Is it only me or has anyone also noticed Nigerian girls are dry when it comes to conversation?

On chat, just ask any of them this question, then you start receiving funny answers.

Lady A
Me: Can I meet you?
Lady A: at where?

Lady B
Me: Can I meet you?
Lady B: Maybe

Lady C
Me: Can I meet you?
Lady C: I am not a call girl

Lady D
Me: Can I meet you?
Lady D: When I get back to Lagos

I can continue to count on and on.

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Loyalblak007:
Nigerian guys can't hold meaningful conversations, all they want to talk about is romance and s*x

We all know thats not true.

Can u strike up a free flowing conversation with a guy?

Guys do this daily. You call it toasting.

Issokay. Please, move to foreign babes. Abi, are we forcing you to chat with us?

proxillin:
Is it only me or has anyone also noticed Nigerian girls are dry when it comes to conversation?

On chat, just ask any of them this question, then you start receiving funny answers.

Lady A
Me: Can I meet you?
Lady A: at where?

Lady B
Me: Can I meet you?
Lady B: Maybe

Lady C
Me: Can I meet you?
Lady C: I am not a call girl

Lady D
Me: Can I meet you?
Lady D: When I get back to Lagos

I can continue to count on and on.

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So your idea of how to begin a meaningful conversation is to ask someone "can I meet you?"

proxillin:


We all know thats not true.

Can u strike up a free flowing conversation with a guy?

Guys do this daily. You call it toasting.

Can You strike a free flowing conversation without linking it to romance?

We all know your thread isn't true as well

Spasmic:


So your idea of how to begin a meaningful conversation is to ask someone "can I meet you?"

"can i fvck you" is a much better conversation starter

Spasmic:


So your idea of how to begin a meaningful conversation is to ask someone "can I meet you?"

Its just an example of those boring responses they give.

Example

The truth is most of the guys complaining about how girls don't know how to engage in meaningful conversation, can't engage in meaningful conversation themselves. So why is kettle calling pot black?

proxillin:


Its just an example of those boring responses they give.

Example

Okay. Since you are so schooled in the art of having meaningful conversations, give me an example of one. Strike up a conversation with me and let's see.

Spasmic:
The truth is most of the guys complaining about how girls don't know how to engage in meaningful conversation, can't engage in meaningful conversation themselves. So why is kettle calling pot black?

On point

Spasmic:


Okay. Since you are so schooled in the art of having meaningful conversations, give me an example of one. Strike up a conversation with me and let's see.

So you want to represent Nigerian girls?

Loyalblak007:
Nigerian guys can't hold meaningful conversations, all they want to talk about is romance and s*x

Can we both put this to test please?

proxillin:


So you want to represent Nigerian girls?

I want to represent someone who wants to have a meaningful conversation with someone who claims to be a judge of what constitutes a meaningful conversation. I've noticed that most of you who complain that girls don't know how to have meaningful conversations don't even know what a meaningful conversation entails.

So strike up a meaningful conversation with me and show everyone how a "pro" does it.

Spasmic:


I want to represent someone who wants to have a meaningful conversation with someone who claims to be a judge of what constitutes a meaningful conversation. I've noticed that most of you who complain that girls don't know how to have meaningful conversations don't even know what a meaningful conversation entails.

So strike up a meaningful conversation with me and show everyone how a "pro" does it.

It's obvious to see you're a smooth conversationist, i love ya flow on words...Many guys can't hold meaningful conversations jare, this bad eggs litter everywhere, they're the reasons ladies don't make time out to chat much thesedays, dull dudes..

Spasmic:


I want to represent someone who wants to have a meaningful conversation with someone who claims to be a judge of what constitutes a meaningful conversation. I've noticed that most of you who complain that girls don't know how to have meaningful conversations don't even know what a meaningful conversation entails.

So strike up a meaningful conversation with me and show everyone how a "pro" does it.

But you are already holding a meaningful conversation. Having a free flowing is difficult for them.

Every response u give must not end in

hmm
ok
kk
yh
no

I do agree with the OP to some extent especially those annoying one word replies yes, OK, no, true, gud etc. You see a White girl walk the street with a smile on her face while an average Nigeria girl wey worwor pass monkey go dey squeeze face Waka go dey carry nose as if she be miss world.. It has everything to do with being Nigerian even outside the country they act the same way.

So true!

A majority of Nigerian girls cannot engage you in a meaningful and sensible conversation.

If a girl replies me with "kk" at any point in our conversation, I simply kick them out of my contact list.

I'll be like:

KreativGenius:


It's obvious to see you're a smooth conversationist, i love ya flow on words...Many guys can't hold meaningful conversations jare, this bad eggs litter everywhere, they're the reasons ladies don't make time out to chat much thesedays, dull dudes..

