biacan:
so you Don wise

Before nko? I don wise up nah

tosyne2much:
Before nko? I don wise up nah

Boxer007:


Brother.hello.pleasd can u suck dik good?

IamKashyBaby:


Well, maybe she's really close to this guy that she called him "SWEETIE"

NOT A BIG DEAL besides it's his bday but if she doesn't change her dp after 24hrs, then u better start your investigation

Towncrier007:
I came here to ask nairalanders if am the one wrong or her? she said the guy is just her friend, and she uploaded his pics on dp and called him sweetie,I told her to remove it that it doesn't tell well on how my family or friends would term it,but she refused saying Its her life and business, and that she got so much love to share to family and Friends, so name calling doesn't mean anything. pls NL help me on this, could I be overreacting or what? thanks.
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Rokia2:
As long as she's your girlfriend, you just renting. Meaning you can be replace any time. You wanna make it official, marry her.

I'm pretty sure your babe has a whole list of back ups, just in case you wanna act up. You will be replaced before you can even blink.

lenghtinny:
Who no go no dey ever know..
I just pray that you don't fall into the trap of these daughters of eve...
All these emotional blackmails ( insecurity, lack of maturity, jealousy) na the weapon wey women dey use manipulate men easily...
The advice you should be giving him is to be on red alert and never lose his guard with such girl.
Just like Joephat claimed, girls like this are the ones that infects you with STIs without even knowing ...

tosyne2much:
I don't get you

Towncrier007:

bros no sex again oh,she said she has gone celibate

Towncrier007:
I came here to ask nairalanders if am the one wrong or her? she said the guy is just her friend, and she uploaded his pics on dp and called him sweetie,I told her to remove it that it doesn't tell well on how my family or friends would term it,but she refused saying Its her life and business, and that she got so much love to share to family and Friends, so name calling doesn't mean anything. pls NL help me on this, could I be overreacting or what? thanks.
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cc mynd44

Towncrier007:

bros no sex again oh,she said she has gone celibate

Towncrier007:

bros no sex again oh,she said she has gone celibate

oluwalewis:


Are you saying if your girl should call a guy sweetheart,you would say she is cheating.
this is pure salutation and as i said earlier i would only get suspicious when i see her use his pictures frequently on dp/they call eachother a lot or she uses the phrase "my"

Eveezy:

Lol, celibate kini? Brother just this ur statement alone don confirm oo, U Re about to be replaced. Once upon a time, I had a gal dt I wasn't having sex with, and den she was putting guys pic on her dp, one particular guy seemed constant with things like "thanks dear" "hbd sweerie" "u Re a darling" "thanks for making my day" ND wen I asked Wat I got was "Hez my friend, very nice guy, he even knows abt us" "he bought me somtin" "I can never date him, he is in d friendzone" ND den one day out of d blue d gal Jst called ND told me "I have a problem with u, U feel like a god amongst women" that statement pained me deep into my marrow, ND few days later d frnd dt she could never date became "thanks love" "you are everything to me". So nigga if u not fvcking ur bitch, one nigga out dere is helping u do ur job.

Oluwalewis needs to see this...

Like I said, if you have never been down that road, then you won't understand what it feels like

McBeal10:


I guess it all has to do with mentality. you feel it's weird and I don't. there are sweet words he refers to me as and what her say to another girl, you'd know the difference, like totally different. it's all about mutual understanding.

Yeah, it's always mutual understanding until reality hits you in the face with Anthony Joshua kinda blow

Towncrier007:

brother no be so,I just need to know how to cut rope follow her that's all. because a man should be able to give his Lady an order for her to obey.

Towncrier007:

The guy might be shagging her

oluwalewis:
i must confess to see you take it personal cos she has done nothing wrong.
it is just same as you calling a lady sunshine,gorgeous,beautiful,love,etc.
if she had written hbd MY sweetie, then you are in trouble or you see her using the guy's pictures a lot.
All you've done now is to show your lack of maturity and insecurity and trust me when i say she will capitalise on that.

lenghtinny:
Who no go no dey ever know..
I just pray that you don't fall into the trap of these daughters of eve...
All these emotional blackmails ( insecurity, lack of maturity, jealousy) na the weapon wey women dey use manipulate men easily...
The advice you should be giving him is to be on red alert and never lose his guard with such girl.
Just like Joephat claimed, girls like this are the ones that infects you with STIs without even knowing ...

kenex4ever:
u need to understand women

IamKashyBaby:


Well, maybe she's really close to this guy that she called him "SWEETIE"

NOT A BIG DEAL besides it's his bday but if she doesn't change her dp after 24hrs, then u better start your investigation

lenghtinny:

Oluwalewis needs to see this...

Like I said, if you have never been down that road, then you won't understand what it feels like

lenghtinny:
What I'm saying is the girl the Op talked about can't be trusted after such incident. She's already giving subtle hints, you don't need to wait till she uses his dp frequently..
A cheating partner would try to be as discreet as possible. Judging by her behavior and reaction to how he felt is a red flag.
I'm not saying that he should dump her straight away but he should lower his expectations in order to cope if the roof comes crashing down m

trustyshoess:
That girl better run for her life.

Towncrier007:

I don't get it,who should run? me or her?