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Re: My Girlfriend Masturbates But Doesn't Want To Have Sex Very by Nobody: 9:54pm On Nov 06, 2017
Lucifer1419:
god bless your advice I appreciate it alot
hian! God's name mentioned because of fornicating tactics

Re: My Girlfriend Masturbates But Doesn't Want To Have Sex Very by Nobody: 10:14pm On Nov 06, 2017
Communicate with her. Tell her how it makes you feel that you can't seem to give her what she needs and that you want to learn (from her) how to make her climax. Watch her do it to herself and take notes.
Re: My Girlfriend Masturbates But Doesn't Want To Have Sex Very by Sierusvirus(m): 10:21pm On Nov 06, 2017
Lucifer1419:
I'm 27 and my girlfriend
is 24. We've been dating
for 2 years now, and just
moved in together 2
months ago. We have
had periods where we
have had a lot of sex, but
here recently it is just
about 1-3 times a week,
usually on the lower
side. The thing that really
depresses me is that my
girlfriend masturbates
on a regular basis, but
says she is not in the
mood to have sex with
me. She tries to
keep it private, but I
generally know when
she's done it. I just don't
understand how she can
feel sexual enough to
masturbate, but not want
to have sex with her b/f.
Please, any help would
be appreciated, this is
really hurting our
relationship, which sucks
because everything else
is great between us.
Greater percentage of women prefer masturbation to real sex because they climax very well while masturbating.
They give excuses that men doesn't fu*ck them well, listen to me guys, whether you fu*ck them from 7am to 7pm them must masturbate to achieve climax.
My girl does that everyday with a vibrator when I ask she tells me the same thing, to reach better climax.
I left her to her immediately
Re: My Girlfriend Masturbates But Doesn't Want To Have Sex Very by Shawnnn01: 10:42pm On Nov 06, 2017
Rokia2:
Many men just don't know how to fu::ck a woman well.
So many are so clueless. Some even watch porn for clues imagine just imagine.

Maybe you suck and don't know how to properly handle her body. Now with masturbation she knows what to touch and how to touch herself to get the pleasure she wants cause she knows her body.

Shame on you. As a lover you should know and study her body well to know what gets her off.

You have to be attentive, selfless and a good communicator to please a woman in bed. Many men don't get that. They only care about cumming. They cum and the sex is over. The affect of watching too much porn. When you think the woman is only there to satisfy you and her own satisfaction is not important. A good guy in bed likes his woman to cum first before him........though sometimes it's beyond your control but such nigga have mastered the act of prolonging their own ejaculation. Many women takes longer to cum. You can't make her cum in 10 minutes or even 30 minutes.


You have to learn to last long and not just to last long and give her painful sex. But to give her mind blowing sex. Don't just fu:ck her non stop. Bleep her pause and do something that will drive her crazy. Now this depends on what your babe likes and what gets her off. Again communication very important. While fu:::cling her make sure you touch and tease places that drive her crazy.

Nothing I hate more then a selfish lover in bed. Niggas that only care about cumming and that's it. God forbid I will be gone with the wind. A good guy that wants to take his time to learn about my body, the right spot to hit my biggest turn on what drives me crazy, how to get me off, and a master in pre-intimacy. And pre-intimacy don't have to start in the bedroom......we can start way before the act. Now that's a good lover.


Madam you are not the only career fucker on NL. Any girl who truly loves a guy will adapt to his style of sex or simply teach him how to get it done for her to climax. The only set of girls not able to adjust are career fucker who seek slaves to Bleep their life to ruins chikena. Keep your fucking tutorial within your clique abeg.
Re: My Girlfriend Masturbates But Doesn't Want To Have Sex Very by frozen70(f): 11:45pm On Nov 06, 2017
Rokia2:
Many men just don't know how to fu::ck a woman well.
So many are so clueless. Some even watch porn for clues imagine just imagine.

Maybe you suck and don't know how to properly handle her body. Now with masturbation she knows what to touch and how to touch herself to get the pleasure she wants cause she knows her body.

Shame on you. As a lover you should know and study her body well to know what gets her off.

