pocohantas:
The ladies that have the sex for free, you guys call those ones cheap.

The ladies that have the sex in exchange for money or other favours, you call them olosho.

The ladies that refuse to have sex, we have countless advices given to these ones. Imploring them to stay away from relationships.

Majority of men won't stay in a relationship without sex, no matter what else the girl offers you, not like lots of guys offer much either. Sex is like a collateral to many men. When the girl breaks up and friends ask "you fuk am?"...you can say "Yes, I fuk am".

When guys decide among themselves why they think sex in a relationship is a a bragging right, a loss to the female and something to use deride her. Then we can know why such females think it's a bargaining tool. You lots share the same orientation on sex in a relationship, both male and female, you fit yourselves, you deserve each other! It's cause and effect.

Its a crazy world honey we live in we didnt make d rules.

iamJ:
truth no need escort

Badoo

sapien:
Train a girl from JSS1 to final year in the University?

That's some crazy stuff right there!

I expect such man to commit suicide if the lady eventually breaks up him.

such type of training common with guys wey be virgin hunters na.dem feel all babes are corrupt so hence na to carry one smallie train her throughout secondary school to the univ.when the babe don enter univ her eyes go open and na so guys go start to dey run after fresh meat.after she don taste better one she go consider d man wey dey train her as too old skool for her taste and she go dump am.it happens all d time na.this is why sometimes u hear story about some angry man bathing his girlfriend with acid or stabbing her in a rage.money wey u suppose save take buy house or land u dey take am train babes cos dem promise to marry u.anyway da lord is their strength like i say b4.a lovely Sunday morning to u.

shimmer1:
First things first, that guy has distrusted trust settings from day 1. I mean, for crying out loud why would you have a child and not tell your present girlfriend you are probably seeing your future with, and she had to find out from a third party. What if they get married, what else will pop the bottle? He's gay?
Okay, now I think I'm even tired of hearing girls saying I offered him sex, food! So? Life is much more than that. When you were with him, what have you accomplished together? How have you helped or stood by him. Furthermore, are there anythings you've done for or with him that even if you break up with him today, he will remember you for life. I think girls should do better. Most times, some of us just like to collect and collect, thereby forgetting to give. Most times we are still the ones that lose.
Nobody should forget that a taker can never rule over a giver. No matter the circumstances(except if there are some funny means) .It is against the law of nature.

I'm in love with that your second paragraph.

Good points.