guys, if you dont want trouble and disappointment, dont lend money to a lady.. ladies are known to be good in this- borrowing and refusing to pay back..

i have experienced this so many times...
save yourselves the stress and keep your money. they dont pay back..some will start seeing you as an enemy, once you demand for your money....

Sauce?

Skinnydude! are you so skinny even to the extent of being skinny with money?

What kind of ladies have u been with?

and this is romantic because?.....

that one na 1chance tin

SUGARBEE:
Skinnydude! are you so skinny even to the extent of being skinny with money?

calm down, d op isnt entirely wrong...some are like that, but not all girls

Immanueladebol:
Sauce?

me

ladyF:
What kind of ladies have u been with?

ladies suck me dried during my school days,...am yet to recover my loses

Quite so. A lot of them hardly pay back. Especially the ones you're amorously linked with or the ones you're wooing. Only lend the money if it's something you can forgo. It's best if it's someone you are not in a relationship with and has never made passes at.

SUGARBEE:
Skinnydude! are you so skinny even to the extent of being skinny with money?

lol... am not skinny with money, dear. that is an observation. fact

hkidola00:
calm down, d op isnt entirely wrong...some are like that, but not all girls

guy...the ones i have met are like that... i have even heard 'stories' from people. even on nairaland

nacosprof:
ladies suck me dried during my school days,...am yet to recover my loses

Hehehe na u no open eye

please OP it goes both ways

the guy I lent money to buy sweets in secondary school still avoids me when I ask for my money back lol

SkinnyDude:
me

What i do is dz,weneva am lending anyone money and am having a feeling dat t il b hard 4 me to gt t back,i leave t as charity.

ronald4lif:
Quite so. A lot of them hardly pay back. Especially the ones you're amorously linked with or the ones you're wooing. Only lend the money if it's something you can forgo. It's best if it's someone you are not in a relationship with and has never made passes at.

the girl who has been owing me for almost 3years (though i have forgotten the money. it is a bad debt now) i didnt make passes at her. just a sister to my friend.

SkinnyDude:
lol... am not skinny with money, dear. that is an observation. fact

hkidola00:
calm down, d op isnt entirely wrong...some are like that, but not all girls

Why can't Naija guys act gentlemanly for once? As a guy, you borrowed a girl money and you still have the nerve to go back and ask her for the money? You're a big disgrace if you don't know

SkinnyDude:
guy...the ones i have met are like that... i have even heard 'stories' from people. even on nairaland

I don't think its a ladies thing. Some pple don't just like paying back when u lend them money. Guys inclusive.

Stop borrowing people money that u cannot forfeit, u should always factor in the possibility of them NOT paying u back.

Immanueladebol:
What i do is dz,weneva am lending anyone money and am having a feeling dat t il b hard 4 me to gt t back,i leave t as charity.

i cant leave as charity, because i will feel cheated. and i hate that feeling. i dont cheat people, and i hate it when am cheated...

SUGARBEE:




Why can't Naija guys act gentlemanly for once? As a guy, you borrowed a girl money and you still have the nerve to go back and ask her for the money? You're a big disgrace if you don't know

Lol but iz borrow u borrow the person na, nothing "ungentlemanly" in asking for ur money back, if you ask me....

ladyF:

I don't think its a ladies thing. Some pple don't just like paying back when u lend them money. Guys inclusive.

Stop borrowing people money that u cannot forfeit, u should always factor in the possibility of them NOT paying u back.

but why do guys always pay me back?. my guys dont waste time. no stories

SUGARBEE:




Why can't Naija guys act gentlemanly for once? As a guy, you borrowed a girl money and you still have the nerve to go back and ask her for the money? You're a big disgrace if you don't know

hahaha.... madam you are funny. we dont run charity organization.

Jst FF the simple rule ; Don't lend what you cannot afford to lose. Simple!

SkinnyDude:
but why do guys always pay me back?. my guys dont waste time. no stories

Some guys don't pay back. U need to hear some stories, u will almost cry! I have a set limit on the amount I can borrow, except ure a family member.

SkinnyDude:
i cant leave as charity, because i will feel cheated. and i hate that feeling. i dont cheat people, and i hate it when am cheated...

Make i ask o,have once dated/eyed her?

ladyF:

Lol but iz borrow u borrow the person na, nothing "ungentlemanly" in asking for ur money back, if you ask me....

Lol I know Bae, but what I mean is can they go back and collect money from a girl they are in a relationship with?

SkinnyDude:
hahaha.... madam you are funny. we dont run charity organization.

Hahaha you funny

now, i called this girl 20times, she didnt answer. next, her phone was switched off. is it a crime to have a female friend in this obodo 9ja??

Immanueladebol:
Make i ask o,have once dated/eyed her?

even if i have...

SkinnyDude:
the girl who has been owing me for almost 3years (though i have forgotten the money. it is a bad debt now) i didnt make passes at her. just a sister to my friend.

Hmmm...maybe she thinks you can easily forget it since she's a friend to sis. Are you two friends? How did the conversation of lending her money came about?

SkinnyDude:
even if i have...

it ill go a long way in u getting t back or nt