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| I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by deafeyez: 12:18pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
I have been an introvert or maybe a shy guy who can never hold a conversation with anyone not even my father or mother, brothers or sisters. I am just different in the family. What hurts most is that I don't have friends except to who called to demand for help. But hey my convo are always straight that after giving the answer the convo dies and I hardly smile. However, I am trying to do one thing now, SMILES. I want to learn how to smile and do away with the stern look as well as having free mind instead of being suspicious all the time. I just smiled at one of my Senior in my work place and he shook my hands. I think I am beginning to live a new life. 6 Likes |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Habiodunz(m): 12:21pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
OK Goodluck O dabo |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Dasherz(f): 12:29pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
I swear given a choice I won't choose to be an introvert. .. it sucks .. really sucks I can only get to express myself better when I think I'm quite comfortable with whoever is around me asides that I just try to live normally on the net.. but recently I've decided to defy my nature, step out there; make friends in school and church. . at least baby steps 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Oluwamuyeewa(m): 12:35pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Your difference makes you unique and trust me There are millions of people like you out there,but there are 2 things to do: 1. Know yourself and what works for you,apply it to whatever you do( career/education) and success will follow 2. Escape reality with the use of drugs like Molly(green/pink),Percocet and codeine and other substances you can get your hands on to make you feel closer to yoursel and apply that to whatever you do and you’ll surely come out successful too... NB there are side effects for this option Lastly,make friends with people who are deep minded like you..! |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by illegal7(m): 12:39pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Dasherz: As an introvert...I think I perfectly understand what you meant by baby steps .it's no step at all. It really sucks being an introvert tho I really do love my reserved nature . |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Nobody: 12:43pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Dasherz:Come to my house and smile for me na  |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Raph01: 12:52pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
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| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Raph01: 12:52pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
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| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Nobody: 12:59pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Raph01:I be born again oh Always reading my bible |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Gentlevin: 1:19pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Well to some of u that thinks being an introvert sucks, its your opinion but I sure do love my quiet life...from home to work and back home......once home, I lock myself indoor.....I spend most of my time online and if there is light watch movies.....I LOVE MY QUIET LIFE.....don't just like noisy and troublesome environment.......(but I feel more happy and chat more with some1 I really like and cherish, e.g my mum) 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Nobody: 1:54pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Being an introvert/shy person really sucks I recently met one nice guy on fb, we have being chatting for the past 6months but anytime dude ask to see me, am always giving an excuse.not because i dont want to see him With ma phone u go think say i be one extrovert like that 4 Likes |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by IAMSASHY(f): 2:49pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
 d best tin Dat hv eva happened to me is being an introvert, I dnt regret being one, pple get wahala abeg, being on my own has bin d best, few times I tried to mix wt dem, I end up getting in2 trouble. I wud rather punch my keyboard and chat wt strangers dan talk 2 my neighbors.7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by deafeyez: 3:17pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Gentlevin: Wow that is nice. But y am I different, I can't have a lengthy conversations with my mom or other people. Y is it so. Not even online or offline. Or maybe I am asking for too much. |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Nobody: 3:32pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Been an introvert is not easy oo. |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Gentlevin: 3:44pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
IAMSASHY:hmmmm babe u just said it all........anything that will disturb my peace , I stay far away from it.....my neighbours just see me come out in d morning to work and see me back in d evening and seen no where again till next morning.....in fact they are even afraid to talk to me.....na sir dem they take greet me self.....I like it that way cos I earn my respect.......but chat more freely online cos we can't see each other.....I like my peace.... 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Nobody: 3:45pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Gentlevin: how can i regret sometin good as that.... I love my personal space, nd i can socialise if i feel like... Just that making a friend, keeping one.... dats errorcode to me  1 Like |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Dasherz(f): 3:46pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
CEEcey: I've also been ditching dates too. .. and unfortunately for me the last time Í managed to go for one the guy ended up being a blabber. . just kept talking and was extremely noisy. . I just gave up. . from lecture halls to the hostel than to church .. that's just my life 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Gentlevin: 3:47pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
deafeyez:well bro I don't know about your mum.....but my mum is one that love gist a lot. So once there is gist, I just give her the attention and also flow along but if d gist is getting too long, I will just slyly tell my mum that I have work to do (but na lie oooo, just to end d long gist)... 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Dasherz(f): 3:48pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
zenmaster:Lol. .. crazy dude |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Gentlevin: 3:49pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
hinky:But u can start by making online friends since u won't get to see them.....maybe get to meet them when u feel like.... |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Nobody: 3:50pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
deafeyez:How does being an introvert necessarily mean you'd be shy and can't keep a conversation or at least smile back at people?. That's nothing near introversion. As an introvert; I talk less, listens more, and when I ever have the urge to engage people in conversations, I do. I exhibit shyness depending on the environment I found myself 'cause I'm not shy around my family members and friends, neither am I living a reclusive life among my siblings but I love my space when I want to stay quiet. Perhaps, you're a different type of introvert who took introversion to a whole new level. Need I remind you that these traits you mentioned are in your biology and you can't change that but there's room for improvement. Being an introvert doesn't suck. Just learn how to have your quiet moments and relate that to how you relate with people. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Nobody: 4:06pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Dasherz:I dey serious oh. . . .  |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Dasherz(f): 4:09pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
zenmaster:chat me up after reincarnation I'll smile for you 24/7 |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Heloct(f): 4:12pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Introvert smiles. Don't they? If you think being an introvert has been taking you far from opportunities, then, try to be a little more outgoing. Start by being friendly and complimenting your friends or colleagues. Tell them they are nice and every good thing about them. This would leave them to open up to you more. And that's when you will find it easy to commune with them. |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by jorion(m): 4:15pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
The more I interacted with people the more I realized that being introverted was a blessing. No need having 100 friends and still feel hollow inside. But on my own, I'm either programming or presently participating in total ifp MOOC. No dull moment when I'm alone 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Cuteamigo1(m): 4:16pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
its embarrassing sometimes. let me give you an example. thier was a day at the bank i was on cue and when i got to the teller she said are we fighting, i said no she said why am i frowning and smiled and said that is my normal facial expression and we all laughed. then i went for my nysc clearance and my LI was like why you de bon face and i was just feeling very normal and i remembered my encounter at the bank and smiled again. then thier was a day i went to snap a passport photograph and the photographer was like oga smile now and i was KUKU KILL ME, this my introverted altitude will not conquer me anymore. av started smilling more, and that has earned me more friends both male and female. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by ayoblinks(m): 4:18pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Cuteamigo1: 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by hanassholesolo: 4:36pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Dasherz: Introvert girls are cute. Not the same for guys though. |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Dasherz(f): 4:38pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
hanassholesolo:You. .. been long I got your mention |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by hanassholesolo: 4:46pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Dasherz: Really? Are you someone I know? |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Darkseid(m): 5:05pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
The problem with the OP is not introversion but low low self-esteem. I'm an introvert too but still everybody wants to be around me. I don't talk much but when I do, I always put smile on people's face and I smile a lot too, I guess smile draws people closer. So Mr. OP try to work on your self-esteem. I won't give up introversion for 10 million dollars. Extroverted life sucks. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Learning How To Smile At People, Introvert Must Go. by Nobody: 5:49pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
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