donstan18:



And he couldn't explain or back up his claims

lol...lazy man, look for who to spoon-feed him.

100% undiluted truth

gabinogem:
lol...lazy man, look for who to spoon-feed him.

Lol,

He' calling me "Lazy man" because I exposed his asslicking strategy

You said the society made women commodity, prove it, young man and he's changing topic.

Itiboribo

ubunja:

you forget most guys are in Friendzones.
you think it is out of the goodness of his heart that man takes care of a woman all her life as his wife?

I don't agree with the most sha..guys I know are getting more sex outside marriage than when married

My own take is, ladies get busy with your lives and keep one eye open at the same time, your own man will find you and do the needful;marry you at the right time.

donstan18:

Lol,

He' calling me "Lazy man" because I exposed his asslicking strategy

You said the society made women commodity, prove it, young man and he's changing topic.

Itiboribo

Lol...I knew the lazy troll wants to be mischievous... Try harder. Yeye dey smell

babyfaceafrica:
I don't agree with the most sha..guys I know are getting more sex outside marriage than when married

its simple mathematics...
how can more guys be gettting sex when more and more guys are gettting addicted to porn and masturbation??
how can more guys be getting sex when sex dolls are trending??
that shows there is a huge percentage of men that are secretly living without sex.thats why even with all the porn addiction and sex dolls noone still feels any effects of millions of lost dicks that are not in the game.

gabinogem:
Lol...I knew the lazy troll wants to be mischievous... Try harder. Yeye dey smell

Ok Forget the troll we won't change topic

Now tell, what culture tradition and constitution made women commodities to men?

tell me, don't change topic

donstan18:


Ok Forget the troll we won't change topic

Now tell, what culture tradition and constitution made women commodities to men?

tell me, don't change topic

lol... OK go & read up Section 14(3) of the 1999 constitution & section 182 of the penal code...then come back here to tell me what you understood by it.

gabinogem:
lol... OK go & read up Section 14(3) of the 1999 constitution & section 182 of the penal code...then come back here to tell me what you understood by it.

Lol,

Help a brother, i'm not good in deciphering and comprehending direct constitutions , that's why I'm pleading for you to help me with your ideas

No fall my hands

donstan18:


Lol,

Help a brother, i'm not good in deciphering and comprehending direct constitutions , that's why I'm pleading for you to help me with your ideas

No fall my hands

... This is the perfect way to respond to a great troll...na ur take home assignment be that.

gabinogem:
... This is the perfect way to respond to a great troll...na ur take home assignment be that.

Did you say perfect way? , c'omon brO, that was only a perfect way to dodge shot

I ask again, MR

Which tradition, culture and constitution made women commodities to men? , for you to say that, it supposedly mean you have an idea, but dodging my question on clarification now shows that you commented that just for likes and comment sake stop running around, sir teach me what you know

People de watch use ooo node fall ur hands

cashcity:
When most men have so many future aspirations and dreams to achieve b4 settling down, their opposite counterpart have none except marriage.
I dated a lady of over 28yrs few years ago and it was understandable when she constantly pressurising me for marriage and we peacefully ended the relationship amicably due to the fact that I have things that I need to put in place b4 that.

Now I decided to go for a much younger lady of 22yrs who is still in school and who I MUST marry in two years time when I felt that I will be due for married cos I'm not getting any younger too .
The problem is that the pressure this my little girl is putting me now is even hotter than that of my older ex girlfriend. She compared herself with her classmate of 20yrs who just got married last december and constantly reminds me that it must happen btw us dis year. Infact there is no day we don end our watsap chats with "WHEN ARE YOU COMING TO TAKE THE LIST FROM MY PARENTS".
I quickly remembered when I was a teenager and the childish relationships I had then was all about marriage marriage marriage at the side of the small girls I dated. Talks of marriage was always there even when we were sure It can't happen.

I keep wondering if ladies dnt think about working for a while after graduation to help their parents on her own without men or assist in establishing their younger ones or even furthering their education b4 answering Mrs.
They all quickly want to dump responsibilities of both her and her family for the man and probably ran away from mandatory job hunt and other stress because of the fact that MAN must be responsible for the welfare of his wife and children.

Does that means all their future plan boils down to marriage as their highest achievement ?.
When you remove marriage I dnt think most ladies have other things they live for...

some guys are. just confused beings. yesterday, they said women should marry early, any lady up to 30 is evening news paper, today, she should work and make achievements. when will d girl graduate? do job hunting? get established or settled b4 age 30 in dis economy. I pity any girl who take things on nl serious

gloria34:
some guys are. just confused beings. yesterday, they said women should marry early, any lady up to 30 is evening news paper, today, she should work and make achievements. when will d girl graduate? do job hunting? get established or settled b4 age 30 in dis economy. I pity any girl who take things on nl serious

Lol,

Oya, which one do you prefer?

