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Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by iphanyi10(m): 6:15pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Girls do that when they are fond of you..it doesnt necesaarily mean they want to date or have sex with you, but in some cases it could mean that your ability to know the difference makes you a "sharp guy" |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
chyna4luv:Isn't it obvious that the RuggedArab of a moniker has something to tell me but he can't man up! And is rather using this thread to do so indirectly?. Your question reads " If a girl is showing love signals to a guy, what should he do?". From what you said, she's flirting so you can't tell if it's genuine but from flirting something serious does happen if the dude is interested. I stated three things he could do... 1. Ignore her completely. Any responsible guy won't want a lady hitting on him 'cause they're usually of the mentality that she may be hitting other guys or would in the future. They simply don't want to be caught up in the Web of a loosed girl. They prefer going for what they want. 2. Deflect her compliment. In the case she told your friend that he's a good guy. If she does this often, when it happens just say "Thanks" and introduce an entirely different subject. That way, she'd know he's not interested. 3. Flirt back. For fùck boys. this is where RuggedArab's problem lies... Who's a fùckboy?...a guy that has no intentions of committing to a lady. Such guys usually keep more than one girlfriend, and their goal is bleep as many girls as they could and walk away. I remember saying "Choose one" 'cause your friend has a choice on what to do. What part of this couldn't a grown up comprehend without sounding like I stole something from him?. SMH. |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Fall in love with her |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by generalbush(m): 6:24pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Benita27: Smh. |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
generalbush: |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by generalbush(m): 6:27pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Benita27: Mtcheewwww |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
generalbush:Did you miss me?. |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by generalbush(m): 6:31pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by Nobody: 6:32pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
chyna4luv:see what some people are looking for and didn't see, what a pity |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by Nobody: 6:32pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
generalbush:You're running?. No problem, let me continue. |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by Nobody: 6:34pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
iphanyi10:In short you are saying na the guy hand things dey |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by generalbush(m): 6:40pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Benita27: Lol. You better don't continue... |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by RuggedArab: 7:08pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Benita27: You shot yourself @the bolded. I'll still use my question to correct your generalization of thoughts/statement. can't a guy get into her pants and be serious without being a fvckboy? I have paraphrase again. If I have something to tell you I'll tell you straight up! Why are you like this? Answer the question and move on. |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by iphanyi10(m): 7:22pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
IAmFreeman:you garrit! |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by ReinaFarine: 8:01pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Benita27: Hi honey, I just want to understand your perspective on the issue... Responsible men see women that take make the first move as loose Please I don't see how this makes them responsible.... A mature woman knows what she wants... As long she conveys the message in a decent and sensible manner without the vulgarity of inappropriate touches, pictures and words... She can pass along the I am interested in you message by suggesting they hang out, but the mature woman should be able to accept rejection without it causing insecurities and drama. What makes only the man have the right to be the instigator? A woman should be able to express her romantic interest in a man without her being seen as cheap. And her stated interest shouldn't be taken as sexual consent.... 2. If a man is not interested in her, according her the same respects he expects dictates he should inform her in a matured manner of his lack of interest and not trivialize her feelings, make her a laughingstock, or lead her on and make it into a kind of game.. Be matured and tell her the kind of relationship you have with her in a respectful and decent manner.... Ladies, if you're ballsy enough to ask him out, be matured enough to handle rejection without being dramatic.... 3. If all you want is sex, please state it very clearly in a way that will not be misinterpreted or cause hope and fantasy in the ladies mind... If two matured adult decide to have an exclusively sex only relationship... Then slutshaming words like fuckboy, olosho, gigolo and hoe... Shouldn't be used in reference to them. They're grownups and they understand what works for them at that moment... You have no right to judge except their action is hurting someone.. Thanks.. 1 Like |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by chyna4luv: 8:12pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
ChiefPiiko: Thanks my man. But don't you think the girl may later misbehave or her love for the guy may fizzle away since it was the girl that fell for the guy? This is why the my friend(guy) is afraid to reciprocate the love and doesn't want any girl to hurt him. Cc: Iamfreeman, Iphanyi10, Meanwhile, Ruggedarab, where are you? Is it true that you have something(Maybe approaching her, or toasting her) to tell Benita27 but you are not man enough? Oya, Pm her sharperly to clear her doubt. Lol. Jah bless. |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by donMIG(m): 8:23pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Ignore her ooo.... All dat green light self can b misleading oooh Talking from experience ooo Save ursef ol dis Walhalla n ignore dem Even with her face painted green she myt still say she is in a serious relationship ship I tire for babes |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by chyna4luv: 8:25pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
ReinaFarine: Thanks ma, that's my point The guy is afraid whether the girl is doing this for normal game(sex play and go) or is she doing this for marital purpose. He is afraid to be hurt by any girl. Also, for the babe to make first move, is it normal? Please advice more. Jah bless. |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by chyna4luv: 8:29pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
donMIG: I think you are right, the babe may be tempting the guy. Advice taken. Chyna. |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
chyna4luv:From a single old man to a young bright man with a great future, when you plan to date, you should have reasons or motives, ask your friend if he's mature and willing to date for the right reasons, if yes, a female that likes you based on your personality and not your financial strength is someone you should keep. Always start with friendship, so you can gauge and find out if there's a future, its always good to start dating early and set your priorities right so both of you can compliment each other and help the other to grow. Stay safe |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by ReinaFarine: 8:50pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
chyna4luv: Ask her maturely.... It is not common, but it is normal.... Some girls want the chase and everything... And there are few that don't like drama.. And they state what they want If she's a mature woman, please communicate.... It starts from now...know what she wants and see if that fits what you have and vice versa |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by annae(f): 9:09pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Ajebusta:Guy B Ril Player,choiii |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by mikool007(m): 9:30pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Stevengerd:ahah
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Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by Nobody: 10:26pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
chyna4luv:Ladies are not always open about how they feel but when they do it's either they are in love or they see something e.g. things like money, intelligence which she may use to her own advantage if they are both in school etc... since you say the guy is not yet rich I want to assume she's in love with her. If he likes her, he should go for her, no need to dance around the border like Cassius Clay, tell him to go direct. About the girl misbehaving, nothing is certain. Love fades, Fires turns to smoke, even the Almighty dollar fall sometimes, so nothing is certain and he might just be lucky that it might be the few once that last a life time. Unless he's not feeling the lady, let him try his luck. |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by Ajebusta(m): 8:52am On Nov 17, 2017 |
annae:Holla if you want some... Must be between eighteen and twenty three though |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by annae(f): 8:05pm On Nov 17, 2017 |
Ajebusta:u no wel |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by MetalJigsaw(m): 8:38pm On Nov 17, 2017 |
Ajebusta:He will lose that girl |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by mrblessed(m): 8:41pm On Nov 17, 2017 |
Benita27:I don't think the reason he quotes you was because 'he had the urge to quote you'', as you erroneously implied. He merely revealed the shortcoming of your statement, which your ego couldn't manage, nor tolerate. |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by chyna4luv: 9:39pm On Nov 17, 2017 |
MetalJigsaw: How do you mean sir? |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by chyna4luv: 9:40pm On Nov 17, 2017 |
ReinaFarine: Thanks. Jah bless. |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by Ajebusta(m): 11:43pm On Nov 17, 2017 |
annae:You in Ilorin? |
Re: If A Girl Is Showing Love Signals To A Guy, What Should He Do? by MetalJigsaw(m): 6:26am On Nov 18, 2017 |
chyna4luv:Your advice to the guy na |
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