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Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Gofwane(m): 7:33pm On Jan 03
JayIlych:

Probably an error. Thanks for pointing it out
haha, your signature no be here o grin grin grin
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 7:34pm On Jan 03
Nelly21 ppost=63864280:
From your write up it's obvious you knew they are sisters before you went after Ada...Why would you do something like that when you know it is sure to lead to strife between the two of them? I mean there are other girls why go for her sister in particular? I don't doubt that you may truly love the girl but if she ends up with you there will always be a coldness between the siblings unless Abigail gets married too
I was unaware of that. Would i knowingly put myself in a mess?
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 7:39pm On Jan 03
Gofwane:
haha, your signature no be here o grin grin grin
grin
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by sinceraconcept(m): 7:44pm On Jan 03
JayIlych koor,jarule nii. which kind moniker be this? na your type fit write this kind story
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Exceptionalgod(f): 7:48pm On Jan 03
JayIlych:

If i tell ada, she'll never trust me around her sis. She'll always wonder if i'm straffing abigail behind her back.

think it this way... what if she finds out later, will she ever trust u its better to die for truth than live for lies..

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Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 8:17pm On Jan 03
Exceptionalgod:


think it this way... what if she finds out later, will she ever trust u its better to die for truth than live for lies..
Sometimes its good to lie to the one you love to protect them from hurt.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by dingbang(m): 8:26pm On Jan 03
JayIlych:

I'm afraid i'll be the one to lose. I hope she even agrees to the date and sees reason. So i shouldn't tell ada, right?
you won't be the one to lose brother.. Just do as I say... Yes don't tell Ada.. Somethings are meant to be kept hidden deep down in the deep blue sea.

Like me now.. If I wana marry a woman and my woman comes to confess that she had sex with my younger brother before she met me, I am so calling off that wedding no matter what we have been through.. Even if the wedding is tomorrow sef.. I no send..
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 8:43pm On Jan 03
dingbang:
you won't be the one to lose brother.. Just do as I say... Yes don't tell Ada.. Somethings are meant to be kept hidden deep down in the deep blue sea.

Like me now.. If I wana marry a woman and my woman comes to confess that she had sex with my younger brother before she met me, I am so calling off that wedding no matter what we have been through.. Even if the wedding is tomorrow sef.. I no send..
After you marry her, and find out, divorce?
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by dingbang(m): 8:57pm On Jan 03
JayIlych:

After you marry her, and find out, divorce?
nope.. But she will hate herself for the rest of her life.... You think its easy living with a woman with the knowledge that ur brother had already shagged her before you... That's condescending mehn.. I can't deal with that...

Its better a friend did it and I know its outside..than for a blood brother...someone I will be seeing every time... Naaaaah... I cant deal ..
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 9:05pm On Jan 03
dingbang:
nope.. But she will hate herself for the rest of her life.... You think its easy living with a woman with the knowledge that ur brother had already shagged her before you... That's condescending mehn.. I can't deal with that...

Its better a friend did it and I know its outside..than for a blood brother...someone I will be seeing every time... Naaaaah... I cant deal ..
I think i have to call off my plans of marrying her. Too much complications. It's a no-win situation cry sad
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by dingbang(m): 9:08pm On Jan 03
JayIlych:

I think i have to call off my plans of marrying her. Too much complications. It's a no-win situation cry sad
better... Please just never let her know the real reason was that you had sex with her sister... Never ever.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Zinny25(f): 9:18pm On Jan 03
@op the best option is just for to call off the wedding look somewhere else. There will be repercussions in future.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 11:53pm On Jan 03
dingbang:
better... Please just never let her know the real reason was that you had sex with her sister... Never ever.
She's on my arms as i type this. Mehn, i love her so much. She's my ideal woman sad. I'll talk to abigail tomorrow first to see if it can be salvaged
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 11:57pm On Jan 03
Zinny25:
@op the best option is just for to call off the wedding look somewhere else. There will be repercussions in future.
You think it's that easy?
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by myrrtle(m): 12:35am On Jan 04
AryEmber:
What's there to feel bothered about? As an human, I may be worried for a while but as long as you're the one who told me and I didn't hear it from outside, I would count her as your past. Is she a virgin? What if she has screwed a friend of yours before nko?
lolx
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by dingbang(m): 2:42am On Jan 04
JayIlych:

