What kinds of mistakes do guys frequently make on the first date or two that really turn you off, and make you realize that things are just not going to work out?

well i kiss on the first date just to make sure he is a good kisser and if he is not, then there is no point wasting my time.

@ ima1, y don't we go out on a date?

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Mostly being a pretty face with no substance. . .having a whole lot of vacant space behind the eyes

Ewww! Zat wz mean.
Actually believe dt's the exclusive preserve of girls .

I met this guy, we were friends for a while until he asked me out, I told him to give me some time to think things through and he was fine with it, few days later, I was talking to a male friend on the phone and when I dropped the phone, the guy started asking me who I was talking with, I told him, he flipped, and he started yelling, telling me not to talk to any opposite sex because i'm his girl

Immediately, I reminded him " boy u asked me out, and I didnt say yes, atleast not yet, so I'm not your girl"

We were talking about something later, I cant remember, then he started arguing with me, telling me what was right and what was wrong, he said so many wrong things and I tried to correct him, but he wont listen,

One other thing, i cant stand his english, his english puts the T in Terrible, I always correct him in a nice way but the pride in him wont make him listen to me

HE was a control freak, has always being a control freak, so I turned him down, that was how I knew things wont work out between us if we ever get together.

lol

Poster,

Am sorry but I dont do this. Am not this kinda person.

Whatever mistakes he has done on the first date, I would talk to him about it instead of breaking it up and not calling him anymore and bladibladibla because I believe that everyone deserves a second chance.

I mean like hey, how do you feel if you go on your first date and you thought everything went smoothly but instead the guy just did not call you anymore and did not ask of you at all and you keep wondering to yourself, what have you done wrong?

I mean this is just plain evil and mean.

People are bound to have flauss whether you like it or not and its up to you both to work it.

If lets say I told the guy and he does not want to change at all, than fine. I might consider leaving him and not going to go for anymore dates but if he made the effort, I will be please.

So people, before taking any actions, always try to put yourself in the other person's shoe. How would you feel if you were that person

watch and pray!

@factorchi
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@factorchi
I will like to meet you, friends... it will be my pleasure. Holla at me PM

Egbon, did you bother checking the date of this thread?. And the last time she came online.

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