Dblock89:
After reading some comments above, I discovered that most ladies see nothing wrong with this tho I know guys cheat as well but this is bad... As I can understand the story this girl is living with the main guy that she loves more but presently the guy is hustling so that everything would be fine and they can get married together but this girl is having an affair with someone else at the same time knowing fully well that this backup guy isn't financially stable as well! All I can say is that girl you need to amend your ways or better still get yourself delivered by à true man of God because if not karma will catch up with you sooner or later.

not like we see nothing wrong in it but she already did it, what she need is advice and not condemnation. any1 can b in that situation, we need to put ourselves in her shoes and stop acting holier than angels. I feel 4 her, she have made a mistake, but being a girl of marriageable age, I really understand what she is going through

gloria34:
i deny it 100%, I dont even have a bf, sorry, ask some1 else

Na so

sinceraconcept:
oga,provide statistics conducted on at least 500k girls. 99% bawo. but no girl should be treated like a queen sha,don't spend on any girl cos if you do,you become unattractive to her and she brings in someone she considers attractive and would Bleep her free but you would be the maga and she would pretend to you like she loves you for the money to keep coming but the other player she's giving her pussy to free of charge is the one she really craves and not you

obviously some1 has done that to u, sorry o but some guys have done worse to some ladies yet d ladies are still willing to give relationship a try. go work on urself, try to 4give and stop such advice as d 1 u are spreading now.

Lol. Backup boyfriend? Omo we don die finish.

she probably didnt have trust on her main boyfriend. And she's probably confused because she didnt expect things will turn out this way. Maybe all she was hoping for was that the main boyfriend could dump her....and then she will turn to her backup bf. She has to define who she wants for the right choice and that's when confusion will end. Saying yes doesnt mean you cant say 'No' later.

Josephamstrong1:

I love my bae... Really?

is it that difficult to believe?

gloria34:
I am not perfect but I don't cheat. I easily get hurt so I don't want to do same to others

Your fiance must be favored then. We all grow to perfection, and our growth is directly proportional to our sincerity. Anyone with backup has no confidence in God. We now have a generation in church but not in Christ

nikkypearl:
Backup boyfriend? Sum pussy yaff suffer
All these nonsense must stop!!!

kikiki... What manner of children

justmi1:
Hmmmm, this is a very dicey situation, though as a young man I detest a girl with "back up " boyfriends, however it is not uncommon for ladies of marriageable age to have back ups.
Having said that, a guy that has dated you for 4 years should propose already, it shouldn't always be about money, you guys can plan together.
Now the backup guy made a fast move, apparently he loves you more.
If you really love your main man, make him propose and return the backup guy's ring quietly, otherwise let the main man go.
Be careful though, you could become Lord of the ring
In fact the matter pass me, you should never have back up except if it's for power supply...
This is like 9ja bet, your ticket fit cut

thumbs up!

aigboeben:

Your fiance must be favored then. We all grow to perfection, and our growth is directly proportional to our sincerity. Anyone with backup has no confidence in God. We now have a generation in church but not in Christ

don't have 1 4 now tho, i'm sure d lucky 1 is favoured. thank u

gloria34:
don't have 1 4 now tho, i'm sure d lucky 1 is favoured. thank u

Really? What happened? Something must happen before this year ends

aigboeben:

Really? What happened? Something must happen before this year ends

he just cut communication. nothing happened, we didn't have issues. started calling 2days back with some funny stories. I told him to 4get about it, i'm done with excuses

so after you don say yes
what should you do?
give him poison then.........

your back up boi frnd
laise artist with back up
aiye le oooo... ibosi ooo

gloria34:
he just cut communication. nothing happened, we didn't have issues. started calling 2days back with some funny stories. I told him to 4get about it, i'm done with excuses

For how long were you two together? Does he live far from you? Ever suspected him seeing someone before now?

aigboeben:

For how long were you two together? Does he live far from you? Ever suspected him seeing someone before now?

we live in same street, we were together 4 almost a yr, I've always had my suspicion but being that I am a jealous person, I didn't want to seem too jealous by asking. well, I am really done with excuses

gloria34:
we live in same street, we were together 4 almost a yr, I've always had my suspicion but being that I am a jealous person, I didn't want to seem too jealous by asking. well, I am really done with excuses

