dumodust:

real bros correct themselves bluntly when they go astray. i wont like to have a bro like you... no offense but your loyalty is misdirected and will lead to doom in your family

blah blah blah join the list of self-proclaimed advisors whose opinions i flushed down the toilet.

biacan:
GOD abeg help this one before it's too late

The guy made sense and he said On principle, he will. He don't have to agree with him but its his brother.

Apina:

You are an embarrassment to say the least . So if your brother kills someone tomorrow, u will sing his praises because he's your brother? It's people like u who set their children up for life of waywardness and still go out to defend them with no remorse. You are really shameless and disgusting (spits)

you guys are misreading what he said or are being emotional. He said support, so if his brother kills a person, well he will bail him if need be, that doesn't mean he agrees with the brother. By default out of respect he has to take the brother's side.

ubunja:

Diva im with my brother in everything.if my brother strays then i support him with his new female.i go with my brother in every choice he makes, thats my duty.
the kids dont matter.my brother is all that matters.
if a woman feels disrespected by my brother then she must just divorce him.but she must not expect my sympathy coz that will divide me and my brother.and i will NEVER allow that.

you and that your stupid brother should please go to hell. As this woman is, you will be surprised she gets marriage proposal from someone who is single. Gerrarahere. Foolish you and your brother. Taaaa

ubunja:

Diva im with my brother in everything.if my brother strays then i support him with his new female.i go with my brother in every choice he makes, thats my duty.
the kids dont matter.my brother is all that matters.
if a woman feels disrespected by my brother then she must just divorce him.but she must not expect my sympathy coz that will divide me and my brother.and i will NEVER allow that.

So if you see your brother doing something wrong you won’t call him aside and advice him? You would support his wrong doing? If he kills his wife you will support abi? Interesting

Ubunja, tell your brother to take care of the kids even if he doesn't want to marry the lady any longer. You just can't say because he is locked up in a hotel in owerri then he should lock up his pocket to his family and neglect the kids because he has seen another woman again.
Over 90% of married men have side chicks but the main thing Is taking care of the home. Balance the equation. He needs to work harder and take care of all involved in his life.
We wish him well with the side chicken......
As for Jane, keep praying my dear. I have seen married men who have been tangled with side chicken and prayer has been able to destroy the union. Just be patient and up your game. No need to nag or harass him, draw him closer with love.

ubunja:

blah blah blah join the list of self-proclaimed advisors whose opinions i flushed down the toilet.

yeah yeah....the road to hell is paved with good intentions. your brother has sons, you cant disown them culturally because they are legitimate... show them no love now and they will forever be a torn in your family's flesh. everybody understands your beef with the wife... but if you extend it to your flesh and blood nephews, then you may just have to kill them of because they eill come for you in the future

ubunja:
on principle i will always support my brother over any one. even if he is wrong.thats what you do for family.i cant let a stranger that joined our family recently break up my older relationship with my brother.as a woman you can divorce my brother if you feel betrayed.but since i cant ever divorce my brother out of my life i choose him over you. nothing personal.its a blood thing. and blood is thicker than water.

just listen to yourself!support him when he's gone astray? You nd help.

Anyway,as for d lady's case,sorry ehn.I feel your pain.it Hurts knowing that your in-laws support hubby's sidechicks.I was a victim of that sometimes last 2yrs. buh my own na my Mother in-law,she supported the sidechick.it was hell! But it ended with praise afterall.I prayed&cried to God&he did it.Hubby came back begging &promising nt too go back to his sinful ways.hmmm,those sidechicks are real hell sent.

pweedieolamide:
just listen to yourself!support him when he's gone astray? You nd help.

