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Simplep:
Abeg wetin u dey talk??

swerve!

Something they av been doing even before introduction. Mutchewwww

[quote author=safarigirl post=63076225]lol....so, you admit that you think the white man is superior to you, hence your willingness to dump your culture for theirs?

The black man will never be emancipated with such idiotic slave mentality.
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It doesn't answer my question

lexy2014:
some people just want to remain in bondage. Pls let them b if they choose to. Even d pastors prayer u are talking about, what does it do?

You are very correct!We have seen couples who did everything, yet lived in chaos. Your parents blessings upon the marriage is key, not one pastor that may even be committing adultery with a female chorister in his church.

People who believes white wedding is more important than traditional wedding are slaves mentally. No offense meant .

Just like an argument I was in years back that is it right or wrong to put on natives on a Monday to work. People were like it's absolutely wrong.
Because say oyinbo man come rubbish everything we had made us believe theirs is better off.
White people have brainwashed us finish for Africa. We now condemn our own stuff and embrace theirs ...name it ..nothing is ours again ... policies, food, genre of songs, cloths, just name it .... anything white man says is absolutely the best while ours is barbaric and rubbish.
They have enslaved us mentally.
Please free your mind and thoughts

bizzai:


https://www.modernghana.com/amp/lifestyle/10419/can-christian-couple-have-sex-after-traditional-marriage-cer.html

The white man wrecked a lot of havoc on the negro brain via the scam called religion. If you like wait for the Pope or the Archbishop of Canterbury to come and bless your marriage.

Our ancestors were getting married and having kids for thousands of years before the white man came to Africa

Useless question, Africans becoming more West than the westerners. Our African traditional wedding is the real deal.

PenlsCaP:

"Old thing things passed away.. and things become new." .

I know that line is familiar to u

with biblical evidence, pls educate me on how marriage was conducted in d new testament church based on "things became new".

PenlsCaP:

"Old thing things passed away.. and things become new." .

I know that line is familiar to u

once again, pls tell d spiritual law that is broken when a couple don't do white wedding?

Why the rush?



Or una don dey shine the Congo already sef?

lexy2014:
once again, pls tell d spiritual law that is broken when a couple don't do white wedding?

White people spiritual law na ...

NO.......

Tradition vs Religion

If they tin dey hungry una, go and get blessed in a church.......

topsydee007:

White people spiritual law na ...

no mind d guy jare. they are in bondage thinking they are being spiritual

After traditional marriage, both of you have turned husband and wife. Every other things that follows are to fulfill all righteousness.

Yes, because the traditional gangan is the recognised and God approved wedding rite.

safarigirl:
lol....so, you admit that you think the white man is superior to you, hence your willingness to dump your culture for theirs?

The black man will never be emancipated with such idiotic slave mentality.

I just looked up your profile and guess what it was screaming?


White man!!
White man!!
Oyinbo!
Onye ocha!

Like it or not a bully of what you're made of is white man...
Don't come and give me cork and bull story by preaching what you're not practising

A man and a woman are married in God’s eyes when they have completed some kind of formal wedding ceremony. Some interpreters understand God’s bringing Eve to Adam (Genesis 2:22) as God’s overseeing the first wedding “ceremony”—the modern practice of a father giving away his daughter at a wedding reflects God’s action in Eden. In John chapter 2, Jesus attended a wedding ceremony. Jesus would not have attended such an event if He did not approve of what was occurring. Jesus’ presence at a wedding ceremony by no means indicates that God requires a wedding ceremony. Nearly every culture in the history of humanity has observed some kind of formal wedding ceremony. In every culture there is an event, action, covenant, vow, or proclamation that is recognized as declaring a man and woman to be married.

ITS CLEARLY CULTURE BASED

Before the advent of Christianity marriage existed, Christianity started after Christ. And I'm sure as hell that father Abraham never waited for no priest, neither did his son Isaac, God didn't nullify those unions he God worked in, and with these families. These things where handled traditionally.

Essentially, what's needed is the agreement of the two individuals getting married, and the consent/blessings of their parents. Shikenna!

All these rubbish about "white wedding" being the ultimate came from...you know where "White" people.

After my traditional marriage we're gonna get our strafing game on, I'm waiting for no bloody white sh!t to get a nod to do my mojo.

Let these pastors, and priests and prophets stop sipping garri with your senses.

Actually, it is stupid to do Traditional marriage and "White" wedding. If you are a Christian, go to the church for the blessing and then do your TM or vice versa.

It should be either Trad.Marriage or White Wedding(for the brainwashed, low-esteemed Africans) and the state issues a certificate to make the marital contract binding.

Wildatheist:
The most important questions are...

1. What's God's business with sex?

2. When we have sex, do our spirits also have sex?

God created sex and sex is only acceptable to God during marriage. When you have sex you cut covenant with anybody you have sex with

If after d Traditional, Church & Court weddings, a marriage still ends up in chaos, of what benefits then? Meanwhile another marriage is blessed with peace & harmony coupled with moderation in all things but with simple prayers from both parents- Men, we jst love 2 deceive ourselves in this part of d world...

nice one

See what too much konji can cause.....u can't wait to pkansh her

U know the truth man..just wait till after the white wedding

So God did not recognize the traditional marriage abi....

Colonials are really wicked

olasunkanmii:
Both are mutually exclusive. Reason; by the traditional wedding, you have performed the customary rites required for the marriage ( the peoples' mandate), but by crowning it with the white (church) wedding, you are entrusting your union into God's hand. So, no "chucking" until the white wedding is done

destiny4life:

God created sex and sex is only acceptable to God during marriage. When you have sex you cut covenant with anybody you have sex with

1. Did God create sex? How? Sex organs are different from sex, hope you know this
2. If sex can only be accepted during a marriage to God, as the creator of sex, why didn't he create in such a way that unmarried people won't be able to have it?

Inanna:
Yes. Incase you don’t know, what you call a “white wedding” is the traditional wedding of the westerners. All weddings are traditional to the indigenous people from which it stemmed from.
As long as the couple is recognized as husband and wife by the families involved and the society in general, they are married and are free to engage in sexual activities .

This is the most reasonable comment I've heard. I wouldn't mind to engage in sexual activities with you tho just dm me

Am only here to read comments but I was really disappointed with some people views & their belief were credited to colonialism.


As far am conscience once the traditional rite is done , both couple are free to enjoy their divinity.

To hell to this white men idealism marriage

Abeg.. 90% couples today don lash before traditional wedding. So no big deal.

delishpot:
Yes. Very well so.

No!
The only condition is if the traditional wedding is the Final wedding right. If not, it is fornication.

macphilip:
OP, immediately her Family accept brideprice and her Father have finished praying
for you people, you are free to fvck her blue-black in their presence