Many people who cheat are not willing to assess the risks of their choices, just want to seize the moment. But the fact is that the consequences come and they will only realize the seriousness of their error when things start to happen:

1. Contract an STD
A person who fell in love out of marriage can hardly reason right. And among so many mistakes he makes, is not to protect himself. Unprotected sex can, among other things, bring a “beautiful” STD (sexually transmitted disease). And worst of all, you can pass this disease on to your spouse.

2. An unwanted child
In addition to STD, another risk is having an unscheduled child. When a person has a child with someone other than their spouse, their world falls. Your spouse is disgusted, including your children and your parents.

And this poor baby comes into the world in the worst possible circumstances. Every child deserves to be born in a well-structured home, of parents who love each other, not as the result of an irresponsible act, in which many have been wounded.



3. Disrespect, especially for oneself
The person who betrays their spouse ends up losing respect for the people she loves and admires most, especially her children. And possibly you will lose the respect for yourself. But sincere repentance brings back self-love and the desire to start over and never give in to this kind of temptation again.

4. A life outside the axes
Cause the end of a marriage due to a betrayal, or recidivism, leads the individual to a life outside the axes, to the loss of peace. He feels lost, no longer has a life as productive as before, in various areas of life.

Possibly, only when he puts his life in order, making a complete cessation of betrayals, and trying to restore – as far as possible – all the evil he has done; Only then will you be able to meet again.

5. Feeling guilty
Unless it is a disorder (such as psychopathy), it is very rare to find a person who has betrayed his spouse, and consequently deeply wounded the feelings of his children, does not feel bad, ashamed for what did.

It’s a burden she’s going to have to live with, except that she tries to redeem herself for what she’s done. Again, repentance is the way out.

6. A Rematch of Life
A betrayal can be forgiven, and marriage can go back to the way it was before, if both are in agreement and each fulfills its part. But to continue in this life of betrayal can bring very sad consequences. The famous “law of the harvest” hardly ever fails. If we want to be rewarded for something good, we need to plant good things. The reverse is as much as true.

Most of these things, which come as a result of betrayal, produce much suffering, especially in the long run. Is it really worth paying such a high price for moments of pleasure? Is it worth throwing it all away for a failure-bound relationship? I am sure not!

The good news is that it is possible to give up this life and sincerely seek repentance. As far as possible, correct the mistakes made and commit to never betraying again. In fact, a change of heart will be required – a complete aversion to this error, adultery.

This will enable the person to re-prove true happiness (after all, “iniquity has never been happiness”) and will spare you many misfortunes in this life. You can not miss a chance like that!
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