frenzyduchess:
I didn't say that, I am talking in the context of the thread, now if a lady asks a guy out, subconsciously, he believes you are into him, wiether you like to admit it or not, the stage in which the gets to prove that he likes you is skipped.This not about being bold, alot of Nigerian ladies I know are bold but the aftermath of it is what alot of ladies are skeptical about. Now I know people keep saying "approach a matured guy " and he will respect you for it but is there an X-ray for maturity cos I have met a 33 years old asshole so age can no longer be a criteria to determine maturity anymore. if Nigerian men want our ladies to change ,then they too should be ready to evolve like their counterparts in the western world

kenonze:
The first and only time I tried it, it ended in marriage

ritababe:


are you serious? that's cool, tiri gbosa for you.


cc. evaberry I hope u see this

lexy2014:
I don't want 2 believe u don't no how 2 answer simple questions but ur negative obsession with all that u think is wrong with Nigerian men(as if men in d western world are saints)seem 2b getting d better of u. D question I asked u needed a simple yes or no and maybe a few lines 2 buttress ur point but once again u have veered into ur area of expertise which is "y Nigerian don't deserve u".

Now u said ladies get happy&fulfilled when they get a good catch. my question again is don't guys get happy&fulfilled too if she's a "good catch"?

lexy2014:
I don't want 2 believe u don't no how 2 answer simple questions but ur negative obsession with all that u think is wrong with Nigerian men(as if men in d western world are saints)seem 2b getting d better of u. D question I asked u needed a simple yes or no and maybe a few lines 2 buttress ur point but once again u have veered into ur area of expertise which is "y Nigerian don't deserve u".

Now u said ladies get happy&fulfilled when they get a good catch. my question again is don't guys get happy&fulfilled too if she's a "good catch"?

biblegirl:
Ve u accepted Jesus Christ as ur personal Lord n Saviour?

frenzyduchess:
NO they don't,since you don't want to see the answer, I hope you see it now
By the way I hope you are still talking in the context of the topic at hand, cos I can't remember where I said Nigerian men don't deserve me, I suggest you go and take coffee to wake up your brain , let me remind you again that the thread is about ladies approaching guys first

tosyne2much:
So you mean foreign guys don't downgrade ladies unlike Nigerian guys?

Akuruoulo:
Jane1234f Your Line Is Superb ,and It The Best Amng All.

lexy2014:
hahahahahaha.....am I getting under ur
or something cos u are already getting emotional.I appreciate d compliments though. It seems u are d one deciding if guys are happy&fulfilled with their ladies.am wondering how u are able 2no guys in general &speak on their behalf that they aren't happy&fulfilled when they get a good catch. 4u 2no so much about guys in general speaks volumes. is a ministry or what? when u say Nigerian men should b like western guys, u simply saying they don't meet up 2 ur standard. am sure that puts paid 2d question of whether Nigerian guys deserve u or not. yes I no what d topic says but remember u veered of d topic first. D topic didn't ask u 2 tell us how Nigerian guys react when a lady approaches them. It said what will b ur lines if u by chance approached a guy. u didn't drop any line. u went on and on whining how Nigerian guys are laidback, this&that...clearly that's way off d topic

frenzyduchess:
You must be very daft for repeating the very thing
I corrected you of, fulfillment which goes with not taking the relationship for granted because he didn't do the chase ,this is what I have been trying to explain but you keep trying to appear smart but you are not, you keep deviating from the topic and making stupid assumptions.
You want Nigerian ladies to be bold to ask a guy out like their western counterparts but you as a Nigerian guy is not evolved like your western counterpart not to become skeptical of the lady because you feel she might be doing same to other guys just the way she asked you out
BTW you are not getting under my skin I just hate assumptious people as only fools assume. The thread is only encouraging what will make women put themselves in a tight corner and I have the sole right to let them know the consequence should they do it, obviously you lack comprehension skills to decipher that too. Don't quote me again

Blecool:
..... They do, but they won't broadcast the lady, unlike some naijas

lexy2014:

:[s]Dhahahahahahahahaha....u c I love u soooo much. do u no y?I have met some people of ur ilk on NL. Its so funny when u guys run out of ideas &d best next way 2 express urselves, is resort 2 tantrums&insults. I find it amusing cos I have never condescended 2d level of dog fight&I won't start that with u but am sure my words can help u c life differently without being confrontational.
These are ur words, ur first post which was a reaction 2d topic.

