technicallyrich:
Almost all the married women in my hood,usually get fat after giving birth, even the ones that I knew were very slim.
Anyway fat, is a turn off for me,and I will like to know if you can predict.
In summary, are there pointers to know if a woman will later get fat.
Sorry for the typological error.

My wife was slim and tall, just how i liked it. She is not who she is now. She added almost half of her previous weight.

I was equally a very slim and tall guy just after secondary school when we started dating. Soon after that, i became a fat guy. She never stopped loving me anyways till i married her. Who am i to complain now?

My wife's sister was slimmer that i was worried how she was going to give birth. She married a guy even fatter than i am, their wedding caused a lot of tongue wagging but she is the right size now and had twins.

I want to suggest if you are scared of fat women, dont get married at all. It will not be good for her self esteem when you start trolling her.

Those who keep their weight in check, fight hard for it, it takes determination and will. Not everyone has that. Its either you find that person or leave it.

When you are really matured enough to settle down... This would be the least of your problems.... There is more to life and marriage than outward apearances.
You should be more concerned about the character of the lady you want to settle down with.... Rather than if she would get fat after giving birth.... And even if she does... It's not like there aren't ways to shed the weight.
Get your priorities straight.

You will know by the sound they make in zi oza room when you are doing it.

If she moans "muuuu...muuuu," then, she will be fat afterwards...

If she moans, "pobebe...pobebe!" then, she will remain slim forever.

Mtcheeew!

tyup:


you will know thr the hips

anyway condolences to your slim gf or fiancee

Are you 12 year old?

lifestyle1:
If she get stretch mark, the possibility of her been fat is high.....

hey!! am in trouble

It doesnt matter if she gains weight, cause it seems inevitable for most women after giving birth..but..as long as the derriere is also gaining weight..I am good to go!

BlackDBagba:
Check her mum out

Talking from experience, it not always the case. My wife was extremely slim with fat laps b4 marriage. I presumed she will be fat since her mum is fat, but to my disappoitment she only gains a little weight during pregnancy and becomes even slimmer after child birth, especially while breastfeeding. Although her dad is very very slim. One man's food is another man's poison indeed: i like my wife to gain weight and becomes more fleshy and succulent but i guess thats ur dislike. Infact, i have been researching on what she can take to get fat, because nor matter the quality and quantity of food she takes, she remains the same. I buy cartons of milk, crates of eggs and alot of meats of diff form but to no avail. God help me

snowblaq:
When you are really matured enough to settle down... This would be the least of your problems.... There is more to life and marriage than outward apearances.
You should be more concerned about the character of the lady you want to settle down with.... Rather than if she would get fat after giving birth.... And even if she does... It's not like there aren't ways to shed the weight.
Get your priorities straight.

Lol. Obviously you are not married. Physical attraction is just as important as the character of your spouse. As a man, i have/had no desire to go home everyday and be met by a tub of lard so i made sure my wife understood what my expectations were way before we got married. Good thing i hitched someone who's desire for physical fitness matched mine. Fast forward 20 years and my wife will shame any 20 and 30 something year old in Nigeria today. Fact.

Bollinger:


Lol. Obviously you are not married. Physical attraction is just as important as the character of your spouse. As a man, i have/had no desire to go home everyday and be met by a tub of lard so i made sure my wife understood what my expectations were way before we were married. Good thing i hitched someone who's desire for physical fitness matched mine. My wife will shame any 20 and 30 something year old in Nigeria. Fact.

Yh.. But he made no mention of any other attributes he looks forward to having in a wife other than "will my gf get fat after giving birth"....that makes him sound like a teenager. There is more to life than physical appearance.
And unlike you think... I'm actually married Mr Man.

technicallyrich:
Almost all the married women in my hood,usually get fat after giving birth, even the ones that I knew were very slim.
Anyway fat, is a turn off for me,and I will like to know if you can predict.
In summary, are there pointers to know if a woman will later get fat.
Sorry for the typological error.

Haaa! If your GF or WIFE got fat or fated after you married her or after gaving birth... That one be se your money they show for her body now! Don't worry your self mouch on that jare. Na your money they talk!

BlackDBagba:
Check her mum out

1 crate of coke 4u..

