THE AMAKA:

it depends on how we left off, a good note or a bad one. . .
but after that, it still depends on what he needs it for.

if not that. . . his arse can get on the bus!!!

Kemi and Debo broke up close to a year ago after 2years together, they both agreed their constant bickering, breaking up and making up is a sure sign the affair had run its course.
Kemi has since moved on and is now engaged to Mike with their marriage in 3 months, she gets a call from Debo that he is in a financial mess and that his house and car has been repossessed by the bank; he needs her help but more urgently he needs her car to pick up her mum from the airport and ferry her around for a week before she returns home. [size=14pt]Kemi's car was an engagement gift from Mike [/size]and she is wary of how to tell him about Debo's request more so because she was close to his mum while they were dating.

The issue here is should she tell Mike about it, decline Debo's request or lie to Mike and help out her ex?

kech:

Some of you guys are missing the important info here! Look at the bolded. Please she should not give out her car ooo. If it were her own car, bought with her own money, she can think about whether to lend it to him or not. This is a car her fiance gave her as an ENGAGEMENT gift. She shouldn't even disrespect her fiance by doing that. In fact, i think for her sake and the sake of the life she'll soon start with her fiance, she SHOULD NOT ask the fiance for permission. Seriously, what's she going to say? "Honey, can I lend out the car you gave me to me ex for a week?" But you guys, check it naa. Is that not grounds for questioning the relationship?  Meanwhile doesn't the man have other friends he can ask? Why does it have to be her? He's going to get her into trouble. The girl had better respect herself ooo. A word is enough for the wise.

PS: If she feels soooooo obligated to lend her ex a car, she should go and borrow or rent one for him. Then when her fiance catches her, we convene back here on NL to give advice.