You have to be attentive, selfless and a good communicator to please a woman in bed. Many men don't get that. They only care about cumming. They cum and the sex is over. The affect of watching too much porn. When you think the woman is only there to satisfy you and her own satisfaction is not important. A good guy in bed likes his woman to cum first before him........though sometimes it's beyond your control but such nigga have mastered the act of prolonging their own ejaculation. Many women takes longer to cum. You can't make her cum in 10 minutes or even 30 minutes.


You have to learn to last long and not just to last long and give her painful sex. But to give her mind blowing sex. Don't just fu:ck her non stop. Bleep her pause and do something that will drive her crazy. Now this depends on what your babe likes and what gets her off. Again communication very important. While fu:::cling her make sure you touch and tease places that drive her crazy.

Nothing I hate more then a selfish lover in bed. Niggas that only care about cumming and that's it. God forbid I will be gone with the wind. A good guy that wants to take his time to learn about my body, the right spot to hit my biggest turn on what drives me crazy, how to get me off, and a master in pre-intimacy. And pre-intimacy don't have to start in the bedroom......we can start way before the act. Now that's a good lover.

Re: My Girlfriend Masturbates But Doesn't Want To Have Sex Very by frozen70(f): 11:48pm On Nov 06, 2017
Rokia2:
Many men just don't know how to fu::ck a woman well.
So many are so clueless. Some even watch porn for clues imagine just imagine.

Maybe you suck and don't know how to properly handle her body. Now with masturbation she knows what to touch and how to touch herself to get the pleasure she wants cause she knows her body.

Shame on you. As a lover you should know and study her body well to know what gets her off.

You have to be attentive, selfless and a good communicator to please a woman in bed. Many men don't get that. They only care about cumming. They cum and the sex is over. The affect of watching too much porn. When you think the woman is only there to satisfy you and her own satisfaction is not important. A good guy in bed likes his woman to cum first before him........though sometimes it's beyond your control but such nigga have mastered the act of prolonging their own ejaculation. Many women takes longer to cum. You can't make her cum in 10 minutes or even 30 minutes.


You have to learn to last long and not just to last long and give her painful sex. But to give her mind blowing sex. Don't just fu:ck her non stop. Bleep her pause and do something that will drive her crazy. Now this depends on what your babe likes and what gets her off. Again communication very important. While fu:::cling her make sure you touch and tease places that drive her crazy.

Nothing I hate more then a selfish lover in bed. Niggas that only care about cumming and that's it. God forbid I will be gone with the wind. A good guy that wants to take his time to learn about my body, the right spot to hit my biggest turn on what drives me crazy, how to get me off, and a master in pre-intimacy. And pre-intimacy don't have to start in the bedroom......we can start way before the act. Now that's a good lover.

You are very wonderful, you nailed it ,true talk, I love you being out spoken, bravos
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Re: My Girlfriend Masturbates But Doesn't Want To Have Sex Very by frozen70(f): 11:50pm On Nov 06, 2017
Rokia2:
Many men just don't know how to fu::ck a woman well.
So many are so clueless. Some even watch porn for clues imagine just imagine.

Maybe you suck and don't know how to properly handle her body. Now with masturbation she knows what to touch and how to touch herself to get the pleasure she wants cause she knows her body.

Shame on you. As a lover you should know and study her body well to know what gets her off.

You have to be attentive, selfless and a good communicator to please a woman in bed. Many men don't get that. They only care about cumming. They cum and the sex is over. The affect of watching too much porn. When you think the woman is only there to satisfy you and her own satisfaction is not important. A good guy in bed likes his woman to cum first before him........though sometimes it's beyond your control but such nigga have mastered the act of prolonging their own ejaculation. Many women takes longer to cum. You can't make her cum in 10 minutes or even 30 minutes.


You have to learn to last long and not just to last long and give her painful sex. But to give her mind blowing sex. Don't just fu:ck her non stop. Bleep her pause and do something that will drive her crazy. Now this depends on what your babe likes and what gets her off. Again communication very important. While fu:::cling her make sure you touch and tease places that drive her crazy.

Nothing I hate more then a selfish lover in bed. Niggas that only care about cumming and that's it. God forbid I will be gone with the wind. A good guy that wants to take his time to learn about my body, the right spot to hit my biggest turn on what drives me crazy, how to get me off, and a master in pre-intimacy. And pre-intimacy don't have to start in the bedroom......we can start way before the act. Now that's a good lover.

