Good evening Nairalander's, It's your boy xxxtedyxxx. I remain loyal.

This One Little Secret Could Save You From Heart Breaks This Year,and Get You A Fulfilling Relationship.

Why do you feel bad after a breakup? Why is it sometimes difficult for you to let go of that ex? Why do you feel pain and regret whenever you think of a girl you spent a lot on?

The answers to these questions is the same - INVESTMENT.

What do you mean by investment? Investment are the little things you do to move the relationship forward. You can also term it as the effort you put into a relationship to make it work. Investment is not just limited to relationships. Fundamentally, investment encompasses every male-female interaction be it online ( Whatsapp, Facebook etc) or physical.

How do you know when you are investing?

You invest in a relationship when you do any of the following:

•> call her- whether to check on her or to show you care,
•> buy her gifts - e.g dates, birthdays, valentine's etc
•> send her recharge cards - whether she requests for it or not it doesn't matter.
•> send her money - e.g cash or transfer
•> deprive yourself of certain pleasures just to please her - e.g spending time with her at the expense of your own family, friends etc
•>and so on.


cc lalasticlala you need to see this.

CC; Seun ishilove

lalasticlala

Why do you invest?

To put it simply, you invest because you are attracted to her, and because you want the interaction with her to move towards your desired goal - dating, sex, marriage etc.

Oftentimes, you don't understand why you invest. You just meet a new girl, and the next thing you start investing. However a basic understanding will clear your head. The media and the society we live in have portrayed a man's role as secondary. A man has to do all the work. In the long run, he falls into a secondary role. Secondary in the sense that, when he keeps on investing, and investing - defying the laws of investment- it makes him predictable in the long run. Consequently, he becomes a Slave, while she remains the Master.

The 4 Rules of Investment

•> Whoever invests more has less control of the relationship.

This person feels more pain after a breakup. For a guy, investing too much on a girl, who doesn't invest on you, will only make you predictable. Consequently, you get tagged a "MAGA." She has to invest too. You are not a slave. This is why it feels hard letting go of a girl you have spent a lot on.

•> Whoever invests less has more control of the relationship.

This person feels less pain after a breakup. Nothing to lose since you never put in much effort to make things work. You are like the master, while the other party, the slave, does all the work for you.

•> To make her invest, first attract her.

This is very important. A girl will only invest if she is attracted to you, or if she values you. There are no two ways about it. A girl won't spend her money on you if she she doesn't like you. So go back to the drawing board, and work on your attraction game.


•> Always keep the level of your investment on a par with hers.

A perfect relationship is one in which both parties work together to achieve an attainable goal. You trip her out today, pay the bills; and the next outing, she trips you out too- bills on her. You get her stuffs and she gets you too. You call her, texts her, go out of your way to please her. She surprises you by does the same thing. Your relationships a never-ending fun of pure nirvana.


lalasticlala

You might think investing too much on a girl you just met will make her like you. It might, and it might not. If it does, the she only sees you as a means to an end. For a fulfilling relationship she must invest too. You are not under any obligation to invest because you just met her, and you think: " Wow, she is beautiful! I must impress her."

Have you ever asked yourself: " What is she even bringing to the table?" Be different this year. Let there be a change. Don't waste your hard earned money on any random girl because you want to please her. You will begin to have a great relationship when you imbibe these ideas into your social interactions. This year is your year.

Peace.

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BendTheKnee:

Must u laugh on everything

Quite Interesting And True... Some Ladies Might Not Like This...

Investment!
I Just Know How To talk To Them and Touch Them and They Begin To Impress me

DeadRat:
Quite Interesting And True... Some Ladies Might Not Like This...


Investment!

I Just Know How To talk To Them and Touch Them and They Begin To Impress me

lols funny bad guy.

thanks for the kind words.

Investment....

RuthDaniels:
Lol! No one wants to be heartbroken again . This will only work in a calculated relationship not one that happens naturally (based on genuine feelings ).
When you are in love with someone, you invest your time, emotions, gifts and all willingly.


Trying to manage or control your feelings in a relationship is a complete waste of time, energy and emotions. If you aren't ready to love and trust your partner, why get involved in the first place? Crap!

BTW op why is the thread only for guys? Ladies get heartbroken too

nice contribution.

When you are in a relationship, you invest all your time, cash, efforts etc, but what if the other party doesn't do the same? Sadly, this is the cause of major breakups nowadays; where one party feels used.

A relationship is a synergy. The two parties must first understand that. That way, they both exert the same effort towards making things work. But time and time again, we see guys doing girls favours- girls who don't deserve it, and girls doing unworthy guys favours.

I don't write for guys only.... The concepts outlined here will work for the ladies too. Thanks for stopping by..hAppy newYeaR

Nedfed:
Must u laugh on everything

Who's this pig

BendTheKnee:
Who's this pig

Ur fada of cos

Investment is key.

