Peachess:

Yoruba people can be so annoying sometimes, so why were you using Yoruba English (or whatever) while addressing me? Do you think everyone is Yoruba? You guys need stop that annoying shit you do (addressing someone with Yoruba or English translated from yoruba others can't understand), not everyone is Yoruba. This not the first time it's happening. Even if seun is Yoruba, does nairaland look like a Yoruba forum to you?
For the record I don't believe in the shit called love, I just wrote a general comment some people say. If your gay ass is stuck with a dick, doesn't mean everyone is like you. Don't ever quote again ass hole.

Peachess:
.
He deserves anything I say, even worse. He got me angry this morning.

emusmithy:


Obviously: Some folks are quite immature in relating with others. You even tried to keep the convo going.

victor8269:

Be there doing Waka, beautiful girls are growing up speedily

emusmithy:


Obviously: Some folks are quite immature in relating with others. You even tried to keep the convo going.

supersystemsnig:
The challenge with falling in love is remaining in it. The human heart easily gets swayed. Takes maturity to have a mind fixated on a person and keep it there, there are too many alternatives and an undisciplined fellow, male, or female will keep jumping form one party to the next if one doesn't master his/herself.....Relationships is more about mastering one's self than any other thing

Mznaett:


Smart words...

Nobodys:
lol. Its not always easy dear. Especially when u hav bin with d person for long.. pain was d day i cried and my bf told me dat my tears doesnt move a thing in him. Gawdddd i felt like commiting suicide... Till now i stil cnt leave him no matter how we try. I feel like somthing is wrong with me...

FinallyFamous:
pls stop calling people ass hole.

Have u really taken your time to view how a asshole look like...guess u haven't..it smells and irritates...a God created being shouldn't be term as one..God bless u dear....I'm sure he will stop quoting u.

emusmithy:


Obviously: Some folks are quite immature in relating with others. You even tried to keep the convo going.

supersystemsnig:



People can't stay in casual friendships for a week

People can't stay in a church for a month

People can't stick with a clique for a session

Clients can't be loyal to a company

A Buyer can't be loyal to the seller

Apprentices can't be loyal for long to the superior. it's a sh.it mehn, people need to take back their minds and will power back

It's damn about mastering one's self over every other sh*t

We've gotta find what we like and drill it, till it becomes what we want it to be...Thus cheating, or jumping around is more about one's soulish issues, inconsistencies, and lack of awareness of one's state of self

Cheating is mostly not a partner-problem, it's a self problem. The inability to contain one's self...

Peace..Damn, i'm enjoying my cartoon tonight.. Di gbe gbe rigbe rigbe, re gbe, re gbe, re gbe... Ijo ti mo jo la na da...?



ALTERNATIVES IS THE MAIN KILLER OF RELATIONSHIPS.... THE POSSIBILITY OF ANOTHER WILL COME IS WHAT KILLS THE ABILITY TO CHANNEL THE BEST INTO RELATIONSHIPS...AND IT HAS AN EXHAUSTION POINT...

MissJoy29:

Wow! Too much sense in one post

Rokia2:
He don't look at you the same. Try looking deep into h is eyes you will see how he truly feels about you.

He looks at you cry without consoling you. (He's now heartless with no sympathy towards you.

Everything is your fault. Every argument is turned against you. You are the cause of everything.




You feel lonely when you are with him. He's there but you are more lonely then when you was even single


Your nak--end-e-ss don't even move him anymore. He's no longer attracted to you.

Sex becomes blah and boring.

His kissing feels different.

He's now too busy for you. He don't call much he barely text he don't even take you on dates anymore.

He don't remember your anniversary neither your birthday. You are no longer important to him.


He's easily irritable around you. Every little thing piss him off about you.


You now have a billion bad ways he start looking for every fault. Faults you never even knew existed is now invented by him.


He don't share his deepest feelings with you anymore. He becomes a total Stranger.

He no longer shows concern. If you like you can stay out till 2am (none of his business)

Your heart and instinct is now telling you that this man is no longer in love with you but like the love sick fool that you are you are still in denial.

supersystemsnig:



Thank you ma. I'm thinking of making a more detailed post, to expand my views on why alternative is the main relationships' killer..

