Even the most flirtatious and whoring woman(men inclusive) would holler: "I can't stand a cheating spouse", "I'll call it quits if I confirm he's cheating", and so on if you asked them their take on the cheating palaver. Even hos(ashis) can't stand cheating?! Wow! Lol! Would you rather tolerate a lying, thieving, fighting and angry spouse to one that cheats? I've seen grown up folks break down and cry like babies when they discovered that their loved ones have been cheating on them. Is cheating the worst and most intolerable vice in relationships? Why would you tolerate every other thing but not cheating? Be honest. Lol.

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Yes it is

Cheating is bad but the worst has to be Abuse _{any sort of Abuse}

rokiatu:

Cheating is bad but the worst has to be Abuse _{any sort of Abuse}

Would like you to define 'abuse'. Lots of women 'massacre' their men with bad mouth & bad behaviour; when the frustrated man reacts the woman starts shouting ABUSE ABUSE. Duh.

@ Topic

Yes! Cheating is the most unforgivable and worst crime in a serious relationship or marriage. There should be NO EXCUSE for it. I'd do worse than O.J Simpson if i'm ever cuckolded.

Cheating is very bad mostly if you are married and the guy or gal gives you all the attention needed and try to satisfy u in every way.

Its actually painful, when u try to pls a person and he/she is never satisfied. U go out of ur way to pls the person and he/she still goes behind ur back to cheat.

Thats brings us to this question "Why do we Cheat?"

Yes cheating is the worst. But lying, and deception are another vices on thier own.

@ pro 01

Ain't you just douchebag? Must be one sad sorry life you live! At least you didn't try to justify cheating in men!

@ Topic
Cheating is th most humuliating thing any man can ever do to his wife. The betrayal is just too much. So yes, I think cheating tops it for me!

Cheatin in marriage 100% cruel to both parties i wont tolerate it nd i pray neva a victim.but if u're my girlfriend i'll pipelow nd then reduce evrybenefit/gift to minimal 'outing' inclusive.     eez

the worst is when u cant trust to ur guy/girl anymore. either cause of cheating or lying

@Pro: You have point dear, but u can't kill 4 dat. Why is Uju always on ur case tho?

rape is the worst I guess that fall under abuse

@ deluxecad

Well he's definitely an interesting study, if you want to research 'sad and lonely' . . . Lol!

*oops, I said I was gonna give up this fighting on NL* :-/

Betrayal. Be it by cheating, lying, you name it.

Cheating is abuse. It is lying. It is saying that your spouse is not good enough. It is disrespectful. It is everything that you mentioned and more. I am not talking about someone who cheats and is repentant and works to restore their relationship. I am talking about the ones who cheat and cheat and cheat and feel like they are entitled to it. Only an immature person will say cheating is not a big deal. It is not just the act.

Anything a partner will not tolerate is bad for marriage or relationship, it must not be cheating alone.

Ujujoan:

@ pro 01

Ain't you just douchebag? Must be one sad sorry life you live! At least you didn't try to justify cheating in men!

You're a supremely obnoxious mass of putrid fat; a breathing cadaver infact. It is a mystery that your mouth (or is it fingers?) continue to spew maggots long after the rest of your body (including your brain) decayed. Great mystery indeed. You should be a tourist attraction!
***mouth agape in utter disbelief***

deluxecad:

@Pro: You have point dear, but u can't kill 4 dat.

Well thats about the only thing that can make me kill, not money or anything else. During courtship, a man & woman have sufficient time to know each other well enough so she knows his weaknesses & strengths, and he knows her's. Therefore, if she aint ok with something about the guy, WHY PROCEED TO MARRY HIM?? I don't know of any woman that was married at gunpoint!! So, for her to open up her 'entrance(s)' to another goat's microphone - on the back of some flimsy excuse of her husband's shortcomings - is the most catastrophic humiliation known to man. I'd do an O.J Simpson for that; but i'd spare the goat who bleeped her - so far it wasnt a case of despoil. He'd get my handshake instead.

I can tolerate every other misbehaviors in a relationship but cheating,

You're a supremely obnoxious mass of putrid fat; a breathing cadaver infact. It is a mystery that your mouth (or is it fingers?) continue to spew maggots long after the rest of your body (including your brain) decayed. Great mystery indeed. You should be a tourist attraction!
***mouth agape in utter disbelief***

Uh oh . . . now I've gone and angered 'it' . .