Peachess:
Sorry if I sounded round tho

did you mean rude?

Nigga must be rich

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

Go and read your books first.

fabiano09:
did you mean rude?

Yeah, typographical error.

Peachess:
Yeah, typographical error.

alright, no biggie,maybe I came on too strong with my opinions,apologies.

BigSarah:


I wasn't rejected well technically, he doesn't know it's me you talentless slowpoke no take me kick-start your comedy career

Lmao

BigSarah:




doesn't really sound like a cool move to me, I can't do that my phone memory is full sef ayam not ready to delete shii

keep on dulling yourself, well it all depends on the guy, I think he doesn't like you

dollyjoy:
Your d.p though. Hmmmm. I won't advise my brother to take your type serious.

how is yours any decent than hers?

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

well naturally women no sabi toast the opposite. If na man na, na to call her frame up one story and ask that we meet. Use same method, call him with ur real no...tell him you got his no, from group chat, ask if he knows how to do this or that....from there u start

IamAirforce1:
You don't deserve a reasonable reply with that pic up your profile ..

guy...you harsh sooo

Lalas247:
Evening ... how u dey U just no wan free me abi

fyn aunt,no i cant,i tink u shuld knw y

BigSarah:


Scam boys me that don't reply pm

No i meant the guy you're crushing on now. He might think you're male pretending to be female.
I once had some dude text me and call pretending to be female when i called the number, they picked up and tried faking female voice but i knew straight away. that was a long time ago though.
Just give yourself space is all.

fabiano09:

alright, no biggie,maybe I came on too strong with my opinions,apologies.

No problem...

IamAirforce1:

It's not funny bro

Go check the hideous photo

This ones think sey na every guy their naked photo dey move

Did anybody save that photo? I want to see cos it obviously has been changed

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

So atlast you see what guys are facing when you girls do Shakara and turn them down.

Just get close to one of his relative

IamAirforce1:

Only a Pussy nigga with no taste would fall for that classless girl up her profile .

See as everything don fall finish

She don take the Hideous photo down .

Oga calm down nah. Why u have to always take everything so personal bro U dont have the problem of the world on ur shlder.

It would have been very easy telling him straight up that you love him if he has my kind of mind set who sees girl advances as normal and perfect. But for the fear that he may see you as a cheap hoe, you can start by telling him that he looks like your love that passed away and that each time see him, he reminds you of the guy and that you wish he was really the guy . Trust me,by so doing, you would have successfully planted a seed of love in him and you will see him running after you. But please when he comes, don't be in a hurry to say yes. You can say he should give you a little time to think about it. Follow my advice and come pay me later in cash and kind,because it will surely work for you.

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

i lyk ur name.. "Sarah"! ......
that been said, just b normal n b ur usual self.if he says he doesnt want u, den u need2 let him b but always b polite, if u cnt stop lykin him den say helo each tym u c him wit a smile n dats it...he's likely to come knockin one dae. twud av been much easier if he didnt kno it was u all along

take this piece of advice: No matter how attracted you are as a lady towards any guy, do not be the one to make the move... let him be the one to make the move... and if he doesn't make the move, make him make the move without him knowing u are interested in him. perhaps u are wondering how u go about that! its easy.... find his weakness and work on it !!!

[quote author=Dasherz post=61424594]
thank you. .. I gave her a piece of advice after she changed the pic. ..

thanks for being nice.
It's a pleasure...

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

Listen ma'am, though it's coming late.
This guy in question is being sensitive and careful not to fall into any test whatsoever maybe from her female friends or Girlfriend. To him, someone maybe her babe is using you as a bait to test his fidelity. It's normal to act that way.
The game is... Nada is spoilt yet. I applaud your boldness in reaching out first and coming here to seek for help. You ain't shy... Tell yourself that. You only see him as your weakness. Happens to most girls.
Now is time to come out from faking or pretence and let him know it's you. Tell him; "That actually he has passed the test of not falling easily on every girl stranger and taking advantage of them...You're a real or the man".
Tell him something to boost his ego, with this you now have a safe landing of introducing yourself.
Do not change account of whatsoever. Some guys too like to be chased. Yes some.
From there... Do not start avoiding or faking pretence. Watch him to know if he's going to call, text and fix dates. Mind you he might have a serious relationship which he wouldn't want you to come in between. He might also want something better and you could be an option.
I once again applaud your boldness in believing in you. You're beautiful always tell yourself that every morning while facing your makeup mirror. Nobody online has any right to make you feel bad of yourself or low of yourself.
Beauty is beyond superficial traits and it's only in the eye of the beholder. They won when you changed your dp... Lol. Love yourself, who cares? It's your life, millions would kill to have you replace some of their girlfriends. Buh they ain't gon speak cos of where we are.
Go for what your heart longs for. If he's yours, would turn around. If he's not... Someone better would come around.

@ DedeNkem and Peterosky have said it all. Be real!
Stay motivated and goodluck.
Bless up ma'am.

BigSarah:


But if I'm djcuppy it'd be alright, please enough about my pictures I need help

.nting wrong with d pix sha....

maybe i am nt seeing what der saw

Lol,i understand your situation my dear but you played it all the wrong way.u have to start all over again,some girl made such move on me but she ended up angering me and i saw her as a stalker.

U can act like my gf ,she started like a friend, developed interest in my class performance and most things concerning me,became friends with most of my friends ,little by little i started liking her ,i tried to play a fast one on her but she didnt make it any easy for me. I fell for her and ended up asking her out,she didnt even accept right away but now we're two years into the relationship. It was later she told me she fell madly in love the first day she set her eyes on me but she had to come up with a good plan to get things done her way. Try this im sure it will work on him..U can PM for more details. I'll be glad to help u out

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

Are you for real and you think someone that knows you won't stumble on this your post when your picture is on your profile. #smh

BigSarah:


I wasn't rejected well technically, he doesn't know it's me you talentless slowpoke no take me kick-start your comedy career

hahh!! Aunty you can vex o

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell
him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

Take the advise about being a close pal to him and never ever let him know u were the gal with the strange number. I would like to help you with dat but send me a mail on hr.anniversaryclick.com@gmail.com for further info.

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U didn't tell us if u have a guy already or not. U should do it old school, give him a clear green light and allow him to the necessary. And what if this guy is already in love with another girl? U should watch ur emotions before u end up hurting urself and regretting ever being too cheap...don't approach this guy urself physically, if u do...then he will leave u sooner than u expect him to.

The guy is a douchebag.... He had no idea the amount of courage you summoned from the seven rivers of your daddy's village... How dare he? That singular act should have killed every iota of what looks like love to you....

You need someone to slap you back to yours senses ... Just call my name... I'll be there

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

IamAirforce1:

Only a Pussy nigga with no taste would fall for that classless girl up her profile .

See as everything don fall finish

She don take the Hideous photo down .

Airforce1 the classfull lad � are you happy now? oya clap for yourself

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

. ehhh so it's you all this while