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What Should I Do Plz by ammamat(f): 11:12am On Sep 24, 2017
Happy Sunday fam., plz i need advice on this matter. Have been without a relationship for awhile. There is this guy that i have been chartting with for like for years but we haven't meet . So recently he told me that him and his girl broke up and he said he want to see me............. Plz i want to ask if is alright to add the said girl as my friend on Facebook coz i don't want to be a victim of hrt break again..i want to be sure if the guy is saying d truth....is it right or not
Re: What Should I Do Plz by dingbang(m): 11:15am On Sep 24, 2017
Its a wrong move...
Re: What Should I Do Plz by abelprice(m): 11:16am On Sep 24, 2017
If you and d guy are both looking at same direction... no need for dat.... undecided....
Re: What Should I Do Plz by Nobody: 11:17am On Sep 24, 2017
ammamat:
Happy Sunday fam., plz i need advice on this matter. Have been without a relationship for awhile. There is this guy that i have been chartting with for like for years but we haven't meet . So recently he told me that him and his girl broke up and he said he want to see me............. Plz i want to ask if is alright to add the said girl as my friend on Facebook coz i don't want to be a victim of hrt break again..i want to be sure if the guy is saying d truth....is it right or not
Don't. The dude is obviously lying just to get you laid and move to the next target.

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Re: What Should I Do Plz by Queennikky(f): 11:18am On Sep 24, 2017
I don't think you've got business with the other girl.... If you love the guy, give him your tike and little attention.

You might win him or allow the other girl win.... The choice is yours
Re: What Should I Do Plz by Lovetinz(m): 11:30am On Sep 24, 2017
dingbang:
Its a wrong move...
One bottle of Smirnoff Ice for you.

He has smashed one. You are next.
Re: What Should I Do Plz by IamLEGEND1: 11:42am On Sep 24, 2017
ammamat:
Happy Sunday fam., plz i need advice on this matter. Have been without a relationship for awhile. There is this guy that i have been chartting with for like for years but we haven't meet . So recently he told me that him and his girl broke up and he said he want to see me............. Plz i want to ask if is alright to add the said girl as my friend on Facebook coz i don't want to be a victim of hrt break again..i want to be sure if the guy is saying d truth....is it right or not

Re: What Should I Do Plz by TINALETC3(f): 12:08pm On Sep 24, 2017
Wen we fall out of a relationship, we hurriedly jump in 2 anoda one, nt bc we luv d person bt bc we need a shoulder to lean on. He once shared feelings wt his "ex" while u were jst a "mere" frnd. Despite d fact dat dey ar no longer 2geda,if him and his ex ar stl keeping in touch even wt jst "hi" or "greetings", it wl b 90% easier 4 d feelings he once shared wt his ex 2 reconnect dan 4 hm 2 develope genuine feelings 4 u.he may wnt 2 use u 2 cool off his pains, so Let hm b.

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Re: What Should I Do Plz by ammamat(f): 12:46pm On Sep 24, 2017
TINALETC3:
Wen we fall out of a relationship, we hurriedly jump in 2 anoda one, nt bc we luv d person bt bc we need a shoulder to lean on. He once shared feelings wt his "ex" while u were jst a "mere" frnd. Despite d fact dat dey ar no longer 2geda,if him and his ex ar stl keeping in touch even wt jst "hi" or "greetings", it wl b 90% easier 4 d feelings he once shared wt his ex 2 reconnect dan 4 hm 2 develope genuine feelings 4 u.he may wnt 2 use u 2 cool off his pains, so Let hm b.

Thanks dear.. This is d real truth coz it seems most of his family members know the said girl and most often time we charted... He always said he love d girl and majority of those time ..the girl happen to always be at his house
Re: What Should I Do Plz by ammamat(f): 12:51pm On Sep 24, 2017
Seriously I don't want to be a victim again....I think I rather stay as iam than to venture into another Un serious business
Re: What Should I Do Plz by ammamat(f): 12:56pm On Sep 24, 2017
And I notice something... Each time I try asking him something about the girl, he will short me in....he said he has been calling the girl but she is not picking blablabla
Re: What Should I Do Plz by Nobody: 12:57pm On Sep 24, 2017
ammamat:
Happy Sunday fam., plz i need advice on this matter. Have been without a relationship for awhile. There is this guy that i have been chartting with for like for years but we haven't meet . So recently he told me that him and his girl broke up and he said he want to see me............. Plz i want to ask if is alright to add the said girl as my friend on Facebook coz i don't want to be a victim of hrt break again..i want to be sure if the guy is saying d truth....is it right or not
Are you wise at all? don't add her on Facebook, just go through her profile, read her posts, check her pictures and his own.

