http://www.don9ja.com.ng/2017/11/10/twelve12-reasons-why-theres-orgasm-inequity-and-no-its-not-that-women-are-harder-to-please/

I was young when I came to discover masturbation, and I had orgasms long before I knew what they were.

Nothing about it seemed complicated. I just rubbed “down there” for a few minutes, and it happened. But later, magazines, comedy routines, and sitcoms taught me that my body – and vaginas in general – were mysterious and complex, often too complex for those without them to figure out.