Consult Mr Oracle

technicallyrich:
Almost all the married women in my hood,usually get fat after giving birth, even the ones that I knew were very slim.
Anyway fat, is a turn off for me,and I will like to know if you can predict.
In summary, are there pointers to know if a woman will later get fat.
Sorry for the typological error.

look at her mom
or the shoulders
wide shoulders means they would surely add a little

If she's the kind that loves eating chocolate, loves and the type that dreams of a man that will take her always to tasty fried chicken, engage in calories and prefers to be the settled woman that will not make sacrifices but leave everything to the man after marriage and doesn't want to engage in too much wahala.

Chances are if you marry her she will lazy around and will be named big mama dis and dat by the time she enter her 2nd year of marriage

Look at her mother
















Then Thank me later

Get a sex doll bro

Every woman have the tendency to increase in size, all she need to do is exercise more and make sure she doesn't grow fat around the belly... it will always make them more beautiful especially the slim girls before marriage

Through cowgirl

Smh.. Who are you to look for perfection when you look like the air from your wide nostril could power a windmill...

I thought I was going to see the like of boris kodjoe or randy orton.

Rubbish post..

You cannot know as it depends on the gene of the lady and her lifestyle, but if you truly love her you won't mind the weight, or better still you can get a lepa sex doll as back up.

technicallyrich:
Almost all the married women in my hood,usually get fat after giving birth, even the ones that I knew were very slim.
Anyway fat, is a turn off for me,and I will like to know if you can predict.
In summary, are there pointers to know if a woman will later get fat.
Sorry for the typological error.

Just marry a slim girl like agbani darego.

They still remain in shape after child birth.

They can never get fat, a truly slim girl, another example like Genevive nnaji

MIKOLOWISKA:
but she skinny like toothpick
Very long
And I've seen like her that is highly endowed within 2 years in school not even marriage

She was young den Na.... When a girl in her 20s is getting fat laps big hips stretch marks u should no dere is tendency she will get fat later.

technicallyrich:
Almost all the married women in my hood,usually get fat after giving birth, even the ones that I knew were very slim.
Anyway fat, is a turn off for me,and I will like to know if you can predict.
In summary, are there pointers to know if a woman will later get fat.
Sorry for the typological error.

Look into her family and check out her Mother and married Sisters

PierreDeFermath:
is it that they(blacks especially) willingly want to get fat after dropping baby?

No oo... It's not that they wanted to get fat o its just dat most women don't care about there shape again,most of us will say"ta Ni on Wo mi"?(who dey look me). Na u as d husband go dey tell am say"mama if u fat lik dis second wife is coming niyen" (jezz joking o).... But as d husband u suppose dey ginger ur wife,take her to d gym centre n give her food(not fatty o) ull love her shape again. Its not lik d whites don't get fat too Na Dem sabi maintain dere body Ni.

Go and look at her mother. Then if you are okay with her body framework at the moment, that's how most likely your wife will turn out to be.

desreek9:
Op you just want advice since you said fat is a turn-off for you so where it is;

Go for a lady that looks like broomstick so that after wedding or childbirth you wont notice she added weight



#fact

U R FAT ARENT U

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Malonie242:
She will most likely get fat.
If your gf is a foodie, prepare for it, she will most likely be fat.
If she's lazy, she'll be fat
(I'm not being tribalistic o ehenn) but if she's Yoruba, prepare for it, she will most likely be fat. Igbo ladies as far as I know always have good bodies even after so many children.
Then of course it depends on how well you support her to shed the fat after birth. If you stress her too much, she will be depressed and sad and will add weight in most cases..
This is my #2cents.
My bf knows I will be fat, it's not a question. He has come to terms with it, the only solution is to work out a plan to shed it.

Not a tribalist here tho... but most Igbo women after the age of 40-50 years get fat easily. So is the other tribes; even hausa and yoruba self.
However, work out will do a lot.

it's show you are not mature for marriage yet, love is more than height, statue, and sized. how would you feel if your girl friend is asking the same question whether you will get pot belly after marriage. for example am a very slim guy before marriage, but now my wife do make jest of my Tommy fat. bros

grow up.

technicallyrich:
Almost all the married women in my hood,usually get fat after giving birth, even the ones that I knew were very slim.
Anyway fat, is a turn off for me,and I will like to know if you can predict.
In summary, are there pointers to know if a woman will later get fat.
Sorry for the typological error.

Ask for their family pix, 4 generations before.

not only the mum in all cases but her father also or the grannies na regular sex and free food they cause am in most cases. LOL

BlackDBagba:
Check her mum out