Mehn, if you gat to do this, you have to be very smart about it.

Anyway consider his request and date him.
Re: What Should I Do Plz by Headlesschicken(m): 12:59pm On Sep 24, 2017
undecided And u had to bring dat sh!t here,how difficult can it be to make such a simple decision....
Re: What Should I Do Plz by TINALETC3(f): 1:01pm On Sep 24, 2017
It's beta, I dnt no Wat heart brakes luks like 4 now, bt d way pple describe it, I won't wish any one such. Since u hv bin dere b4, learn 4rm it and b more careful nxt time, best of luck
ammamat:
Seriously I don't want to be a victim again....I think I rather stay as iam than to venture into another Un serious business
Re: What Should I Do Plz by Shroud: 1:06pm On Sep 24, 2017
ammamat:
Happy Sunday fam., plz i need advice on this matter. Have been without a relationship for awhile. There is this guy that i have been chartting with for like for years but we haven't meet . So recently he told me that him and his girl broke up and he said he want to see me............. Plz i want to ask if is alright to add the said girl as my friend on Facebook coz i don't want to be a victim of hrt break again..i want to be sure if the guy is saying d truth....is it right or not



On a sober note, going into a relationship with one who just broke off from another relationship so soon is foolishness, as he may be looking for distraction from the hurts and pains of the failed relationship.

Besides, the oldest tricks in the dating book is claiming he just broke off with his girlfriend.

On a lighter note, You need basic writing skills more than you need a boyfriend.
Re: What Should I Do Plz by Nobody: 1:10pm On Sep 24, 2017
ammamat:
Happy Sunday fam., plz i need advice on this matter. Have been without a relationship for awhile. There is this guy that i have been chartting with for like for years but we haven't meet . So recently he told me that him and his girl broke up and he said he want to see me............. Plz i want to ask if is alright to add the said girl as my friend on Facebook coz i don't want to be a victim of hrt break again..i want to be sure if the guy is saying d truth....is it right or not


Don't believe any online guy, most of them are liars who will use you for their selfish games, I don't subscribe to online love because most guys are different from what they portray online and they will only invite you to use u for sex and company for meanwhile. don't add the girl it's childish and immature.

As for heart break, don't be scared baby girl, if it happens you get up, dust yourself, and move on.

No Man is worth your tears
Re: What Should I Do Plz by Lalas247(f): 1:11pm On Sep 24, 2017
If you need advice from his ex to know whether to date him or not
My dear you are not ready for a relationship .....
Re: What Should I Do Plz by Nobody: 1:15pm On Sep 24, 2017
no just remain friends with him, ,he just want to use you to cool off temper and when things get better with his girlfriend, he will reunite with her and push you to the mud..be wise!!
Re: What Should I Do Plz by ammamat(f): 1:19pm On Sep 24, 2017
Lalas247:
If you need advice from his ex to know whether to date him or not
My dear you are not ready for a relationship .....

Thanks so much....sometimes we get confused specially in a situation like this
Re: What Should I Do Plz by ammamat(f): 1:23pm On Sep 24, 2017
Evaberry:



Don't believe any online guy, most of them are liars who will use you for their selfish games, I don't subscribe to online love because most guys are different from what they portray online and they will only invite you to use u for sex and company for meanwhile. don't add the girl it's childish and immature.

As for heart break, don't be scared baby girl, if it happens you get up, dust yourself, and move on.

No Man is worth your tears

Thanks....not scared but dear u no is not a good experience .especially if u are this reserved type and someone u trusted so much prove u otherwise...
Re: What Should I Do Plz by ammamat(f): 1:25pm On Sep 24, 2017
Shroud:




On a sober note, going into a relationship with one who just broke off from another relationship so soon is foolishness, as he may be looking for distraction from the hurts and pains of the failed relationship.

Besides, the oldest tricks in the dating book is claiming he just broke off with his girlfriend.

On a lighter note, You need basic writing skills more than you need a boyfriend.

You can edit the post to your own satisfaction..... And u can make use of words that will be more OK for u since u are above mistakes.. Smh
Re: What Should I Do Plz by Jacktheripper: 1:28pm On Sep 24, 2017
Op give your life to Christ before it's too late
Re: What Should I Do Plz by Shroud: 1:40pm On Sep 24, 2017
ammamat:


You can edit the post to your own satisfaction..... And u can make use of words that will be more OK for u since u are above mistakes.. Smh
You ignored my positive contribution and channeled your energy into my observation of your poor write-up.

No wonder you don't have a boyfriend.

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