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Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by realsammie(m): 8:45pm On Dec 30, 2017
I just read a thread about a guy on twitter who called Oritsefemi's wife a prostitute. you can check the thread here : https://www.nairaland.com/4261134/oritsefemis-wife-nabila-fash-reacts

I am very sad and angry with Nigeria men and their attitude towards our women. How dare you call someone a hoe. Who gave you the right and the audacity to be slut shamming ladies especially a married woman for Christ sake This nonsense has to stop in 2017.

Even though she has been into prostitution before as the twitter guy claims, for Christ sake it's her past. I don't just know why people will not just mind their business. Why do people derive joy in breaking people homes. HABA.

Even on the said thread, so many nairaland kids ( i call them kids because sense they have not) and some ladies ( imagine fa ) also calling her a hoe. I felt so bitter and felt like crying. Some ladies were even trying to correct some boys on the thread and the next thing the started calling them hoe. chai.

For those of you calling her a prostitute, if u are innocent why not cast the first stone. One will not be surprise that most of the boys that are quick to call her a prostitute are fuckboys and the ladies here on nairaland shouting she is a hoe, find out about them now and you will be disappointed with the number of d!cks they've taken, but since it's online, everybody na saint. I just tire for Naija youths.

As far as you are not a saint, you don't have the right whatsoever to be slut shaming people.

Nigerian youth, please let's channel our energy in making money and be productive in 2018. For me na hustle sure pass.
ALWAYS DRINK WATER AND MIND YOUR BUSINESS.

Cc: Booqee, IfeomaRash.

lalasticlala pls front page lets have other people's opinion.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Nobody: 8:48pm On Dec 30, 2017
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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Shayneward1: 8:49pm On Dec 30, 2017
Bros abeg if I see an olosho what will I call her?

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by TheUbermensch: 8:49pm On Dec 30, 2017
Slutshaming is just unapologetic honesty we can't deal.


You're calling things what they are.

You see a hoe, you call her one. You're being honest. Last I checked honesty is a virtue. The fact that you may be worse of doesn't mean you can't say the truth as it is.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Nobody: 8:49pm On Dec 30, 2017
That's what happens when you expose your marriage on social media.
Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Nobody: 8:55pm On Dec 30, 2017
kimbraa:
That's what happens when you expose your marriage on social media.

Not entirely true. It's what happens when you have a shady past or disgruntled exes who would like to settle scores but more of the former.

There are marriages on social media that did not receive such scathing reports.

Lesson is simple, do today what you will be proud of tomorrow. You don't know where tomorrow will take you.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Gofwane(m): 8:55pm On Dec 30, 2017
That is what you get when uncivilised illiterate gains access to the Internet. Most of them have only cobwebs as brain in their Skulls

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Femidigirits: 8:56pm On Dec 30, 2017
You don't need to fight for her.
While it is very wrong to slut shame a woman, her husband started the drama by not minding his business as you have advised.

You also did not mind your business by addressing nairaland boys as immature.

Celebrities will be respected if they avoid controversial topics on social media. Remember Banky W filming his wives nudes in error because he did not mind his business seeing a zebra.

I know I also did not mind my business commenting on you thread, but truth is we are all social beings are have opinions in the business of others.

It is wrong to say people who don't mind their business are jobless. Linda ikeji became a milonaire if not bilonaire by not minding her business.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by IfeomaRash(f): 8:57pm On Dec 30, 2017
realsammie:
I just read a thread about a guy on twitter who called Oritsefemi's wife a prostitute. you can check the thread here : https://www.nairaland.com/4261134/oritsefemis-wife-nabila-fash-reacts

I am very sad and angry with Nigeria men and their attitude towards our women. How dare you call someone a hoe. Who gave you the right and the audacity to be slut shamming ladies especially a married woman for Christ sake This nonsense has to stop in 2017.

Even though she has been into prostitution before as the twitter guy claims, for Christ sake it's her past. I don't just know why people will not just mind their business. Why do people derive joy in breaking people homes. HABA.

Even on the said thread, so many nairaland kids ( i call them kids because sense they have not) and some ladies ( imagine fa ) also calling her a hoe. I felt so bitter and felt like crying. Some ladies were even trying to correct some boys on the thread and the next thing the started calling them hoe. chai.

