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Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by shinarlaura(f): 7:58pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
That's very very bad. She doesn't trust you. A relationship without trust is headed nowhere and if she can't talk to you about something like this then the relationship isn't going to make it. This is a relationship and so actions that affect the relationship should be decided by both partners. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Jodha(f): 8:00pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Mariinee: 80% of guys will reject the pregnancy... Her short comings is drawing into conclusions rapidly ... |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Nobody: 8:05pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Jodha: Shows how dangerous she is |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Jodha(f): 8:09pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
makydebbie: Im not tryna justify her actions....she took a wrong step and made a big mistake..shes prolly gonna regret for the rest of her life... But that doesnt change the fact that some guys are chickens...she has maybe heard stories of guys rejecting pregnancies.... There are some kinda things that will happen to yhu unexpectedly thatll make yhu not to think straight... Maybe she was under some kind of pressure.. |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Blackhawk01: 8:10pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Jodha: Did wetin for the child? Killed the child for his/her own good abi, without talking to the child's father about it? She couldn't tell her man about the pregnancy but had enough courage to tell him she aborted his child She could still get rid of the baby if her fears were confirmed after telling the guy, yunno? |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Adaumunocha(f): 8:12pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Mille:Oh my God are you kidding me? I can't begin to imagine. Hope you booted the stupid girl out? Very silly thing |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by makydebbie(f): 8:12pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Jodha:She should know her guy, someone she has been dating for long. Her action cannot be justified. She cannot think straight concerning her child? |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Jodha(f): 8:14pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
pcguru1: All im trying to say is nobody is perfect... Before he decided to relocate to another place and settle down with her....he must have seen some traits in her that are wife material... If he loves her...he'll overlook her shortcomings.. |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Adaumunocha(f): 8:15pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
H2Ossss:You suggest? You seeing a bright red flag and you suggesting they forget and move on? She didn't give the op a chance to decide on d fate of that baby... That's if its the op's to begin with. Op run faster than a cheetah 2 Likes
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Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Jodha(f): 8:17pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Blackhawk01: ... Yh yhure rght....but all im saying is ..nobody is perfect... Maybe she recieved the wrong advice..at the wrong time... |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by H2Ossss(m): 8:17pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Adaumunocha: Oga... Calm down... She made a mistake because of fear or insecurity.. If he really loves her he should be ready to forgive and move on.... Its not easy to start a new relationship 1 Like |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Jodha(f): 8:21pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
makydebbie: What if he has never showed any sign of commitment... See tension and frustration ...together with those amebo busy body advice...can make one do something...he/she will not do normally... |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Jodha(f): 8:23pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
H2Ossss: Gbaam! |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Nobody: 8:23pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
She is a foolish girl |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Blackhawk01: 8:24pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Jodha: Finally! You're getting me now. Mbanu! You can't be forced to take an advice if it doesn't suit you. She's the instigator and executor, 2in1. |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Nobody: 8:25pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Jodha:If the Op was you blood brother, would you have advised him the same thing? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by makydebbie(f): 8:26pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Jodha:Lol I'm done with this argument with you, you're trying so hard not to see sense in this. What sign of commitment are you waiting for when he's even planing to relocate because of her and planning to marry her?She's wrong she's wrong. She was never right. This is murder without telling the father. And what did she gain now telling the guy? Is she a baby that can't make decisions? Yet she can jump into conclusion and kill the child. That's extremely wicked. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Adaumunocha(f): 8:26pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
H2Ossss:When d ghen then start in marriage will you be there? If the op can forgive her and move on without bringing up the issue at d slightest provocation, let him continue. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Adaumunocha(f): 8:30pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
@Sixhours, be a bigger man and forgive her d transgression as your lord forgives you. No one is perfect. You guys need to communicate more. |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Blackhawk01: 8:31pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
FortifiedCity: I actually came back to this thread with the same question for her. |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Nobody: 8:32pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Blackhawk01:Don't mind her. That lady does not regard the guy at alllllllll and would do worst things if they eventually ended up 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Nobody: 8:36pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Jodha:Jodha.....Jodha. ...Jodha... How many times did I call you? Kpachara Anya g!!!!!! How could you even type this shyt that I quoted? From today henceforth, desist from giving relationship advice because YOU SUCK AT IT 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Blackhawk01: 8:38pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
FortifiedCity: Gbam! Gbammer!! Gbammest!!! Spot on! What's a relationship without trust and respect? Make them part ways biko. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by lilmax(m): 8:38pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Jodha:what a funny post you can see the kind of person this one should is from her posts this one can kill someone without you knowing 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Jodha(f): 8:42pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
FortifiedCity: Looolzxz yehz sir..m |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by fayded(m): 8:43pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Jodha:Imagine what u re saying. This is murder for Christ's sake. It is her fault biko. It is 100% her fault. She knows the guy she is dating and she knows that he will accept that child, because there is no way he hasn't mentioned marriage to her once or twice in d past. Besides, if she wanted go stay with him, she will keep that child. He even wants to move because of her. Pls stop absolving her of d blame. It is her fault. No two ways about it. |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Jodha(f): 8:43pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
FortifiedCity: Of course yes...i'll advice him to forgive her if he truly loves her... |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by fayded(m): 8:47pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
H2Ossss:That "2".. In ur moniker should be removed. Good, now pronounce ur moniker.. Thats exactly the people u re talking like.. Ryt now. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Augustap(f): 8:52pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Your woman did a horrible thing. To start with she was never pregnant for you or wasn't pregnant at all. That was why she didn't bother telling you of her decision to abort it. She's selfish and she's not to be trusted. On the other hand, if she was pregnant for you and aborted ur baby without telling you, it means She doesn't love you and she doesn't want a future with you, so she destroyed the only thing that may keep her tied to you. She doesn't trust you to just conclude that you'll reject her in her state. She's not going to make a good wife and mother. She killed a child without blinking, without telling you. That means in the future, she would do more terrible things and you wouldn't know about them. I'm not trying to destroy what you share but she doesn't love you, she might be cheating and she's not trustworthy 1 Like |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Jodha(f): 8:53pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
fayded: Im not saying shes right.....she is totally wrong...but hey ...no one is perfect... Maybe her over sabi syndrome is her imperfection....they can work it out... |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Kennyprince: 8:54pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
ScotFree:I love everything about the way u think and or reason bro. Girls are using our heads to much and its sad. We commit everything in a relationship and gets disappointements like this. Its terrible. Surely, she is not worth this relationship anymore |
Re: Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only by Adaumunocha(f): 8:56pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Kennyprince:You had to quote everything |
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