Same street is like same house. Could job have kept him busy?

gloria34:
we live in same street, we were together 4 almost a yr, I've always had my suspicion but being that I am a jealous person, I didn't want to seem too jealous by asking. well, I am really done with excuses

For how long did he cut communication? Or was he avoiding Christmas responsibilities? Did he complain of anything to you before cutting communication? Obviously he has been giving you excuses before this.

aigboeben:

Same street is like same house. Could job have kept him busy?

that was his claim, but not calling 4 2weeks yet I see ur update on whatsapp? that's really d height of it

biacan:
:DBackup boyfriend...... but guys dey suffer for relationships ooo

Thank God say you self don Confirm am

gloria34:
that was his claim, but not calling 4 2weeks yet I see ur update on whatsapp? that's really d height of it

Didn't he communicate with you on Whatsapp? At least a physical presence is not needed for that. I think festive period should be used to show love to those you care about. Be mindful of your temper too. His friends?

your life your rules none of anyones fucking business.....

You're bleeped though

northvietnam:
Which wing is the back up playing

Keep xpanding ur Vjay in the name of back up BF....

Nah so one idiot tell me for xmas say na too much trekking from bus stop to lecture dey make her Vjay xpand. ..... I was like , u Don mean it...

What's my own, just use rubber play my game commot....

Hahahahahahaha

aigboeben:

Didn't he communicate with you on Whatsapp? At least a physical presence is not needed for that. I think festive period should be used to show love to those you care about. Be mindful of your temper too. His friends?

when I said he cut off communication, I meant in all ways. stopped taking my calls, no whatsapp message, no Fb message, 4 two weeks. now he is back saying he was busy at work. d excuse is too lame. its not d first time, but it was usually a 2 or 3 day thing.

chai,nothing I no go hear,hmm backup boyfriend, sha I no blame boys make the get ten girlfriend, the guy na backup boyfriend fr her side o,but she go be fifth fiance fr the guy side, hahaha life goes on,e no concern government sha

You sleep with someone for great 6months, so you wanna change pen.. Well done ma!! Another 6 months for you. Don't worry, Korede will sing mongopack for you soon.

gloria34:
when I said he cut off communication, I meant in all ways. stopped taking my calls, no whatsapp message, no Fb message, 4 two weeks. now he is back saying he was busy at work. d excuse is too lame. its not d first time, but it was usually a 2 or 3 day thing.

Trust and communication seem to be missing in your relationship with him . What convinced you to be involved with him initially?

aigboeben:

Didn't he communicate with you on Whatsapp? At least a physical presence is not needed for that. I think festive period should be used to show love to those you care about. Be mindful of your temper too. His friends?

always claim he don't have friends in delta state. he didn't grow up here, actually came here due to work. I only know few of his colleagues but Dont have their number and I didn't bother going to his place of work cos I knew he was fine due to his status update

gloria34:
always claim he don't have friends in delta state. he didn't grow up here, actually came here due to work. I only know few of his colleagues but Dont have their number and I didn't bother going to his place of work cos I knew he was fine due to his status update

Now what tangible reason is he giving?

VastFinder:
“My Back-Up Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do” — Confused Young Lady Asks

A young Nigerian lady has written to relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin, that she is confused because her ‘back-up’ boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes.

The young lady has been hiding her engagement ring from her main boyfriend who is yet to pop the question to her.

Here’s what she wrote below ;



SOURCE: https://primesng.com/back-boyfriend-proposed-said-yes-confused-young-lady-asks/

Wait for his backup girlfriend to propose to him first then, since time de for u

Tell him the truth, its bad to start your marriage with lies. Just tell him "baby you were my backup boyfriend, never knew you would be serious"

northvietnam:
Which wing is the back up playing

Keep xpanding ur Vjay in the name of back up BF....

Nah so one idiot tell me for xmas say na too much trekking from bus stop to lecture dey make her Vjay xpand. ..... I was like , u Don mean it...

What's my own, just use rubber play my game commot....

Seriously guy!!! Lmaoo p
Shey she dey spread her legs wide dey waka ni? Girls and lies