Anyway,as for d lady's case,sorry ehn.I feel your pain.it Hurts knowing that your in-laws support hubby's sidechicks.I was a victim of that sometimes last 2yrs. buh my own na my Mother in-law,she supported the sidechick.it was hell! But it ended with praise afterall.I prayed&cried to God&he did it.Hubby came back begging &promising nt too go back to his sinful ways.hmmm,those sidechicks are real hell sent.

dumodust:

yeah yeah....the road to hell is paved with good intentions. your brother has sons, you cant disown them culturally because they are legitimate... show them no love now and they will forever be a torn in your family's flesh. everybody understands your beef with the wife... but if you extend it to your flesh and blood nephews, then you may just have to kill them of because they eill come for you in the future

amarige:
Ubunja, tell your brother to take care of the kids even if he doesn't want to marry the lady any longer. You just can't say because he is locked up in a hotel in owerri then he should lock up his pocket to his family and neglect the kids because he has seen another woman again.
Over 90% of married men have side chicks but the main thing Is taking care of the home. Balance the equation. He needs to work harder and take care of all involved in his life.
We wish him well with the side chicken......
As for Jane, keep praying my dear. I have seen married men who have been tangled with side chicken and prayer has been able to destroy the union. Just be patient and up your game. No need to nag or harass him, draw him closer with love.

mrssho:


So if you see your brother doing something wrong you won’t call him aside and advice him? You would support his wrong doing? If he kills his wife you will support abi? Interesting

Shally2:
you and that your stupid brother should please go to hell. As this woman is, you will be surprised she gets marriage proposal from someone who is single. Gerrarahere. Foolish you and your brother. Taaaa

consider all your opinions flushed down the public toilet.
get a life all of you

ubunja:




consider all your opinions flushed down the public toilet.
get a life all of you

no body gives a shit about your business and the self destruct mode you are on. i wonder why you even reply psychopath... please tell the moderators to shut this thread then... its your family's private wahala
just remember that who the gods want to destroy, they first make mad... you are definitely at that first stage

Divay22:
A fool won't wife a LovePeddler, but he'll mess up his family for one .

Having 4 beautiful kids, a lovely wife and i wonder what he's still looking for outside.... Just pray for her..may God fight for you.

how did he mess up his family. Shebi she wan marry from obodo oyinbo. Baby making machine tinz

dumodust:

no body gives a shit about your business and the self destruct mode you are on. i wonder why you even reply psychopath... please tell the moderators to shut this thread then... its your family's private wahala
just remember that who the gods want to destroy, they first make mad... you are definitely at that first stage

do you feel better now?? is your heart at rest??
good. now take a hike.

Mama triplets, you better go and look for a job and also look for necessary agencies to help your children get necessary school fees and feeding allowances from their father.
No side chick can make a decent man forget his children, but rather an irresponsible man.

erico2k2:

The guy made sense and he said On principle, he will. He don't have to agree with him but its his brother.

erico2k2:

you guys are misreading what he said or are being emotional. He said support, so if his brother kills a person, well he will bail him if need be, that doesn't mean he agrees with the brother. By default out of respect he has to take the brother's side.

erico allow them their online temper tantrums.
let them raise their BP and stress levels.they are sheep who just follow their emotions blindly.

any woman who tries to use children to blackmail and control us will hit a brick wall face first.
you gonna see stars.you will wish you never had those kids.coz we will ignore you and them like you are strangers.
zero fvcks given.

biacan:
GOD abeg help this one before it's too late

Amen

And someone will tell me Igbo's are the best husbands......keep deceiving yourselves

ubunja:

do you feel better now?? is your heart at rest??
good. now take a hike.

Attention seeker and brother famzer with no personal identity or esteem, i thought we were through... we can go on like this you know ... at least till your bro decides to free you from hunting my anus , which you gay ass masquerading as 'brotherly love' will certainly obey without question. Go self-service off some steam abeg... brother-phile

ubunja:
on principle i will always support my brother over any one. even if he is wrong.thats what you do for family.i cant let a stranger that joined our family recently break up my older relationship with my brother.as a woman you can divorce my brother if you feel betrayed.but since i cant ever divorce my brother out of my life i choose him over you. nothing personal.its a blood thing. and blood is thicker than water.

what about your his children

eliash:
what about your his children

im too lazy to answer.