"Thank you, they want Nigerian ladies to ask them out while they stick to their cave men mentality, they become so laid back in the relationship because they feel since you asked them out, then your world should revolve round them".

It clearly shows u didn't keep 2d topic in d first place which was meant 4 fun. Ur post is an expression of bitterness based on ur past experience which u now use 2 generalize. It just confirms my point made earlier that u have a negative obsession with what u think men arent doing right.

How do u no a Nigerian man will not b fulfilled cos he didn't do d chase? how do u no how men feel when there are many guys who are happily married to women who toasted them?what research did u do 2 come 2 that conclusion or are u just speaking from a pained heart? these are issues u brought up but weren't able 2 clarify cos u were speaking from a depth of bitter emotions.

U said this again:

"You want Nigerian ladies to be bold to ask a guy out like their western counterparts"

Once again u are wrong cos at no point during our discussion did I state that I wanted Nigerian ladies 2 behave in a certain way. when ur anger subsides,u are free to go back&read thru again. its u who actually demanded that Nigerian guys must take after their western counterparts

"if Nigerian men want our ladies to change ,then they too should be ready to evolve like their counterparts in the western world"

Did Nigerian guys come 2 meet u asking that Nigerian women must change?who are those that get married every weekend in registries, churches and mosques allover d country?are they not Nigerian men&women?divorce rates are high in d western world and that involves d western men that u want us to take after.

Initially, u said u were trying keep 2d topic but when i proved that u werent, u finally opened up expressing ur disdain 4d topic. So clearly it shows that u werent honest as d only thing u were out 2do was fight&tarnish men but u only ended up contradicting urself. Well, I wish u all d best in ur campaign as d "sole informer" on d consequences of women toasting men. I hope u go international. when u launch ur website pls let me no.

Lastly, I just remembered that u asked me not 2 quote u....hahahahahahaha...so what's my punishment?[/s]

frenzyduchess:
There will be no punishment, just a test to know if I was right to say you are foolish, and I was right, you better go and read the post I quoted and stop making it look like that was my own contribution to the thread meanwhile all i see is a long trashy sermon

safarigirl:
I hate that direct approach. I am speaking from personal opinion. Besides, I am an advocate of getting to know someone without strings before entering a relationship..

How will we have conversations if you don't have a certain level of intelligence?

hayfay:
I ve been crushing on u 4 a longtym nw,but dnt knw aw u wud react was y I kept it to myself,but I I can't hold it in anymore ( I luv u) do u feel d same .

Durchess:
Hey I like but I won't tell you rest. If you feel the same way too just say the rest..

TosinDru:

But if I'm the one chyking you, I'll have to say everything

tosyne2much:
Nawa oooo

Durchess:
yes na

Blecool:
.... Na so me too I see am

princ007:
Since from the day i set my eyes on you, my heart knew no peace, i tried to be just a friend to you but my heart would not let me be... It beats for you every second of the day. My day start and end with your thoughts.. I kept it to myself all this while cos i thought my heart was deceiving me.. But i have come to realize it was just trying to signify that it now belongs to you my love... Would you own my heart with utmost care and love? Do your heart beats for me just like mine?

TosinDru:

But that's unfair... I thought you guys were our equals and whatever we are capable of doing, you can do better

dorin27:
I like you and will love to go out with you..

Durchess:

Lolzzzz . Now you accept we are your equals. In that I ll go ahead and tell you how I feel about you .
When I first saw you , my heart skipped a bit, I felt butterflies in my stomach and I prayed a Lil prayer telling God to pls give me the courage to say this to you and now that I can . I just want you to know am crazy about you , hope you feel the same way too....



Mehn see my rhymes

TosinDru:


Oh my, you're good...
Is there any one who wouldn't feel the same with you?