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My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Emarc16(m): 3:21pm On Nov 21, 2017
Good day nairalanders.


Let me go straight to the point. I woke up this morning, to see a message from my girlfriend saying she is pregnant. To cut the long story short we had sex like two months ago and told her to take emergency pills which disturbed her and she told me she did... only after a week she told me she didn't take it and she is pregnant. we agreed for an abortion only for her to go and return saying she did it and it's okay. To my surprise she told me this morning that she is still pregnant, I quickly asked did you do the abortion she replied with NO, that the doctor advised her to keep it now I am not ready for a child but she is insisting she will take care of the child n responsibilities till am buoyant now I disagreed she has refused talking to me since today plz I need advise dear nairalanders...

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Kenzico(m): 3:24pm On Nov 21, 2017
That your girlfriend must be drunk in love for u

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Nobody: 3:25pm On Nov 21, 2017
u r a killer ur dicckk should be rot in jail by now

when u know u can't sire a child why u have unprotected sex with her
can u advise ur sis to abort her pregnant

smh undecided


and what if it just an emotional blackmail, you might wanna go test the pregnancy status with her just to confirm she is truly

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Patented: 3:26pm On Nov 21, 2017
If she is preggy, then She's preggy, brace up for fatherhood.....whether you are ready or not. Alternatively she may be testing you to see your reaction.
Abstinence is best but if your must, then use protection.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Emarc16(m): 3:31pm On Nov 21, 2017
Kenzico:
That your girlfriend must be drunk in love for u
I love her too but fatherhood is not a thing to rush into.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by izaray(f): 3:32pm On Nov 21, 2017
In Psquare voice....E don happen... Op take your girlfriend to the hospital for a pregnancy test, to be really sure. All this new generation girls just believe that once they date and love a guy, its must lead to marriage or the person must end up marring them undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Emarc16(m): 3:33pm On Nov 21, 2017
Patented:
If she is preggy the She's preggy, brace up for fatherhood.....whether you are ready or not. Alternatively she may be testing you to see your reaction.
Abstinence is best but if your must then use protection.
I now think she played me...
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Emarc16(m): 3:36pm On Nov 21, 2017
izaray:
In Psquare voice....E don happen... Op take your girlfriend to the hospital for a pregnancy test, to be really sure. All this new generation girls just believe that, once they date and love a guy, its must lead to marriage or the person must marring them undecided
she has truly been talking marriage too much...she is seeing it as an opportunity.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Evaberry(f): 3:36pm On Nov 21, 2017
what were u expecting when u fvcked without condoms
iranu.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Emarc16(m): 3:38pm On Nov 21, 2017
Evaberry:
what were u expecting when u fvcked without condoms

iranu.
She refused oh...I no know when e happen... now dem say doctor say abortion is 50k
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by DozieInc(m): 3:40pm On Nov 21, 2017
You should be responsible for your actions, now she is messing with your head, seems she planned it all along.
She has shown all signs of a " one chance "... go test if she is truly pregnant, hope you will do a paternity test.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by pocohantas(f): 3:40pm On Nov 21, 2017
Your girlfriend is only trying to use emotional blackmail and all sorts of mind games in her arsenal, to coerce you into a union. You won't be the first man to be lured into a pregnancy induced union. But that's what happens when your brain, gives way for your dick to lead.

Take her to the hospital for another test, maybe a scan to know the true age of the 'baby'.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Nobody: 3:42pm On Nov 21, 2017
Emarc16:

She refused oh...I no know when e happen... now dem say doctor say abortion is 50k

I have started to smell something fishy here ask her to send you a comprehensive pregnancy test...it must have an hospital stamp on it.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Nobody: 3:42pm On Nov 21, 2017
She's the mother..She has the right to keep the child.. cool

If ur not ready to support her, then next time you better stop having a raw sex since u don't have the balls to face such consequences... lipsrsealed

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by izaray(f): 3:42pm On Nov 21, 2017
Emarc16:

I now think she played me...
That is the reason you should force her to the hospital for a pregnancy test. Or you go to pharmacy and buy Pregnancy test trip for her...Tell her to do the test in your presence.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by izaray(f): 3:44pm On Nov 21, 2017
Emarc16:

she has truly been talking marriage too much...she is seeing it as an opportunity.
Congratulations then, my spirit tells me she is the right woman for you grin tongue
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Emarc16(m): 3:44pm On Nov 21, 2017
pocohantas:
Your girlfriend is only trying to use emotional blackmail and all sorts of mind games in her arsenal, to coerce you into a union. You won't be the first man to be lured into a pregnancy induced union. But that's what happens when your brain, gives way for your dick to lead.