See him running around the thread mouthing off like if he has a say and venting things that should be discussed in their umunna meeting. Dude ubunja or ogbo ncha ... stop looking for attention for your depraved mental issues. Leave us all alone abeg, we have had enough, do anything una want.., kukuma kill the woman and her kids self

dumodust:

Attention seeker and brother famzer with no personal identity or esteem, i thought we were through... we can go on like this you know ... at least till your bro decides to free you from hunting my anus , which you gay ass masquerading as 'brotherly love' will certainly obey without question. Go self-service off some steam abeg... brother-phile

lmfaoo Now its a gay thing. ha ha ha.
if im an attention seeker then you NL'ers definately poured your attention on me. my cup is overflowing.
and even you just contributed your attention.god bless.

dumodust:
See him running around the thread mouthing off like if he has a say and venting things that should be discussed in their umunna meeting. Dude ubunja or ogbo ncha ... stop looking for attention for your depraved mental issues. Leave us all alone abeg, we have had enough, do anything una want.., kukuma kill the woman and her kids self

welcome to the world of free speech. use it too. its recommended. you might actually enjoy it.
just see him write "leave us alone" when he is the one who tagged me first. its too funny.

We have to be very careful, we don't know the full story, therefore we should be careful with our comments. Don't come in the evening and comment on an issue that started in the morning.

ubunja:

lmfaoo Now its a gay thing. ha ha ha.
if im an attention seeker then you NL'ers definately poured your attention on me. my cup is overflowing.
and even you just contributed your attention.god bless.

Shebi you are calmer now and forming pacifist abi?
Yes... you are an attention seeker because you are not a party to the issue at hand... you are just a dude waiting for his 'general' bro to issue orders so I think you just swerve.., orders may change tomorrow you know ... old wife may have the dhick tomorrow and you may be back to slouching in the shadows you were released from

ubunja:

welcome to the world of free speech. use it too. its recommended. you might actually enjoy it.
just see him write "leave us alone" when he is the one who tagged me first. its too funny.

Yeah.., its a forum and free speech, but dont be prancing around the thread claiming you don't care but here you are replying comments for another man's marriage and diverting attention to your NARCISSISTIC self while you have no say because clearly you have declared that you are following orders and not using your own brain for issues.

ubunja:





erico allow them their online temper tantrums.
let them raise their BP and stress levels.they are sheep who just follow their emotions blindly.

yeah I think thats the way 4ward, I still dnt understand how people cant take a breather and think out of the box for once.

Oyindidi:
What a brother in-law!

My sister, God will restore peace in your home.
Ladies, know the family you want to enter before you say I do.

if you fuckup you expect your sister to back your husband

CaptainGOOD:


Omg how can a man with this beautiful family be so stupid?.

I guess the gal jazzed him.

you think beauty is all it takes

Divay22:

This is a wrong conception.
But it's your opinion, and me talking from now till the end of the world don't think will change that..

who are you to decide right and wrong what if the woman cheated and is abusive

ubunja:
on principle i will always support my brother over any one. even if he is wrong.thats what you do for family.i cant let a stranger that joined our family recently break up my older relationship with my brother.as a woman you can divorce my brother if you feel betrayed.but since i cant ever divorce my brother out of my life i choose him over you. nothing personal.its a blood thing. and blood is thicker than water.

That's not principle especially when you know he's wrong that's just you following because you don't have your own conviction. You are not required to even to be involved in such in that instance anyway. If something is wrong I can't support that person family or not. It's black and white for me.

pcguru1:

That's not principle especially when you know he's wrong that's just you following because you don't have your own conviction. You are not required to even to be involved in such in that instance anyway. If something is wrong I can't support that person family or not. It's black and white for me.

who said its about you