Thanks once again

Your siggy makes decent sense too

riyanxeally:
theres nothing like love honestly if people would understand that thing doesn't exist.....

supersystemsnig:
The challenge with falling in love is remaining in it. The human heart easily gets swayed. Takes maturity to have a mind fixated on a person and keep it there, there are too many alternatives and an undisciplined fellow, male, or female will keep jumping form one party to the next if one doesn't master his/herself.....Relationships is more about mastering one's self than any other thing

Peachess:

Yoruba people can be so annoying sometimes, so why were you using Yoruba English (or whatever) while addressing me? Do you think everyone is Yoruba? You guys need stop that annoying shit you do (addressing someone with Yoruba or English translated from yoruba others can't understand), not everyone is Yoruba. This not the first time it's happening. Even if seun is Yoruba, does nairaland look like a Yoruba forum to you?
For the record I don't believe in the shit called love, I just wrote a general comment some people say. If your gay ass is stuck with a dick, doesn't mean everyone is like you. Don't ever quote again ass hole.

MissJoy29:

I picked four things here that can summarize what is wrong with today's relationships/ marriage:
1) Immaturity.
2) Indiscipline.
3) Lack of self control.
4) Lack of contentment.

These are the reasons we have unstable, unhealthy, short-term, abusive, one-sided, decaying, relationships/marriages.

The saddest part is that it will only get worse & not better in this world filled with so much selfishness and wickedness. May God help us

supersystemsnig:
Blackhawk01, do you hate me this much ?

Boyooosa:

I perceive ur rage from here and am actually sorry for ur lazy hoe.
Sorry, I know what actually triggered your rant, not the Yoruba English aspect, hell no! But the part that stung you to trauma was the part of 'being stuck to one useless dee high cee Kay' and I pray it doesn't choke u to death.
You made a mistake by replying in that manner, had it been u were a lil bit more patient, I would have mentioned that you had hope.

Blackhawk01:


And where is this question coming from?

supersystemsnig:


It boils than to personal issues.Many problems even in business are self-oriented, and not the other party. If people resolve to make their relationship " the one ", it will work. I will share insights in a broader article, however people treat their relationships as just another one. Hence, the ability to bring out the best and nourish the relationship isn't dear.

Let me paint an illustration, when Jesus was about to become burdened with his earthly assignment, he branched at the garden of Gethsemane, but why? He needed to see Himself as the only one, and not just the one. If people treat relationships, people businesses as the last one, then the strength, desire, inner will and zeal to put their best into it will come out. That's why i mentioned alternatives earlier. If a young man keeps seeing money, he says another will come and keep squandering till the money finishes.

Good people are exhaustible, and people should grind the relationships life brings to their path as the last channel their best into it, and be hopeful, yet objective.Simple.Self preservation kills relationships, oh i don't want to be hurt. Men are scums, women are oloshos, people are scared of committing themselves realistically not to be tagged names like too emotional, sick, weak, woman wrapper, the list goes on. If we put our focus that relationships are crucial to our plan to attain our goals and to be fulfilled in life, then we can approach it with a clear sense of purpose and pursuit


I'll shed more light much later, i hope i have tome to write...

Peachess:

You mods when he has been picking on me no one will say anything but when I start nobody should ban me o.
If your mum is a hoe doesn't make every female one. Take your leaking smelling gay ass off my comment SOAB! It's obvious they didn't raise you right that's why you talk this way.

MissJoy29:

Made sense again especially in the second to the last paragraph. I myself have been self-preserving as you call it. To avoid more hurts you know. But I try to convince myself that I will go ALL OUT again when I meet the right person. But on the other hand I ask myself still, "how do you meet the right person to go ALL OUT again when you hold back?"

PS: I modified my earlier post. I added something vital I omitted.

chiraqDemon:

Lol I try but im making good progress. But im staying away from women for now, it's a scary world out there right now.

Lol
It is well with you!

emusmithy:


Lols, Mzpecs

How you doing?

Nice thread...

chiraqDemon:
He doesn't get jealous, eg my ex was always busy telling me about the guys that hit on her n I was like oh, lol. Ok. In my mind I was like u won't go let them Bleep u like im doing, come and open pant lemme do my business and let u out the door.

On the other hand I can pretend well and give good advice even when i really don't care, that's one thing that fooled my ex, I broke up n she was like u were the only one that was always there for me. In my mind I was like I was only there for the poosy, stop calling me shuu.

frenzyduchess:
Micheal is that you