Take her to the hospital for another test, maybe a scan to know the true age of the 'baby'.
Thanks
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Emarc16(m): 3:45pm On Nov 21, 2017
Onijagidijagan:


I gave started to smell something fishy here ask to send you a comprehensive pregnancy test.
okay.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by MhizzAJ(f): 3:46pm On Nov 21, 2017
What in God's name is wrong with some men

Are you actually seeking for advise undecided
You didn't use any protection...You told your girlfriend to go for an abortion and you are saying it like it's alright....What were you expecting undecided

Sorry to say but you both are foolish

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:58pm On Nov 21, 2017
Emarc16:
Good day nairalanders.
Let me go straight to the point. I woke up this morning, to see a message from my girlfriend saying she is pregnant. To cut the long story short we had sex like two months ago and told her to take emergency pills which disturbed her and she told me she did... only after a week she told me she didn't take it and she is pregnant. we agreed for an abortion only for her to go and return saying she did it and it's okay. To my surprise she told me this morning that she is still pregnant, I quickly asked did you do the abortion she replied with NO, that the doctor advised her to keep it now I am not ready for a child but she is insisting she will take care of the child n responsibilities till am buoyant now I disagreed she has refused talking to me since today plz I need advise dear nairalanders...

bro, slap yourself mercilessly until you get some damn sense, you dumbaaaas!

if you were so determined to NOT have a child by this deluded deceitful woman then you should have NEVER had unprotected sex with this demon. now she is "trying" to FORCE you to be a father, when you dont want it, and try to trap you....

here is what i would have done....dump the deluded idiot (who has NO respect for your word/desire), and when that child is born try to be the best possible part time parent you can be. NEVER EVER marry this deluded babe because of pregnancy, because thats exactly how she is trying to TRAP YOU.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Nobody: 4:06pm On Nov 21, 2017
First Of All, thunder Fire You For Telling Her To Kill The Child... You Should Abort your Balls Too... You Should Be Ready To Take Responsibility Of Your Actions... You Didnt Use Protection, what Did You Expect...


Remember To Invite Me For The Naming...

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:13pm On Nov 21, 2017
DeadRat:
First Of All, thunder Fire You For Telling Her To Kill The Child... You Should Abort your Balls Too... You Should Be Ready To Take Responsibility Of Your Actions... You Didnt Use Protection, what Did You Expect...


Remember To Invite Me For The Naming...

bro, as much as the OP is foolish, why would you expect him to pay for his mistake by having an unwanted child?! he already made ONE mistake, let him instead use every opportunity in his power to RECTIFY it, instead of making another mistake... and as much as "you" are against abortion, many believe it is a safe procedure to get rid of these unwanted pregnancies. no biggie here.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Nobody: 4:21pm On Nov 21, 2017
Why didn't you use protection?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Nobody: 4:27pm On Nov 21, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


bro, as much as the OP is foolish, why would you expect him to pay for his mistake by having an unwanted child?! he already made ONE mistake, let him instead use every opportunity in his power to RECTIFY it, instead of making another mistake... and as much as "you" are against abortion, many believe it is a safe procedure to get rid of these unwanted pregnancies. no biggie here.
He And His Girl Has completed The Life Creating Cycle... And One Of The Major Rules Of Mother-Nature is: No Man Has The Power To Take A Life Created except Nature Itself... He Should Live With His Mistake, this Mistake Can Not Be Wiped Out
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Emarc16(m): 4:29pm On Nov 21, 2017
izaray:
Congratulations then, my spirit tells me she is the right woman for you grin tongue
hmmmmmm tongue
izaray:
Congratulations then, my spirit tells me she is the right woman for you grin tongue
hmmmmmm

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:36pm On Nov 21, 2017
DeadRat:
He And His Girl Has completed The Life Creating Cycle... And One Of The Major Rules Of Mother-Nature is: No Man Has The Power To Take A Life Created except Nature Itself... He Should Live With His Mistake, this Mistake Can Not Be Wiped Out

you are funny, to say the least..... religion is the biggest murderer of mankind, but its ok, right? governments are the biggest murderers of mankind, but its ok right? humans are the biggest murderers of mankind but its ok, right? now, a man wants to have an abortion and its a big deal?!

here is a clue: nobody should think of having a child, unless they are emotionally.physically AND financially ready and able to care for that child for the next 18yrs... and as much as you'd rather have this world filled with unwanted childrenroaming the streets aimlessly, i'd rather they get washed down her coochie instead.