She's on my arms as i type this. Mehn, i love her so much. She's my ideal woman sad. I'll talk to abigail tomorrow first to see if it can be salvaged
whatever u wana do..do it quick
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Apina(m): 3:23am On Jan 04
JayIlych:
I decided to drop this here. I had casual sex with Abigail(not real name) for some months before we stopped seeing each other.
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Fastforward to now, and i met Ada(not real name), was deeply in love with her and now wants to marry her. Problem is, her sister is Abigail. We've not done formal introduction yet, Abigail doesn't seem happy, and i already told her she was a part of my past, but she still seems unhappy.
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I really love Ada and want her for a wife, but what problems could Ada pose to the marriage?
MATURED ADVICE PLS.
Lalasticlala, mynd44.
Are u the first person to fvck Abigail? undecided if not, tell her say make she face bush angry
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Exceptionalgod(f): 6:46am On Jan 04
JayIlych:

Sometimes its good to lie to the one you love to protect them from hurt.

u av made up ur mind to keep it from her but I bet the secret won't last long.. u don't even kno what Abigail is planning behind.. put urself in her shoes, ur younger brother once enjoyed casual sex with ur now gf, ll u prefer being in the dark to knowing??

will u prefer hearing from ur gal herself or hearing from ur brother or an outsider??

if u eventually finds out after marriage, will u be happy?? what ll u do??

will u ever trust ur wife even with the male dog of ur house?? this is so logical.. think twice bro

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Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Zinny25(f): 8:28am On Jan 04
JayIlych:

You think it's that easy?
I know it isn't easy but you are about to cause serious trouble in that family. I'm sure if the parents get to know of it, they won't be in support of the marriage. If you tell Abigail, she's also a girl she will feel jealous especially now that she's still single. Don't just put trouble in a peaceful family. The decision lies in your hands though, anyhow. Bit that's my take
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 9:09am On Jan 04
Zinny25:
I know it isn't easy but you are about to cause serious trouble in that family. I'm sure if the parents get to know of it, they won't be in support of the marriage. If you tell Abigail, she's also a girl she will feel jealous especially now that she's still single. Don't just put trouble in a peaceful family. The decision lies in your hands though, anyhow. Bit that's my take
I'll be having a talk with abigail today. We'll see how it goes. I'll update you guys
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 9:12am On Jan 04
Exceptionalgod:


u av made up ur mind to keep it from her but I bet the secret won't last long.. u don't even kno what Abigail is planning behind.. put urself in her shoes, ur younger brother once enjoyed casual sex with ur now gf, ll u prefer being in the dark to knowing??

will u prefer hearing from ur gal herself or hearing from ur brother or an outsider??

if u eventually finds out after marriage, will u be happy?? what ll u do??

will u ever trust ur wife even with the make dog of ur house?? this is so logical.. think twice bro

I'll have to tell ada and hope for the best. But i'll have a talk with abigail today, will update you guys.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 9:16am On Jan 04
Apina:

Are u the first person to fvck Abigail? undecided if not, tell her say make she face bush angry
Lol grin. But its not that simple sad
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 9:17am On Jan 04
dingbang:
whatever u wana do..do it quick
I'll talk to abigail today. Depending on the outcome, i'll know what to do. I'll update you later
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 9:27am On Jan 04
AryEmber:
What's there to feel bothered about? As an human, I may be worried for a while but as long as you're the one who told me and I didn't hear it from outside, I would count her as your past. Is she a virgin? What if she has screwed a friend of yours before nko?
I'll speak to abigail today. The outcome of the discussion would influence my decision
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Exceptionalgod(f): 10:58am On Jan 08
this is 4days after u promised to speak to Ada, so how did it went??

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