You are very wonderful, you nailed it ,true talk, I love you being out spoken, bravos. I wish men will remove their eggo and read this post and make good use of it.
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Re: My Girlfriend Masturbates But Doesn't Want To Have Sex Very by Next2Bezee(m): 12:10am On Nov 07, 2017
Your girl is probably seeing someone else, the sex is probably so good for her that she masturbates to it. Dump her and save yourself more heartachen
Re: My Girlfriend Masturbates But Doesn't Want To Have Sex Very by lordbish(m): 2:54am On Nov 07, 2017
Lucifer1419:
I'm 27 and my girlfriend
is 24. We've been dating
for 2 years now, and just
moved in together 2
months ago. We have
had periods where we
have had a lot of sex, but
here recently it is just
about 1-3 times a week,
usually on the lower
side. The thing that really
depresses me is that my
girlfriend masturbates
on a regular basis, but
says she is not in the
mood to have sex with
me. She tries to
keep it private, but I
generally know when
she's done it. I just don't
understand how she can
feel sexual enough to
masturbate, but not want
to have sex with her b/f.
Please, any help would
be appreciated, this is
really hurting our
relationship, which sucks
because everything else
is great between us.
In oyedepo's voice

Your case is different grin grin cheesy cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Masturbates But Doesn't Want To Have Sex Very by Nobody: 3:09am On Nov 07, 2017
frozen70:
You are very wonderful, you nailed it ,true talk, I love you being out spoken, bravos. I wish men will remove their eggo and read this post and make good use of it.

Thanks doll. smiley
Re: My Girlfriend Masturbates But Doesn't Want To Have Sex Very by Nobody: 4:32am On Nov 07, 2017
Lucifer1419:
I'm 27 and my girlfriend
is 24. We've been dating
for 2 years now, and just
moved in together 2
months ago. We have
had periods where we
have had a lot of sex, but
here recently it is just
about 1-3 times a week,
usually on the lower
side. The thing that really
depresses me is that my
girlfriend masturbates
on a regular basis, but
says she is not in the
mood to have sex with
me. She tries to
keep it private, but I
generally know when
she's done it. I just don't
understand how she can
feel sexual enough to
masturbate, but not want
to have sex with her b/f.
Please, any help would
be appreciated, this is
really hurting our
relationship, which sucks
because everything else
is great between us.
your girlfriend? You mean baal? Or one of her other succubus team?
Re: My Girlfriend Masturbates But Doesn't Want To Have Sex Very by Nobody: 4:40am On Nov 07, 2017
Rokia2:
Many men just don't know how to fu::ck a woman well.
So many are so clueless. Some even watch porn for clues imagine just imagine.

Maybe you suck and don't know how to properly handle her body. Now with masturbation she knows what to touch and how to touch herself to get the pleasure she wants cause she knows her body.

Shame on you. As a lover you should know and study her body well to know what gets her off.

You have to be attentive, selfless and a good communicator to please a woman in bed. Many men don't get that. They only care about cumming. They cum and the sex is over. The affect of watching too much porn. When you think the woman is only there to satisfy you and her own satisfaction is not important. A good guy in bed likes his woman to cum first before him........though sometimes it's beyond your control but such nigga have mastered the act of prolonging their own ejaculation. Many women takes longer to cum. You can't make her cum in 10 minutes or even 30 minutes.


You have to learn to last long and not just to last long and give her painful sex. But to give her mind blowing sex. Don't just fu:ck her non stop. Bleep her pause and do something that will drive her crazy. Now this depends on what your babe likes and what gets her off. Again communication very important. While fu:::cling her make sure you touch and tease places that drive her crazy.

Nothing I hate more then a selfish lover in bed. Niggas that only care about cumming and that's it. God forbid I will be gone with the wind. A good guy that wants to take his time to learn about my body, the right spot to hit my biggest turn on what drives me crazy, how to get me off, and a master in pre-intimacy. And pre-intimacy don't have to start in the bedroom......we can start way before the act. Now that's a good lover.

do you know that is a name of a movie @bolded. Please anyone that have that movie should nitori olorun try to get across to me. I done dey search for am now ehn. And miss(or maybe mrs) rokia2, please next time, watch what you'd post here because of small boys like me. Now my deek has taken a standing position after reading this. Only God knows when it'd go at ease now. So please ehn.

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