btw, unless a person has a HEARTBEAT, it should NEVER be consdered a life.

i guess, to each their own!
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Emarc16(m): 4:37pm On Nov 21, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


bro, slap yourself mercilessly until you get some damn sense, you dumbaaaas!

if you were so determined to NOT have a child by this deluded deceitful woman then you should have NEVER had unprotected sex with this demon. now she is "trying" to FORCE you to be a father, when you dont want it, and try to trap you....

here is what i would have done....dump the deluded idiot (who has NO respect for your word/desire), and when that child is born try to be the best possible part time parent you can be. NEVER EVER marry this deluded babe because of pregnancy, because thats exactly how she is trying to TRAP YOU.
Thanks Sir
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Nobody: 4:43pm On Nov 21, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


you are funny, to say the least..... religion is the biggest murderer of mankind, but its ok, right? governments are the biggest murderers of mankind, but its ok right? humans are the biggest murderers of mankind but its ok, right? now, a man wants to have an abortion and its a big deal?!

here is a clue: nobody should think of having a child, unless they are emotionally.physically AND financially ready and able to care for that child for the next 18yrs... and as much as you'd rather have this world filled with unwanted childrenroaming the streets aimlessly, i'd rather they get washed down her coochie instead.

btw, unless a person has a HEARTBEAT, it should NEVER be consdered a life.

i guess, to each their own!
just In Case You Didnt Know. Justin Bieber's mother Was Pressured Into Abortin him but She Refused, Today Who Is Justin Bieber? I Guess You Can Answer That... What If You Were Aborted? Abortion is Murder! It Is Termination Of Human Life!
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:53pm On Nov 21, 2017
DeadRat:
just In Case You Didnt Know. Justin Bieber's mother Was Pressured Into Abortin him but She Refused, Today Who Is Justin Bieber? I Guess You Can Answer That... What If You Were Aborted? Abortion is Murder! It Is Termination Of Human Life!

here is a clue: just as the successful people of this world did NOT get aborted, there are many who should have been.... Hitler, Stalin, king Leopold 2 or any of the pedo demons who gladly rape kids all around the world.

what if the world was without air? what if you didnt eat/drink for a month? ARRANT NONSENSE!!! with such "what if" rubbish state of mind, we could save the world. but sadly, we live in the REAL world, and what everyone MUST do is fix whatever problem arise in their lives, and certainly NOT be forced (against their will) to do what they are not willing and able to do. no wonder there are so many unwanted unloved demons abound.

its because of people with your state of mind that so many clueless mothers throw their unwanted newborn babies in bushes, gutters and dustbins
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by ReinaFarine: 6:32pm On Nov 21, 2017
Sweetie, I'm not against abortion when it is necessary, like rape. Or sexual act between two minors.
But when two consenting adults of willing body and soul have completely unprotected sex... No be say condom tear oh... Or antibiotics is messing with her pills.... Then they should be matured enough to take responsibility for that...

I don't know if your girl is truly pregnant (I highly doubt it sha)... But if she is an she does respect your wishes and terminate this 'supposed' Pregnancy... The same set of NL morons shouting she shouldn't trap you are the one that will call her a washed up damaged womb olosho.... You don't want her to ruin your life over one mistake, don't ruin hers... Have you heard of the word adoption before? Go to reputable and licensed places oh....

I think both of you are incompatible... She lied to you twice over the period of two months on one issue. I don't think you should ever trust her again. So, please break up with her. Not because she's pregnant. But because she's a compulsive liar. Pregnancy is not an excuse to play games with a man's head.

She should have told you...
Nigga, I'm knocked up...
And I'm keeping the baby... Will you still love me pregnant, needy and probably broke?
If the answer was no, then she'd bring the I'll take care of the child till you're buoyant enough play...

You're right if you decide not to take responsibility for this baby because you gave her the morning after pill option. But be a responsible man and don't make the baby pay the price for your choice of bedmates.

- Do a conclusive test. With her. In the hospital. Get the result together. From the doctor
- Start researching and asking about adoption options in Nigeria and probably abroad.
- Take care of your baby mama (Not your girlfriend) for the remaining 7 months.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by JONSYN7154: 6:53pm On Nov 21, 2017
congratulations. She just want you to marry her.I'm happy for you.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Snubbing Me Due To Pregnancy Disagreement. by Emarc16(m): 7:36pm On Nov 21, 2017
JONSYN7154:
congratulations. She just want you to marry her.I'm happy for you.
naxo e easy?

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