know why he's doing that, he may be under a spell, especially when he's up and doing... This is Niaja and things happens... Your mum should be fighting the battle of winning hey husband back, if she's a woman of virtue, sorry I used that word God bless your family in Jesus name and may He help resolve the marital issues between them Amen    1 Like |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nobody: 9:49am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Bibi294: when you get married tolerate shít don't expect other women to be as dumb as you life is too short to be unhappy. why is it that enduring hardship and pain is only seen as a virtue in women? 4 Likes |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 9:52am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Sanjay4224: If you are true Christian, Muslim, you shouldn't be sounding this way.. ...the young man came here to share his pains and hoping to find succour of good advice to savour his family from the edge of hitting the rocks Let's, not use such ungodly advice to mock him or his family I beg you plz |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 10:06am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Bibi294: @Bibi294,God bless you, wonderful advice and great way of life.. ..i think I may say the Bible isn't far from you @Proudgorgeousga, I don't think or won't agree with your opinion, If we look into the Bible, we are made to know that women are the ones who keeps their marriage and home, men are gullible, nobody is even looking the way of voodoo, if he was actually under a spell Let's think straight as Africans oh, forget what you watch on cable TV... ..And face natural life, this is Africa, and the men she's even sleeping with wont respect her one beat, if she's doing so with men of same age bracket, the children of the men will hunt her down down and down, the wives won't let her sleep, if she's doing it with young guys, they will use her and call her shameless woman.. .it's that bad Yes, it is.. 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Crossguy: 10:12am On Sep 17, 2017 |
PaperLace:Nice one from you, keep it up.
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| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 10:17am On Sep 17, 2017 |
LoveMatchmaker:So she kukuma should be living in adultery and "God forbids"dies suddenly, straight to hell abi Or let me ask, are you God to decide when and how.. ...wrong advice Voice of an evil counsel 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nobody: 10:19am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Sebastine1606: the bible and other silly religious books is used to manipulate so don't bring it up when mentioning my moniker. the bible is not truth to me. The woman had nothing to loose she is advanced in age she has a right to be happy not everybody gives a shìt about what your African society thinks. denying your self and enduring pain is not a virtue. 4 Likes |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 10:22am On Sep 17, 2017 |
maclatunji:Long may you live sir Voice of a good counsel |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by ikemesit4477: 10:23am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Yelabechi:please I will advice you to stop invading into your moms privacy, your dad started it, until he comes back to his normal senses! |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 10:28am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga: You sound to me an Atheist, your signature depicts it, your statements depicts it, your ideology depicts it.. So sad I pray you don't end up this way Heaven and hell is real, we fight and strive to make heaven, even has sinful as we are, but,selling your soul to the �... ..Its a wrong choice my friend Combining the Bible, the Holy word Of God and associating it with other "silly books",is an act of blasphemy to your creator, � quickly to the God and save yourself from enternal dermination......PEACE |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nobody: 10:32am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Sebastine1606: bla bla bla 2 Likes |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 10:33am On Sep 17, 2017 |
ikemesit4477:So she should kukuma continue or try to face God to win her husband and save her marriage, which is better? Voice of a wrong counsel |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by ikemesit4477: 10:43am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Sebastine1606:what of if she has tried everything to win her husband back but all to no available, better pray your relative or sister is not in that kind of situation, do you think is easy? 2 Likes |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by mozele(m): 10:56am On Sep 17, 2017 |
carammel: this early morning? Just goan kneel down outside! |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 11:21am On Sep 17, 2017 |
ikemesit4477:I know, coz I presently have a sister in that sane shoes, I spoke to her severally to go back to her hubby, the man has begged and begged to come back home, nope, she won't buy Coz, she is enjoying the world. I just Hope it won't be too late before she realises her mistake 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by babades: 11:22am On Sep 17, 2017 |
calmly talk to her maturely, dnt let her feel too guilty, jus let her undastand how to play safe so dat, she wont end up getin unwanted pregnancy or contacting sexually transmitted disease. Also for her to take things easy for d betterment of d future. |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 11:28am On Sep 17, 2017 |
ikemesit4477:And I see you "love pussy" too You better take it easy   
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| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Yelabechi: 11:40am On Sep 17, 2017 |
I thank everyone that contributed to this,infact I have been able to loosen my heart of some burdens. I have picked the few things I would need from the few that made much sense. Some feel I am pleased with my dad,no I am not,we have fought over it severally and he has apologised several times but what is the point of apologising when you are unrepentant. I am the most bothered because I'm the head,my lil sister has since stopped talking to him,my other brothers only greet him once in a while. Someone talked about his 'will',I found that funny because it is only a lazy man that will depend on his father's wealth and I'm not. Some also mentioned she may have been wayward from young,nope. I would say she is a victim of love and deceit,early marriage without knowing what you want yet or how to live with a man ,she is of the old-school where a woman still kneels to give food to her husband, married as a virgin to an ordinary primary school teacher,she practically lived most her life for him and all about him. He was humble until he started making money and couldn't handle it,he swore with everything that she has been a good woman and never did him wrong. I could only infer that he didn't love her if not he wouldn't be that careless. It is just saddening anyways,thanks and remain blessed. 7 Likes |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nobody: 11:57am On Sep 17, 2017 |
if you are not trolling, then you must be very . . . how DARE you start snooping through your mother's phone? wtf is wrong with you? anyway i already know the answer - a case of extreme patriarchy instead of focusing on raising your kids, you think you have some form of authority on what your mother says and does. well . . . you don't. end of 2 Likes |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 12:36pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Yelabechi:I feel your pain been the head of the family, you have a role to play in bringing them together again, good points you made Your aren't lazy and as such, don't need his money I thought as much too, our been are like that, they go on adventure when money starts creeping in, but, he may be under a "voodoo control " ,so invite your pastor to help in fervent prayers, that's the only way Don't give up the fight in bringing them back... ..be a role model to them God bless you |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 12:39pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
oyb:You seem like the last born of your family, but definitely not the first, so you don't know the roles It's better you keep mute, if you don't have anything meaningful to say |
| Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Moganajoe: 1:02pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Yelabechi: Well, your mum is the strongest woman in this 21st century. pls permit me to call her Endurance!! |
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