I appreciate the compliments. Threads like this just grinds my gears.

proxillin:
Is it only me or has anyone also noticed Nigerian girls are dry when it comes to conversation?

On chat, just ask any of them this question, then you start receiving funny answers.

Lady A
Me: Can I meet you?
Lady A: at where?

Lady B
Me: Can I meet you?
Lady B: Maybe

Lady C
Me: Can I meet you?
Lady C: I am not a call girl

Lady D
Me: Can I meet you?
Lady D: When I get back to Lagos

I can continue to count on and on.

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OP, this is the lamest line to start a convo I have ever seen, you will only get dumb answers for dumb questions like this.

K

pryme:


OP, this is the lamest line to start a convo I have ever seen, you will only get dumb answers for dumb questions like this.

Thats not a starting point. Its just an example of how they answer questions stupidly

Hmm

Lol,
Not necessarily though,

Some people (boy or girl), don't really know how to chat, infact, got a friend (a gurl), that's a terrible chatter, but when we are together or on the phone, jesus!!!, she talks tooooo much, . Lol,
I onced asked her, why she couldn't chat just like how she talks, she wss like, 'too much typing stressful biko, she prefers Voice notes, or calls'. Lol.

So, all na preference

proxillin:


Thats not a starting point. Its just an example of how they answer questions stupidly

I understand your point, but this one wont cut it even for the smart ones.

Loyalblak007:
Nigerian guys can't hold meaningful conversations, all they want to talk about is romance and s*x

Then finally tell you to come to their house. One promised me Christmas gift, went to take it, dude started demanding for sex, I was dumbfounded, got mad and left.

Some naija guys are just plain dumb, Wetin concern Xmas gift with sex.

Pathetic.

Rolex67:
Then finally tell you to come to their house. One promised me Christmas gift, went to take it, dude started demanding for sex, I was dumbfounded, got mad and left.

Some naija guys are just plain dumb, Wetin concern Xmas gift with sex.

Pathetic.

Forming holier than thou online.

What you do in secret is worse that Xmas gift sex...Thats women for u.

He wants you for sex, how is that related to the topic we are discussing here?

I can walk into a club and ask a girl for a sex without long conversation.

I have done it before...And the girl said yes. You dont need to beat around the bush to fvck an American girl.

No crime in asking for sex. You said No...fine..make we hear word

proxillin:


Forming holier than thou online.

What you do in secret is worse that Xmas gift sex...Thats women for u.

He wants you for sex, how is that related to the topic we are discussing here?

I can walk into a club and ask a girl for a sex without long conversation.

I have done it before...And the girl said yes. You dont need to beat about the around to fvck an American girl.

No crime in asking for sex. You said No...fine..make we hear word

You don't have sense, if naija guys talk about is sex, how do you expect the ladies to find their conversation intriguing? Why the fucck are you even mentioning American girl? we are in Nigeria for the love of mother and child, so don't compare and if a guy is so sex starved, he can enter ashawo joint and help himself out, not asking it indirectly and trying to lure someone with monetary gift, there are no two ways about it, so give me a break about you asking a lady for sex and she giving it to you immediately without no emotional attachment. Just so you know everybody is not the same.

Rolex67:
You don't have sense, if naija guys talk about is sex, how do you expect the ladies to find their conversation intriguing? Why the fucck are you even mentioning American girl? we are in Nigeria for the love of mother and child, so don't compare and if a guy is so sex starved, he can enter ashawo joint and help himself out, not asking it indirectly and trying to lure someone with monetary gift, there are no two ways about it, so give me a break about you asking a lady for sex and she giving it to you immediately without no emotional attachment. Just so you know everybody is not the same.

For the fact that the guy is asking you for sex is not a pointer that he is poor at conversing.
And my post is not about dating or wooing a lady. It is about gisting which we both know Nigerian girls deficient at.
No matter what you say, everything ends in “ok, No, Yes, the longest sentence is “I don’t know.”

proxillin:


For the fact that the guy is asking you for sex is not a pointer that he is poor at conversing.
And my post is not about dating or wooing a lady. It is about gisting which we both know Nigerian girls deficient at.
No matter what you say, everything ends in “ok, No, Yes, the longest sentence is “I don’t know.”

But there is something guys don't understand, its when a girl does not like you that she will reply you in such a monosyllabic manner.

Blackhawk01:
Issokay. Please, move to foreign babes. Abi, are we forcing you to chat with us?

easy lioness


You go sabi yab oo
Is diss how u use to do

2dice01:
easy lioness


You go sabi yab oo
Is diss how u use to do

Hehehehe

Call me tigress

Yab? Depends man, if the situation calls for it, I drop it and bounce.