oloyolo:


ma guy if u no wan spend, dey on your own. any one come find you come, you go know say na she find trouble.

Hahaha...my guy, technically you are right. When you are on your Lane, you save yourself stress.

justphillips:


Please who fathered the father that fathered You?

i don't know what to say to you.. Cos it's obvious you're frustrated

date better girl, u no gree hear, how u go benefit anything good?

Jimi23:


Then be ready to be fvcking yourself bro. Who said foreign ladies don't like money? You are in your own on this.

it is people like you that justifies this madness. you overate sex too much.

kay29000:
I guess we benefit sex. I don't complain about girls being too materialistic again...as long as she gives me what I want, when I want it, I am cool. But when I eventually breakup with her, she shouldn't complain about me using her, because it really was a business contract.

you are on point. Ladies always like to play the victim card when dumped meanwhile in most situation it was the guy wasting his resources

muller101:
Leave girls alone. They are destiny killers

hehehehehe. i beg i no fit laugh. Its not fair tagging them that way. However the bad mentality of some of them is appalling. And we the guys aid and abet them to continue with our actions towards them.

kenonze:
Some questions are better not asked

God bless those boobs

TosinDru:

Sex is beneficial to both of us, but lavishing my cash, it is to your advantage only.

Tell me you're not after sex too

No mind them with pretending. after they will start complaining that the guy no dey last long.

laliga01:


Lolx....liers will go to hell, so my Bible says.

Formicators go there too, ur Bible didn't tell u dat

zexy2030:

Formicators go there too, ur Bible didn't tell u dat

Lolx...really!! Which verse of the Bible? You must be a genius.

laliga01:


Lolx...really!! Which verse of the Bible? You must be a genius.

Rev.20:8

ReinaFarine:
Just gonna say this... There's a difference between dating a girl and having a good woman...
When you're dating a little 'pepper Dem gal', then you have the whole... I paid her this... I bought her that.. I took her here... And all... But when you have a real woman, you see everything you do together as an investment... You don't just buy her 'candy' and 'Christmas clothes' and think that entitles you to her coochie... You invest in her future... I expect my woman to be independent.. Have a means of supporting my little earnings and all those ish our 'men's say.. Question is... What steps are you taking to develop her... To make her grow from the little girl that needs you to buy her #200 airtime to a woman that can support your family of four when things are tight for you...
I ain't saying stingyasshoes don't exist... All I'm saying is don't spend invest...
And a real woman... Not a cumluving sexpert will want a man that is there for his family... It shows his responsible and the kind of man he will be when y'all get married....
By investing I mean...
Tell her about job opportunities relating to her field... Do a little research for her...
Tell her about skills of hers she can develop and market... Like writing, baking, hair dressing, etc.
Talk to her about courses she's having difficulties in and think of solutions...

Okay...
Tori time over..
If you invest in your gal... You'll get a woman...
You'll get someone you can talk to... Women are empathetic and fixers.. So she might help you see things from a different perspective...
Women are loyal...
You will have someone that always have your back...
You get to laugh....
You get good food
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And ofcourse, you get the coochie..


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New to NL
Forgive me if I break some rules...

first of all welcome to nairaland, I like your point of reasoning... I learnt something from it.... May God give you the man you desire... You think differently not like some Ladies who always think they are meant to be pleased, beg or worship for their time, love and affection

na help we de give dem as we be dere oga