OceanmorganTrix:
A

pocohantas:
Yea, some may find it harder accepting this reality.
Y'know, some ladies have this misconception about guys.
They think you guys would accept every stray chick, for the love or for the pussy. You guys are nice like that, you'll always have a need for the chick, now or in future.

So, when they see the one that is firm on his stand.
They ain't used to it, makes it more difficult to accept.

Have I been friendzoned? I wouldn't know, maybe because I have a way of friend-zoning myself.

I love that zone, that's where you get the best from guys...

kennygee:
Yes I have. By only one guy.

ubunja:
women dont get friiendzoned.they get Fvckzoned.
always understand the romantic exchange: men control commitment,women control sex.a friendzone happens when a man offers his commitment (that comes with his time and money) and the woman accepts BUT withholds her part of the deal-sex.so it becomes a one way street.
a fvckzone happens when a gal offers sex BUT the guys refuses with his commitment.and it becomes a one way street.
placing someone in the Zone is about using what that person's gender normally brings into a relationship but then being stingy with what your gender usually offers back.players fvckzone women all the time..

pocohantas:
Yea, some may find it harder accepting this reality.
Y'know, some ladies have this misconception about guys.
They think you guys would accept every stray chick, for the love or for the pussy. You guys are nice like that, you'll always have a need for the chick, now or in future.

So, when they see the one that is firm on his stand.
They ain't used to it, makes it more difficult to accept.

Have I been friendzoned? I wouldn't know, maybe because I have a way of friend-zoning myself.

I love that zone, that's where you get the best from guys...

kennygee:


Your explanation holds no water if the two pple have an understanding of staying off premarital sex.

Sex must not be involved.

Rayhandrinni:
haha

Any plans to propose to him this year?

If he says no...I'll say yes

Axelrod:


That's my point. Some ladies do not want to accept the fact that guys have the right to turn down advances.

ubunja:

then thats a normal friendship.no need to label it a "Friendzone".

kennygee:
Yes I have. By only one guy.

We actually tried being in a relationship, it did work so I took a long term vacation to the friend zone and it's not bad.

I treasure the friendship more than a relationship that would have failed.

ubunja:
women dont get friiendzoned.they get Fvckzoned.
always understand the romantic exchange: men control commitment,women control sex.a friendzone happens when a man offers his commitment (that comes with his time and money) and the woman accepts BUT withholds her part of the deal-sex.so it becomes a one way street.
a fvckzone happens when a gal offers sex BUT the guys refuses with his commitment.and it becomes a one way street.
placing someone in the Zone is about using what that person's gender normally brings into a relationship but then being stingy with what your gender usually offers back.players fvckzone women all the time..

Tallesty1:
I can relate to this, we were friends then became lovers but the relationship was horrible so we reversed to being friends.

kennygee:


So a relationship devoid of sex is a "friendship"?

Is that what you're saying?

ubunja:

isnt that what frienship is honestly?
if sex becomes involved then it becomes "friends with benefits".
but it seems most here dont quite get the concept of "Zoning". no wonder so many guys are friendzoned.

Why are you trying to explain to that one? The way Nigerian ladies think is offside.

LesbianBoy:
I have friend zoned many nairaland girls. It's nothing

tosyne2much:
And you think any lady will be honest enough to tell you how she handles being rejected by that handsome guy?

Well, I think ladies generally don't have the emotional capacity to handle rejection unlike guys. They feel their self esteem has been bruised making them look worthless and that's why they behave naughty when you no look their face

ubunja:

isnt that what frienship is honestly?
if sex becomes involved then it becomes "friends with benefits".
but it seems most here dont quite get the concept of "Zoning". no wonder so many guys are friendzoned.