this must be thread #59087 on this issue.

afrobaby:

u answered the question urself, it's just becos it's the first, just like your first car, your first house, your first job, anything that happens first oonly leaves a memory that last longer
av u heard of first impression last longer, just like that
any cure, I dont know of any, but all the same, just avoid as much as possible to talk about him/ her in the presence of your present love, cos it hurts

This your analogy no go at all because can't remember alot of my first stuffs especially phone.

I can never forget my first love.

He was a bastard to the core.
Still trying to move on since 4years ago.

I can't forget the wild things we did, it was love all the way, till i moved, we're STILL in touch.

Felibaby:

I can never forget my first love.

He was a naughty person to the core.
Still trying to move on since 4years ago.

Yes mine was a spiteful peace of work.

Big deal.

I had way too many 'first loves' until I met the perfect one.

It is the ladies that make it a big deal.

Why did the moderator change my words. i wrote bastar, d and not naughty.

love is a gift rare and dear so at the first encounter is always strong and due to the fact that ladies are relationship oriented the first ever love encounter is an indelible mark to their souls very difficult to erase.

Do not forget your first love is usually those you married or are still with. It does not necessarily mean the first person you dated. You may or may not have loved this person

In many cases the first love is the one they married after so many trials.

I hope you can now see why they are hard to forget?

dancewith:

Do not forget your first love is usually those you married or are still with. It does not necessarily mean the first person you dated. You may or may not have loved this person

In many cases the first love is the one they married after so many trials.

I hope you can now see why they are hard to forget?

Exactly!

Not forgetting a first love doesn't necessarily mean your still in love with the person or if the opportunity came again to date the person you would cease it!

coz d first love na im enter d place

onc4all:

Why is to hard to forget your first love ??

Cos its a reminder of your first failure!

Gbam.

*DEATH*

It's quite difficult to forget your first love because she's the first person you ever had a relationship with.

The heart can't forget d first person that showed it love outside home.

It reminds me of the energy, time and resources lost when my head wasn't matured in that context. Poor me! Now i'm a great tutor in relationship.

4get first lv, with the way the world is turning into some gals neva had it at the back of their mind, whether a guy is first or not . They still cheat and double date. If i matters most to them infidelity would not have been rampant in this country, especially amongst women.

its hard to forget cos when you think of love, the name comes to mind unless you are not ready to be involved in anythin that has to do wit love

hey poster its not peculiar to every one cos for me i actually cant even  remember my first luv was

i think say na only me, men i neva still 4get my 1st love,

I won't lie, this post made me to remember her because i forgot all about my first love long time ago

Well, are talking about first love or first sex? The main reason why many find the "first love thing" difficult is because there was sex. Trust me guys, If there was no sex, all you are left with is a fuzzy cute feeling for the person and nothing more!

Just like anything that's a first, you generally don't forget it, then there's the standard thing, you use it to weigh against your next relationships, I think

That's why he's the 1st now, you guys shared everything together,

He knew you before anybody, well, did, lol

Dont' worry Old things pass away, so that new things come to stay

waooo:

coz d first love na im enter d place

i dnt think many of u really understood d thread topic or may be d poster himself. In my own understanding of first love does'nt mean that u must hv had a intimacy wt him or her. Your first love might be a platonic relationship(correct me if am wrong) which u cn still cherish a lot unless if d poster mean your ''first intimacy'' which i knw is unforgetable too,sex is nt love.
As for me my first love is different frm my first relationship that ended on a platonic affair bt yet i cherished it more than my first intimacy wt d girl i didnt love to move wt bt we actually had a couple of intimacy wt bt i dnt cherished her wheneva d flashback thot came to me.

Your mind is messing with you.

beejaei:

Your mind is messing with you.

be specific coz u didn't point out were u dìsagree wt me lets analyse it?

chidyke77:

i dnt think many of u really understood d thread topic or may be d poster himself. In my own understanding of first love does'nt mean that u must hv had a intimacy wt him or her. Your first love might be a platonic relationship(correct me if am wrong) which u cn still cherish a lot unless if d poster mean your ''first intimacy'' which i knw is unforgetable too,intimacy is nt love.
As for me my first love is different frm my first relationship that ended on a platonic affair bt yet i cherished it more than my first intimacy wt d girl i didnt love to move wt bt we actually had a couple of intimacy wt bt i dnt cherished her wheneva d flashback thot came to me.

I agree with you, my first love had nothing to do with s e x , it was platonic, and not so long ago, but I still wish I could boil him in hot palm oil.

prototype

na beans? first second third fourth fifth . . . . infinity, they're all in the memory stored away

ibkaye:

Just like anything that's a first, you generally don't forget it, then there's the standard thing, you use it to weigh against your next relationships, I think

Who is your first love? Ralph?

chamotex:

Who is your first love? Ralph?

Lol, what?

A visitor to a lunatic asylum found one of the inmates rocking back and forth in a chair cooing repeatedly in a soft, contented manner, “Lulu, Lulu, ”

“What’s this man’s problem?” he asked the doctor.

“Lulu. She was the woman who jilted him,” was the doctor’s reply.

As they proceeded on the tour they came to a padded cell whose occupant was banging his head repeatedly against the wall and moaning, “Lulu, Lulu, .”

“Is Lulu this man’s problem too?” asked the visitor.

“Yes,” said the doctor. “He’s the one Lulu finally married.”


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Lesson => There are only two afflictions in life: not getting what you are attached to; and getting what you are attached to.

^^^^^^Lol interesting

ibkaye:

Lol, what?

Tell me about ur 1st love