Ever fallen for a lady who says she loves you but deep down you feel she doesn’t? It really does happen; you can be in a relationship with a woman who claims to love you but deep down your gut instincts tell you that she doesn’t.
Forget what she says and watch what she does. These are some signs she doesn’t love you even when she says she does.

1. THERE IS NOTHING EXTRA

Love isn’t an ordinary emotion; it always creates something extra. But a woman who pretends to love you wouldn’t bring anything extra; she’s only about talks but brings nothing as regards action.

2. SHE LEAVES EVERYTHING FOR YOU

When in a relationship with a woman who says she loves you but acts otherwise, you would notice that you do everything; from communication, to love and affection, to care, to being supportive — it’s all on you, and what do you get in return?

3. SHE’S EMOTIONALLY DISCONNECTED

With love comes an emotional connection between two hearts; it can’t be faked, it’s either there or it isn’t. A woman who’s emotionally disconnected from you but claims to love you is only living a life of pretence.

4. SHE’S HERE AND THERE

Love is constant; it comes to fore every day. But a woman whose love isn’t genuine would claim to love you today but won’t show anything tomorrow. Her feelings for you are inconsistent.

5. SHE ALWAYS HAS AN EXCUSE

With such a woman, there’s usually an excuse for everything. She gives an excuse for why she wasn’t there for you, an excuse for why things aren’t working, and an excuse for why she isn’t all that loving. There is just an excuse for everything.

6. SHE WANTS SO MUCH FROM YOU AND OFFERS LITTLE IN RETURN

A woman like this would ask for so much from you but offer very little in return. She would want your world but won’t give hers; she would want you to be there for her always but won’t be there for you. The work and commitment of the relationship would heavily lie on your shoulders.

7. THE RELATIONSHIP ISN’T A PRIORITY TO HER

When you value something, it becomes a priority to you; whether it’s a material thing or immaterial, it would become a priority to you. A woman who doesn’t really love you wouldn’t make the relationship a priority to her, and don’t be surprised when irrelevant things win her heart over the relationship.

8. SHE’S TOO SELFISH

A woman who doesn’t really love you would be selfish towards you and the relationship. She would want the relationship to be about her, always. She would be self-centred and try to make the relationship revolve around her.

9. SHE FLIRTS WITH OTHER MEN

A woman who doesn’t really love you would flirt with other men and give you silly reasons why you shouldn’t be offended. She just doesn’t take the relationship serious, or your feelings and emotions.
If says she loves you and put up these acts, you really need to be careful — she just might not love you.
guys you can add yours to it...

Yet, there are guys who would see all these and still stay. They make it easy for girls to toy with their feelings When eventually the relationship ends, they start crying foul. Yes, it's foul, but you just don't entrust your happiness in another person's hands.

When a girl says no...Or you for any reason feel like her affections aren't real/deep, then save yourself the heartache and just go. Don't lurk around...Don't wait expecting her to come around and begin to love you. If it would happen, it would happen naturally, without anyone forcing it, without doubts.

What about the men?

Adaomalight:
What about the men?

well you can write yours about men...

PrimadonnaO:
Yet, there are guys who would see all these and still stay. They make it easy for girls to toy with their feelings When eventually the relationship ends, they start crying foul. Yes, it's foul, but you just don't entrust your happiness in another person's hands.

When a girl says no...Or you for any reason feel like her affections aren't real/deep, then save yourself the heartache and just go. Don't lurk around...Don't wait expecting her to come around and begin to love you. If it would happen, it would happen naturally, without anyone forcing it, without doubts.

guys that would see that the girl doesn't love them and stay?

Even after giving them these signs some guys just won't get the memo.