“My Back-Up Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do” — Confused Young Lady Asks

A young Nigerian lady has written to relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin, that she is confused because her ‘back-up’ boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes.

The young lady has been hiding her engagement ring from her main boyfriend who is yet to pop the question to her.

Here’s what she wrote below ;

Good evening,



I currently cohabit with my boyfriend of 4 years for 6 months now, he is serious but wants to make money first before popping the question.

Yesterday a backup boyfriend i had but hardly see, proposed to me. i said yes but i hide the ring from my main boyfriend. How do i get out from this dilemma.

Both of them are still trying to make money but this other guy loves me more.

I don’t have enoough money now, i would have gone to rent a place urgently till my new fiancee is ready to do wedding .
I’ve been deceitful and i regret so badly! Guilt is killing me. i need advice on how to break the news and get free joro.

SOURCE: https://primesng.com/back-boyfriend-proposed-said-yes-confused-young-lady-asks/

Lol

Back up boyfriend


I think she's referring to Efe

:DBackup boyfriend...... but guys dey suffer for relationships ooo

Deceptive people deserve every ounce of strain they get from their deceptiveness. So deal with it till you make the wrong decision. That's what you brought upon yourself!

Finally Somebody Shocked Me...


Did I Just Hear Back-up Boyfriend?


Smh!
Weird Shiit We Take For Love


Btw...

Dont You Think Its Stupid To Ask This Question... You Said Yes... Who Gives A fvck?!


Please Get Lost!

Backup boyfriend?
Sum pussy yaff suffer

All these nonsense must stop!!!

Some babe gat heart.. Like real heart not the ones of chicken..
Back upboyfriend, so the way you backup your files you're also backing up your relationship...

Divay22:
Some babe gat heart.. Like real heart not the ones of chicken..
Back upboyfriend, so the way you backup your files you're also backing up your relationship...

She didn't place her hope on one guy, probably she didn't expect the backup boyfriend to turn out serious.

When u were planing to ve the so called back up boy frnd did u ask for our opinion

Yeeeepa mogbe,back up ke man don suffer,,,,,,




mak I go ask my bae o mk I knw which category I dey ooooooooo

nikkypearl:
Backup boyfriend?
Sum pussy yaff suffer

All these nonsense must stop!!!

na wa for u ooooo


Forming as if u're different or brand new

Huee:

She didn't place her hope on one guy, probably she didn't expect the backup boyfriend to turn out serious.

Ehn
Same way her pussy wasn't placed in one place.... In the first place, is she really suppose to have anything like a backup boyfriend (She loves the main one, just that he's not financially stable and even the backup is still not stable)

If i was to be the main guy, she ain't coming back to me if i find out.. And to think she even accepted his proposal before thinking of how to go about it....

Abeg make everybody with him cross carry o

iamJ:
na was for u ooooo


Forming as if u're different or brand new

i just dey luk you

Upgrade him to husband. Drop d main bf

After God, fear women.

I'm sure she said that her side man loves her more because he gives her more money. What some Nigerian girls will do for money...

It is unfortunate you have built an empire relationship without a foundation. If you say the truth, you lose all and if you continue in the lies, you lose same. My advice is for you to come clean and make parties involve know your stand. It is better to be a single being searched than to be a deceptive single and a horrible housewife.
Did I hear you say Co-habit? You need a new dawn

Lol...

2017-side nigga
2018-backup boyfriend.
Its okay, continue.... .

nikkypearl:
i just dey luk you

u're not a virgin. Stop acting jor

bloggers and fake story sha

Silly question. Break up with the time killer and announce your engagement to your family.

Backup boyfriend ke? The guy na laptop battery? Mark my words, young lady: the thunder wey go fire you is charging enthusiastically.

how the world have gone from bad to worse


1st-5th century (some 500 yrs ago):
just the main guy


6th-9th century:
they invented side guy aka the big preek guy


10th-15 century:
main "nigga"/"maga" was discovered (for monetary purposes only)


16th-20th century:
they created a better substitute called the "side nigga/maga"



later part of 20th century-till date:
back up boyfriend was invented


i swear after God fear the vagina and after the vagina fear women

Backup boyfriend- ladies
Side chicks- men

I dont blame her, she doesnt want to put her hope on one boyfriend incase he fvck up same way guys have side chick incase the main chick fvck up


She should marry him, he is more serious than the main guy.

Back up bf? 2018 will be interesting

Which wing is the back up playing

Keep xpanding ur Vjay in the name of back up BF....

Nah so one idiot tell me for xmas say na too much trekking from bus stop to lecture dey make her Vjay xpand. ..... I was like , u Don mean it...

What's my own, just use rubber play my game commot....

really ?

raise the substitute board. ....... tell him its time for a reserve player to come in..

back to the topic... this night before sleep ask him abt his plans that someone wants to seek your hands according to your parents/siblings. ..so if u don't get a cool reply ...tomorrow morning tell him u will going home to answer your parents during the weekend. .if no moves....then appear with the ring next week from home ...let him fin solutions.

Wait oh , people have back up boyfriends?

This nonsense must stop in 2018, a situation were a guy will not marry until he has "made" money. That's a pure deception from Hell.

Both of you are living together yet he can't propose. Did you tell him money was your problem? I don't understand were this mindset originated from; the " I must make it before I get married" syndrome.

Let men in all sincerity stop wasting their partners time this year. Godbless.

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See this one with loosed pussy stil wan gt choice