Picture a single, cash-strapped brother in your mind. He could be a full-time student living off of financial aid, a recent grad who is underemployed at a low paying gig, or a man who is simply between jobs and currently searching for work.

The man in your mind’s eye is very single, trying to get his life together, and like most single folks of any socioeconomic reality, he wants to have a romantic connection with another person. Yet, he’s constantly inundated with things like this:

IF YOUR BROKE ASS AINT GOT A JOB, WHAT BUSINESS DO YOU HAVE SWEATING ON TOP OF SOMEBODY’S DAUGHTER?!
— RIP baba. (@y3miii_) October 5, 2016

Men literally have one job. Don’t be broke. They don’t get pregnant. They don’t have kids. They’re bigger and stronger on average. — Lilith (@Liberienne) December 6, 2016

Men with no money shouldn’t be in a relationship, yes https:///cwB8cIkIeT — Yam Yam (@Intemnandi) November 28, 2016

Because this brother is constantly hearing that he needs to be successful—a truly subjective concept—in order to bring value into a woman’s life, he continues his grind with a more singular focus, realizing that building with a woman is effectively off the table, because his intrinsic worth must be actualized through establishing himself as a success. So he detaches himself from the prior goal of finding a compatible partner, to simply entertaining casual encounters until he’s “where he wants to be.”

Read More: https://bah.com.ng/2018/01/13/reason-broke-men-hold-no-value-relationships/

It tickles me always when I read from the "broke guys deserve no relationship" campaign. They just do not know what they are doing. Women will never set themselves up more than they have done with this campaign. They kind of men this campaign will breed will be damaged and women will be worse off for it (if they still want heterosexual relationships, that is).

Even poor men deserve romance, at least biologically, they do. It is all about knowing and getting one's place in the grand scheme of things. The effects of poor men having romantic relationships with women socially are really complex and largely it prevents social unrest and is advantageous to our collective well-being as it keeps a part of our community happy but that is not the point today.

If more women are to lean towards "I must not date a broke guy", more men too will get the mentality that women are selfish and only sell their affections for money. In essence, men will detest women, see them as a necessary evil and will believe the parts of a woman surrounding her vagina are useless to him.

Even if a lady were rich and she meets a guy this stupid campaign has helped breed, she will still be in a damaging relationship. Everybody loses.

Know your place in the world, have romance for the sake of it, help poor people too and stop commodifying love. Experience has taught me that money is not important to find a romantic relationship with anybody.

A broke guy in my own opinion should take a break from a relationship issue and focus on coming out of brokenness in order to avoid frustration.
In Africa, women are indoctrinated that only the man should be doing the spending, thanks to feminism that freed some of us from that mentality.
So if a broke guy with little amount of money in his pocket go after love, he may end up with a girl that is a financial liability,
So frustration will step in because he will be struggling to maintain the relationship in financial aspect.
Being broke is temporarily,
Fix urself as a man, don't worry, Love is always available.
That is why feminism is trying to free some ladies and open their eyes that a woman should be financially stable and not rely on a man.
Feminists make the best lovers.
Quote me anywhere

Amarabae:
A broke guy in my own opinion should take a break from a relationship issue and focus on coming out of brokenness in order to avoid frustration.
In Africa, women are indoctrinated that only the man should be doing the spending, thanks to feminism that freed some of us from that mentality.
So if a broke guy with little amount of money in his pocket go after love, he may end up with a girl that is a financial liability,
So frustration will step in because he will be struggling to maintain the relationship in financial aspect.
Being broke is temporarily,
Fix urself as a man, don't worry, Love is always available.
That is why feminism is trying to free some ladies and open their eyes that a woman should be financially stable and not rely on a man.
Feminists make the best lovers.
Quote me anywhere

Feminist!!!Hmmmmm..Are u one

if women dont want me when im broke i wont want them when my money is right.
if you didnt want me at my worst you wont have me at my best. forget it.
many guys who make the big time go back and find that one gal who used to hang out with him when he was broke drinking tap water.some guys are loyal like that.

if a woman leaves u bc u ar broke, free her,go make d money, even if na small change,com bak and form rich,pick her up again and don't just break her heart, pieces it. Everybody deserves to b loved wt or wtout money, most women search for Greener pastures in a man's bank account,if she cant suffer wt u,she needs to b trashed