For those of you calling her a prostitute, if u are innocent why not cast the first stone. One will not be surprise that most of the boys that are quick to call her a prostitute are fuckboys and the ladies here on nairaland shouting she is a hoe, find out about them now and you will be disappointed with the number of d!cks they've taken, but since it's online, everybody na saint. I just tire for Naija youths.

As far as you are not a saint, you don't have the right whatsoever to be slut shaming people.

Nigerian youth, please let's channel our energy in making money and be productive in 2018. For me na hustle sure pass.
ALWAYS DRINK WATER AND MIND YOUR BUSINESS.

Cc: Booqee, IfeomaRash.

lalasticlala pls front page lets have other people's opinion.




Thanks dear.At least even if you are the only sensible guy on nairaland,then it means that there is still hope.This mentality of guys seeing every woman as a layabout is so appauling.Women are supposed to be respected,especially those you know nothing about.You can only call a woman a SL*T if u have paid her for s*x before and actually done it with her.May God forgive us all.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by coolestofall(m): 8:58pm On Dec 30, 2017
Only wuss do dat.
Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Nobody: 9:00pm On Dec 30, 2017
Blackfyre:


Not entirely true. It's what happens when you have a shady past or disgruntled exes who would like to settle scores but more of the former.

There are marriages on social media that did not receive such scathing reports.

Lesson is simple, do today what you will be proud of tomorrow. You don't know where tomorrow will take you.
The embolden explains it 'cause with all the fuss they made, it seems like something someone with a scary past would do.
Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by olaleks007(m): 9:02pm On Dec 30, 2017
I declare this thread closed.



Using panadol for another person headache.

Wetin concern me with another person life when am not done with mine. Anyway this is 2018 we are entering o

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by samyfreshsmooth(m): 9:06pm On Dec 30, 2017
everyone should learn to mind their businesses come 2018


if we all do that, trust me the fighting , hating, and rubbish talks will reduce by a great percentage...

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by IamLEGEND1: 9:07pm On Dec 30, 2017
I see some idiots_have been infected by the political correctness virus.
if it talks like a hoe, acts like a hoe, or even breathes like a hoe, then it is most definitely a hoe.

no one told her to run around obanikoro grinding & clapping her ass cheeks on random dicks_for money.
She a hoe, no two ways about it.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by realsammie(m): 9:07pm On Dec 30, 2017
Shayneward1:
Bros abeg if I see an olosho what will I call her?

The case study here is oritsefemI's wife. How do you know she's an olosho? You don't call people olosho when you knoe nothing about them

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Mitchellense: 9:07pm On Dec 30, 2017
Hmmm
Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Gofwane(m): 9:10pm On Dec 30, 2017
TheUbermensch:
Slutshaming is just unapologetic honesty we can't deal.


You're calling things what they are.

You see a hoe, you call her one. You're being honest. Last I checked honesty is a virtue. The fact that you may be worse of doesn't mean you can't say the truth as it is.


What about minding your business??

People especially Nigerians have taken it upon Themselves to be talking panadol for someone else's headache. The unfortunate thing is that those people have their own secret flaws.

For instance, a murderer or an armed robber will come online and start insulting a prostitute forgetting the fact that they themselves killed or robbed people.

There is this saying that says: let him without sin be the first to cast stone!

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Cladez(m): 9:11pm On Dec 30, 2017
IfeomaRash:
Thanks dear.At least even if you are the only sensible guy on nairaland,then it means that there is still hope.This mentality of guys seeing every woman as a layabout is so appauling.Women are supposed to be respected,especially those you know nothing about.You can only call a woman a SL*T if u have paid her for s*x before and actually done it with her.May God forgive us all.
You have an 1830 kind of mentality.........RESPECT IS EARNED

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by realsammie(m): 9:11pm On Dec 30, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
I see some idiots_have been infected by the political correctness virus.
if it talks like a hoe, acts like a hoe, or even breathes like a hoe, then it is most definitely a hoe.

no one told her to run around obanikoro grinding & clapping her ass cheeks on random dicks_for money.
She a hoe, no two ways about it.

