donstan18:


Rule of which thumb ma'am, how do you mean?

-You can be intelligent but dates someone who isn't.
-You can be rich but dates a poor person.
-You can be Godly but dates someone who isn't.
-You can be neat but dates someone who isn't .
-You can be ugly but dates a handsome/beautiful fellow.

Are the above listed instances not unlikely attraction?

If "Like" attracts “Like", why then do men marry women instead of their fellow gender?

To the OP, build your woman into whatever you wishes her to be, so long as you love and cherish her.

The most important thing is that she has manners, it's very necessary in a woman and important to any man.

kimbraa:
The instances you just gave are still their likes. They don't have to necessarily be from the same social strata, same religious group, same academic level, same gender and what-not. A rich man picking a poor lady for marriage simply means the lady is his like...There's something about her that picked his interest that's beyond her social strata.

Your analysis makes me laugh.

donstan18:


Then, what kind of "likes" were you scribbling about?

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

kimbraa:
Exactly what I described now but you don't grasp 'cause you focused on the superficial. The things you could see.

Naturally, do you think that someone who exudes intelligence will be attracted to someone whose IQ is below average? That's a dumb person?. They unconsciously don't.

By laws of nature, they're meant to repel.

kimbraa:
Exactly what I described now but you don't grasp 'cause you focused on the superficial. The things you could see.

Naturally, do you think that someone who exudes intelligence will be attracted to someone whose IQ is below average? That's a dumb person?. They unconsciously don't.

By laws of nature, they're meant to repel.

donstan18:


You haven't clarified me on the kind of "Likes" you meant, I need instances on the likes you were noting about.

Or should I believe your opinion as per nature shii without proves and backup?

KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

kimbraa:
I've tried the little I know but you don't grasp. Google about people attracting their likes and you'll read more elaborate results.

ubunja:
give her to me. thats how i love them...hot and dumb.
i love a gal who doesnt even know what an enzyme is.she is the one i can enjoy.im smart so i dont look for smartness.i look for a pretty face.no matter how dumb a gal is she is my type.

Chikita66:
Intelligence is one thing that attracts me to a person not cuteness, well I don't know about you.

olamide452:

Seconded

donstan18:


Then, what kind of "likes" were you scribbling about?

clitlicker:
she has manners.

Ilekokonit:


That's all a man needs in a wife.

AntiNormal:



How did she become your girlfriend without you noticing her subpar reasoning?
Did you not see the signs before you asked her out and whatnot, or did you not just care?

Ilekokonit:


That's all a man needs in a wife.

kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.

kimbraa:
I'm not here to type too much grammar just to drive home a baseless point. What do you mean by "I'll be smart for the both of us?" isn't your spouse given a brain by nature to function with?. That I said "Likes attract" doesn't necessarily mean a guy will have to be attracted to another dude simply because they've got same body features. When it comes to relationships, we tend to get attracted to those with whom we share some common interest. Something about t person spark your interest. It may not be pronounced but that's exactly what makes one pick interest in the other. Op may think he's intellectually sound but going by that law; he must have had a few conversation with her in their wooing stage to tell her IQ level but that he was ok with what her brain could produce simply means he isn't far off her IQ level.

Dhotseal:
Bros, please think of the future of your future kids..lol
Nigeria already has a good number of dimwits and morons, so pls don't add to the number by marring a lady who has some 'cerebral deficiencies'

ubunja:

if Like must date Like then you should be a lesbian and pair pvssy with pvssy.
relationships are about complimenting each other NOT duplicating whats already there.whats the point of two intelligent people dating? to discuss photosynthesis?
i'll be smart enough for the both of us and bae will be sexy enough for the both of us.

clitlicker:


na pretty face i see o. now the flaws are dawning on me.

Next2Bezee:


With that mediocre level of reasoning, you can't possibly possess any sort of intellect as well.

hibeekay007:
The fact that you would call a particular course useless is enough for me to know your level of reasoning nd intelligence is depths below that of your girlfriend's

Nasarawaboy:

Op, as the person above me stated, get her books to read, it could work you know! As for me ooo, I can't and will never marry an ugly girl simply because she's intelligent. A dull pretty lady can be worked upon, but an ugly intelligent lady? Well..... Take her to heaven and bring her back, if she ain't pretty she ain't pretty. I just hate ugly girls. Op pity your children, give them a pretty mum they can be able to flaunt. Am not saying she should be miss Nigeria, am saying let her be presentable, let her be someone you can confidently introduce to someone.
But wetin I sabi sef