If you use these tips, you must surely see changes in your social game.

xxxtedyxxx:
If you use these tips, you must surely see changes in your social game.

u rite.u said wen a gal respect/value u she invest.i wan 2 ask hw do u mak a gal respect/value u.giv us practical indepth tips on dis area.nd hw do apply it ur online chat on 1 hand.nd offline chat.pls

Cowbuoy:
So the boyfriend of that Lady that accepted the proposal of the backup boyfriend no dey invest enough?? Despite the fact they were cohabiting together??


Honestly, I think the biggest mistake you can ever make in life nowadays with respect to relationship is believing in a future with somebody who doesn’t see your worth..

lol you didn't read the write up. If a girl likes you, or loves you, or values you, she will definitely invest. Contrary to mainstream belief, investing does not make a girl like you. The backup boyfriend is her main guy, forget the everything else.

xxxtedyxxx:



lol you didn't read the write up. If a girl likes you, or loves you, or values you, she will definitely invest. Contrary to mainstream belief, investing does not make a girl like you. The backup boyfriend is her main guy, forget the everything else.

dt d problem we guys ar facing wit d ferminist media we get brainwash wit d a real man is aman wit shining armor dt invest d more in a gal.but wen a gal invest in u lik wat u preach dt wen true luv begins u as a guy is 2 reward her investment y it is so because dt d way God created a woman.e dey bible "wife b submissive 2 ur husband"investing/investment."husband luv ur wife" return/rewards of investment(dividend).does lik christ is 2 d church.dt y christ say give me ur life(hrt)ie invest ur hrt/mind 2 me nd i wil giv u eternal life(reward). i didnt knw dt wat it meant until cum dey observe mature players doing nd start 2 read real preaching 4rm real luv coach 4 guys lik teddy,nneji one guy 4 youtube.y ther is radical ferminism 2day is because our father generatn didnt reward our mother generatn investment.we guys ar suffering 4rm our old man mistakes nd ingrate attitude.if u think am lying b submissive 2 ur gf nd c hw u get a shocker 1 day.dt y charles nneji says b a funny boss.while ur woman is d secretary d film or office is d relatnship.can u pay a secretary dt does nt cum 2 wrk at all.or cum twice a wk or u do both d wrk of a oga nd secretary nd u still pay ur secretary salary.wen ur pastor preaching d normal woman b submissive is an order 4rm God.knw it nt wat it actual means dt y u hav egoistic man always saying am d man of d house u must b submissive 2 me lik sey we men b king nd our women na subject is wrong.wen u undastand dis nd ask expert dt knw wat up.u can start seducing a lady 2 invest in u unconsciously.but u must reward or else karma do jam u.wat am sayin brothas u wouldnt hear 4rm a christian fellow nw wen u read dt bible passage shey it luk more practicable nd nt sound lik u acting a role in a mouie called relatnship/marriage.

true talk...confirm

I like this guy like my two eye balls. Him post about relay they always make sense...

...and what does she do in return? Don't tell me sex else frog jump will be your surname now.

So because God gave us that tail in between our legs, all the sacrifices na we go do dey do am eekwa. Nonsense

na so

Olasco93:
I like this guy like my two eye balls. Him post about relay they always make sense...

Thanks bro.

still trending.

op, u r on point. i was guilty of number one, always calling. But when i realized she was not really reciprocating my calls, i had to stop calling immediately. I call a girl i liked once and she picked my call and told me to call her back later. i said to myself "what the hell"? isn't she suppose to tell me she is indisposed now, that she will call me or atleast flash me when she is disposed. i was slighlty pissed and i didn't call back and i stopped calling altogether. There is no point wasting time on somebody who has not shown any sign of fancying being your friend.

na so.. just try and correct your errors.

IBBG:
op, u r on point. i was guilty of number one, always calling. But when i realized she was not really reciprocating my calls, i had to stop calling immediately. I call a girl i liked once and she picked my call and told me to call her back later. i said to myself "what the hell"? isn't she suppose to tell me she is indisposed now, that she will call me or atleast flash me when she is disposed. i was slighlty pissed and i didn't call back and i stopped calling altogether. There is no point wasting time on somebody who has not shown any sign of fancying being your friend.

True talk my brother.

Have you read this.

following.............

I actually like heart breaks that feeling of emptiness, and loneliness and also the ability to dwell on negative things, plus a legitimate reason to hit the bottles and push yourself to succeed some people actually like feeling sad.

IBBG:
op, u r on point. i was guilty of number one, always calling. But when i realized she was not really reciprocating my calls, i had to stop calling immediately. I call a girl i liked once and she picked my call and told me to call her back later. i said to myself "what the hell"? isn't she suppose to tell me she is indisposed now, that she will call me or atleast flash me when she is disposed. i was slighlty pissed and i didn't call back and i stopped calling altogether. There is no point wasting time on somebody who has not shown any sign of fancying being your friend.

Reminds me of some girl in my church. Giving me the green light but not responding to calls or chats...... I just free am asap joor.

Yea true