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so u wnat to give her automatic us citizenship?? then she will now use divorce and wreck u?? a woman that slaps u b4 marriage will killmu when married!

You feel you are under pressure to marry a lady you have been dating for 3 years which you now impregnated.

What did you intend to do before if she didn't get pregnant?

Issorait.

Congratulations daddy Favour and gift incase they are twins.

bro kindly send me your number phone, can we talk, you sem to understand this situation well. im waiting . thanks

donsimo:
Too little information to go on here.
I can just type a few lines of rubbish but it won't help.
Best advice tho look at the issue Clinically and detached, look it's hard to think when you are in love.
Get a good friend to look at the situation for you.

Note that the final decision is yours but have a different look tho. By the way what's the lady age, she got a job, what's are status wealth wise.


I can give you some questions to ask yourself, like why did she tell you about the child then say she would remove it.

Why now, didn't she know of her mother's "mistake " before?

Why is she willing to risk marrying into a family where everyone already has a bad option of her.

Could she be playing you for a gain?.

Where was she when you met her first status wise.
(I not saying the stories she told you about herself, am asking you to do some digging, really know this girl don't take it for granted)


And the last question, how sure are you that the child is yours. You know girls this days are funny.

you seem to have an idea about this situation, can i have a 5mins with you over the phone please, kindly inbox me ur no. thanks

donsimo:
Too little information to go on here.
I can just type a few lines of rubbish but it won't help.
Best advice tho look at the issue Clinically and detached, look it's hard to think when you are in love.
Get a good friend to look at the situation for you.

Note that the final decision is yours but have a different look tho. By the way what's the lady age, she got a job, what's are status wealth wise.


I can give you some questions to ask yourself, like why did she tell you about the child then say she would remove it.

Why now, didn't she know of her mother's "mistake " before?

Why is she willing to risk marrying into a family where everyone already has a bad option of her.

Could she be playing you for a gain?.

Where was she when you met her first status wise.
(I not saying the stories she told you about herself, am asking you to do some digging, really know this girl don't take it for granted)


And the last question, how sure are you that the child is yours. You know girls this days are funny.

johnflex:
you seem to have an idea about this situation, can i have a 5mins with you over the phone please, kindly inbox me ur no. thanks

is your name Akporobaro?

[quote author=johnflex post=62170425][/quote]For my advice I need to know why she slapped you because personally any lady daring enough to slap me will never desire a union with me 4 whatever reason after I am through with her talkless of marriage.

Peeps who think they have are really pompous... The op is stupidly confused... Mtcheeeew

johnflex:
Guys i need help! im 33, after 3 weks of an argument and no communication, my girlfriend of 3 years of courtship told me she was pregnant, and she and her mum has been pressuring me to marry her claiming tht in thier family, if a man doesnt do the needful before marriage that the child belongs to them, i love this girl so much in spite of her characters which my parents dont like and dont support the union, even after she had embarrassed and slapped me in the public before, but im not the local traditional type and i overlooked these things, now the problem is theyre threathening to take out the baby, even after i had accepted that im responsible, thier reason is that the mum made the same mistake in the past and she doesnt want her child to do the same, i explained to her that il take full responsibility of the pregnancy and we should allow the baby come first and then i promise i would marry the daughter, i even plan to send the girl to the states to give birth and probable send her to school in canada, expalining to them further my reasons for not marrying now is that my parents are not yet convinced about her and they feel shes trying to use this pregnancy to hold me down, because they know i neva had the intention of settling down with a nigerian girl in the first place, a little about me, i own 2 international businesses, 2 cars each worth 4m at least, a house and other properties, take at least 2 trips a year, all my folks are abroad, but i feel funny because im not a womanizer and the girl knows this, so im suprrised at why the rush, now all my extended families now know about my situation and i felt the whole relationship has become too toxic to go into as im afriad of making a mess and i needed some time, its difficult to deal when all your family dont support u to go into it, but i dont blame my family in thier decision because i feel like i let all the cats about her out of the bag by letting them into the details of the relationship and its events which i regret, i love her and im afriad i might also be making a mistake if i do not marry her as i might loose her, as she has been there for me in spite of every embarrasment she has gone thru becos of me, guys i rili need you opinoon, married men opinion in particular. thanks

in marriage love alone ain't enough .
be sincere with your answers.
1. would you propse to her in 6months time if she weren't pregnant ?

2. are u with her cos shes beautiful, smart and an item to show off that meets up to ur peraonality in circles .

few more questions to ask but look deep down be sincere and answer these 2 questions in the affirmitive or non affirmitive .

more to follow with my own conclussions I've arrised at from your right up but I would rather prefer a private chat .


not all clothes are washed in d open

mhizesther:
I only read the title bro.. Congratulations bro.. twins fall on u.. 3 years ba? U want to turn her to lord of the rings, man up and accept ur responsibility..baba ibeji

When u are running away from becoming mama Ibeji.

Good

This marriage is dead before consummation
You don't go onto marriage because you impregnated someone. You go in convinced that you are making the best choice.

You are just a sperm donor here
Take up the responsibility of baby daddy
Leave father role for now, until you are sure there is a wife role available

johnflex:
Guys i need help! im 33, after 3 weks of an argument and no communication, my girlfriend of 3 years of courtship told me she was pregnant, and she and her mum has been pressuring me to marry her claiming tht in thier family, if a man doesnt do the needful before marriage that the child belongs to them, i love this girl so much in spite of her characters which my parents dont like and dont support the union, even after she had embarrassed and slapped me in the public before, but im not the local traditional type and i overlooked these things, now the problem is theyre threathening to take out the baby, even after i had accepted that im responsible, thier reason is that the mum made the same mistake in the past and she doesnt want her child to do the same, i explained to her that il take full responsibility of the pregnancy and we should allow the baby come first and then i promise i would marry the daughter, i even plan to send the girl to the states to give birth and probable send her to school in canada, expalining to them further my reasons for not marrying now is that my parents are not yet convinced about her and they feel shes trying to use this pregnancy to hold me down, because they know i neva had the intention of settling down with a nigerian girl in the first place, a little about me, i own 2 international businesses, 2 cars each worth 4m at least, a house and other properties, take at least 2 trips a year, all my folks are abroad, but i feel funny because im not a womanizer and the girl knows this, so im suprrised at why the rush, now all my extended families now know about my situation and i felt the whole relationship has become too toxic to go into as im afriad of making a mess and i needed some time, its difficult to deal when all your family dont support u to go into it, but i dont blame my family in thier decision because i feel like i let all the cats about her out of the bag by letting them into the details of the relationship and its events which i regret, i love her and im afriad i might also be making a mistake if i do not marry her as i might loose her, as she has been there for me in spite of every embarrasment she has gone thru becos of me, guys i rili need you opinoon, married men opinion in particular. thanks

When we say no to premarital sex, una call us 'righteou', 'old school', 'holier than thou', 'hypocrites', etc now o setiala. Next will now be abortion and after, the guilt of abortion. Or next will be child outside wedlock, the problem single parenting and heartaches from spouses.

Say No!!!! to premarital sex also known as fornication, NOOOO!!!!!!!!! TO PREMARITAL SEX!!!!!!!!!

You're such a wimp. A lady slapped you and you still want to continue with her




Na your type den de stab to death.



I only pity your parents. You better listen to them

johnflex:
you seem to have an idea about this situation, can i have a 5mins with you over the phone please, kindly inbox me ur no. thanks

Check your inbox.

my friend go and finish what u started...