By Ayoola Adetayo.
Of course men want to have sex. But sex isn't ever enough.

Let no one make any mistake about it - sex is one of the littest part of relationships.

Some guys would even argue that it is indeed the littest

So it is perfectly OK, ladies, even highly advisable to actively seek to be better at sex, to learn tricks and deftness of touch and other things that will always make your man turn to jelly every time your hand - or any other part - meets his body.

As ideal as that is, though, it would be unwise to think that that is all you need to focus on in a relationship.

One would expect that this is pretty much obvious but then, a number of women genuinely think in their heart of hearts, that owning a vagina and knowing how to really work it is all that’s needed to maintain a healthy relationship and to keep a man happy and permanently interested in being with them.

At the time of writing this article, there’s a trending clip trimmed off BKChat NYC’s Youtube channel, where one of the ladies on the show says with a straight face and what looked like serious conviction that;

“I don’t do sh*t for my Nigga… I got p****.

"I don’t do anything for my boyfriend, he [does] everything for me

"If [your vagina] is this magical, you don’t have to do nothing else.”

Let’s not even dwell on the blatant ridiculousness of such thought and the apparent ignorance of the mind from whence it came.

Here’s the thing ladies, being in a relationship, or intending to go into one with this idea simply shows that all you've got to give, or the only thing men get for being in a relationship with you is sexual gratification.

And more worryingly, it also limits you to just an ever-available piece of flesh, a [pretty-faced] pleasuring machine and nothing but a safe-keep for your boyfriend/husband’s orgasms.

And that's even if your thing is actually magical

Of course, as earlier said, every man loves to have a woman who blows his mind in the sheets, but I don’t know if you’ve noticed too, everything in relationships/marriages don’t happen with partners' arms and legs always tangled in bed.

There are many other parts of relationships you need to function in, and men need you to be amazing at these other things, just as you are at ‘throwing that ass back.’

Your partner wants to have a real partner in you, he wants your loyalty and commitment.

He wants to share his experiences and have intellectual conversations with you.

Be the woman that challenges him to do great stuff and inspire him to be the best.

He also wants a woman that gives him a reason to wake up and smile every day, and you can’t achieve all of this with your vagina alone.

Moreover, there’s hardly a woman alive who doesn’t want a man to be there for her, to buy her the best gifts and do all other affectionate things that romantic dreams are made of.

Ladies, it’ll be inconsiderate and self-serving [at least] to want all this and more but to have nothing else to offer than your vajayjay.

As earlier said, men appreciate bomb head, good sex and all that sexy good stuff, but as you learn to throw it back and work that D, please learn about other things that actually make relationships and marriages work, too.

Your vagina, no matter how magical, isn't and never will be enough.

SOURCE: PULSE NG.

FvckShiT:

-Fůck that OP ! Půssy is meant to be fùcked

Always try to read before u comment.
The OP writings makes a lot of sense.

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Females who rely on pussy to feed are nothing better than those who stay on the road and stretch their arms to feed.

HeyCorleone:
Females who rely on pussy to feed are nothing better than those who stay on the road and stretch their arms to feed.

Yeah!!! This is another factor the OP was trying to raise.

Certainly, the V is not enough. Just perhaps, the magical rod is?

Splinz:
Certainly, the V is not enough. Just perhaps, the magical rod is?

Well, we are entitled to our opinions. But I don't think the Magical Rod is enough either.

How many times have we heard this

Safiaa:
How many times have we heard this

How about you quietly leave the thread so that those who haven't HEARD it will read?

Tallesty1:
How about you quietly leave the thread so that those who haven't HEARD it will read?

Umm no. Why did you quote me again?

Daniel2289:

Well, we are entitled to our opinions. But I don't think the Magical Rod is enough either.

Good thought.

It is on this note that I don't argue for/against this kind of topic, seeing that at the other side of the prism lies the same problem.

Safiaa:
Umm no. Why did you quote me again?

To inform you that a beautiful ear is the one who learns something after listening to an advice not one who hears words of wisdom every time but will not pick anything from it.

Tallesty1:
To inform you that a beautiful ear is the one who learns something after listening to an advice not one who hears words of wisdom every time but will not pick anything from it.

ok

Splinz:


Good thought.

It is on this note that I don' t argue for/against this kind of topic, seeing that at the other side of the prism, lies the same problem.

Noted

ok