See guy, i am not supporting her or anything, but the point I'm tryna make is that we should stop judging people we know nothing about especially on social Media. that's my point.
Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Gofwane(m): 9:16pm On Dec 30, 2017
samyfreshsmooth:
everyone should learn to mind their businesses come 2018.
Words of wisdom!
Only a truly matured and a deep-thinking person will see the need to mind their business.
Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Gofwane(m): 9:17pm On Dec 30, 2017
realsammie:


See guy, i am not supporting her or anything, but the point I'm tryna make is that we should stop judging people we know nothing about especially on social Media. that's my point.
that's it!
Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Nobody: 9:24pm On Dec 30, 2017
if a lady sleeps with a man in exchange for money she"s an ashi na.which one come be the slut shaming for inside?
that she"s married is no big deal.many ashis get married but they continue their trade codedly in married life.if u act like an ashawo then expect to be treated like one.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by realsammie(m): 9:30pm On Dec 30, 2017
lefulefu:
if a lady sleeps with a man in exchange for money she"s an ashi na.which one come be the slut shaming for inside?
that she"s married is no big deal.many ashis get married but they continue their trade codedly in married life.if u act like an ashawo then expect to be treated like one.

But you will agree with me that naija men like slut shaming a lot especially when they see a financially independent lady. the next thing you hear is she is a prostitute. they are so many here on nairaland. We need to change our mind set towards women
Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by error4040: 9:34pm On Dec 30, 2017
"I FELT SO BITTER ALMOST LIKE CRYING"

Weak biyatch!!!

you should have Cried na..... Dude this one You just Carry her matter what you need to know is No one Care about how you feel Deep-Sh1t!!!, Sheza HOE!!! sheza HOE!!! & She was busy Sucking D1cks on the Low!!!

a hoe would forever be a WH0RE!!!

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Please Next time do STFU!
smiley

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by edimolu(m): 9:36pm On Dec 30, 2017
Without mincing words, Since you have taken it upon yourself to speak for oritsefemi, you had better get to business already, You have a long way to go though, start your preaching from 2go and walk your way up the ladder till you get to forums like this! I hope you do get paid for your troubles!

That being said, i do not know if she is a hoe or not, i do not care, she aint my wife, am i the one hitting her cookie-jar? But let people's opinion prevail abeegi...am sure everyone has a reason to that...

I don't think calling a blind-man "blind" is an insult!grin
Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by Nobody: 9:38pm On Dec 30, 2017
realsammie:


But you will agree with me that naija men like slut shaming a lot especially when they see a financially independent lady. the next thing you hear is she is a prostitute. they are so many here on nairaland. We need to change our mind set towards women
na our expertise be dat grin.even here on nairaland when some guys disagree with a lady the next thing u hear is olosho! olosho!.that one is so wrong and is outright bullying.having said that;..a lady that hops from one pingolo to another in different hotels in exchange for money is an olosho na.she has no reason be angry for being tagged as such.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by edimolu(m): 9:43pm On Dec 30, 2017
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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by QuietHammer(m): 9:45pm On Dec 30, 2017
When I see a farmer I call him/her a farmer.
When I see a Doctor I call him/her a doctor.
When I see a slut, nigga I'll call her a slut undecided

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by edimolu(m): 9:45pm On Dec 30, 2017
error4040:
"I FELT SO BITTER ALMOST LIKE CRYING"

LoL you should have Cried na..... Dude sheza HOE!!! a hoe would forever be a WHÔRE!!!

&
Please Next time do STFU!

Fixed that for ya!

I cannor laugh finish abeegi
Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by error4040: 9:58pm On Dec 30, 2017
edimolu:

Fixed that for ya!
I cannor laugh finish abeegi
thanks mate! already refixed smiley
Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by edimolu(m): 10:03pm On Dec 30, 2017
error4040:
thanks mate! already refixed smiley

Yes man...your comment got my rib-cracking...savage you are!

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Re: Nigerian Men And Slut Shamming by realsammie(m): 10:15pm On Dec 30, 2017
[quote author=error4040 post=63752999] "I FELT SO BITTER ALMOST LIKE CRYING"

Weak biyatch!!!

you should have Cried na..... Dude this one You just Carry her matter what you need to know is No one Care about how you feel Deep-Sh1t!!!, Sheza HOE!!! sheza HOE!!! & She was busy Sucking D1cks on the Low!!!

a hoe would forever be a WH0RE!!!

&
Please Next time do STFU!
smiley
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This your comment shows how old you are. Calling me names will not change the fact that you among those kids who see successful ladies as slut. change your mindset in 2018

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