Today or yesterday's own

donstan18:


Lol,

Oya, which one do you prefer?

Today or yesterday's own

I am a girl who works 4 my cash. if a guy thinks an older woman is evening news paper, that guy is trash. I can't associate myself with such

gloria34:
I am a girl who works 4 my cash. if a guy thinks an older woman is evening news paper, that guy is trash. I can't associate myself with such

Nne, which one is evening newspaper

donstan18:


Nne, which one is evening newspaper

that was d exact words used yesterday. Dont tell me u 4got

gloria34:
that was d exact words used yesterday. Dont tell me u 4got

Never said I did, I just need a more interpretation of the slang?

Any idea

Don't say "No"

donstan18:

Never said I did, I just need a more interpretation of the slang?

Any idea

Don't say "No"

any girl above 30 is old And d guy marrying her is granting her a favour

gloria34:
any girl above 30 is old And d guy marrying her is granting her a favour

I blame Nigerian ladies for this

pocohantas:
Nothing pleases you lots. The ones that have plans different from marriage, you call them feminist. You threaten them with menopause and loneliness in their old age. You don't allow them breathe in peace. You put it to them they can never be fulfilled without marriage.

A thread was created on how marrying women over 30 is akin to buying evening newspapers. 17pages of you guys reminding and bullying these women to go get married before 25.

How many of you took a minute to encourage same women to improve on themselves and not see marriage as the ultimate goal[on that thread]? The few women that raised these points were silenced and reminded of menopause.

Barely 48hours and here is another complaining all they want is marriage. Why won't they want marriage?
Why won't they keep dumping you lots for older suitors?
It's a vicious cycle. Get used to it.

That said,
Dearest Nigerian men,what do you want from your women?

Would you die if you live and let them live?

We (men and women) are not homogeneous. There are those who think like OP and there are those who think a woman's crown is marriage. People comment more on the post that aligns with their mentality.

pocohantas:
Nothing pleases you lots. The ones that have plans different from marriage, you call them feminist. You threaten them with menopause and loneliness in their old age. You don't allow them breathe in peace. You put it to them they can never be fulfilled without marriage.

A thread was created on how marrying women over 30 is akin to buying evening newspapers. 17pages of you guys reminding and bullying these women to go get married before 25.

How many of you took a minute to encourage same women to improve on themselves and not see marriage as the ultimate goal[on that thread]? The few women that raised these points were silenced and reminded of menopause.

Barely 48hours and here is another complaining all they want is marriage. Why won't they want marriage?
Why won't they keep dumping you lots for older suitors?
It's a vicious cycle. Get used to it.

That said,
Dearest Nigerian men,what do you want from your women?

Would you die if you live and let them live?

I'm always in love with your point of view

donstan18:



I blame Nigerian ladies for this

blame those u want to blame, every1 have their priorities

gloria34:
blame those u want to blame, every1 have their priorities

Vexed?

makydebbie:
So I'm going to say something.


You men are hypocrites!! Crazy ones! Jesus! It's appalling.

Firstly, I'll talk about the op, you met two women who want marriage. Well, let's understand the first lady who the society has given pressure.
Now, you're with one smallie who is crazily in love and and the best way to jam you is with marriage.

Now this op with his myopic reasoning has forgotten, He's what he attracts.
For years now, you've been attracting ladies who are fussed about marriage because the society has put that undue pressure on us. Instead of you to be worried about the fact that the ladies you attract are not goal-oriented. You felt the need to bring up this thread.


You all are confused hypocrites. I once said it here that I'll love to have PhD before I get married. You can only guess the kinds of mentions I got that day.



Anyone who doesn't see marriage as their ultimate goal is foolish in this era, thanks to you all. You've given the mentality that, once you're rich, unmarried and fulfilled, you're still miserable because you're unmarried. You all see marriage as a sort of achievement. You all are mad.

Anyone that has other plans apart from marriage is always given the popular tag on nairaland.


Everyone should know this today! Marriage is not the ultimate happiness. Not everyone under the marriage umbrella is living happily. Chase your goals and ambitions. These men ain't going anywhere.



Nigerian men, what do you want? When you see a woman who isn't fussed about marriage, you'll troll her that she's a fustrated and unhappy feminist. When you meet one who wants the marriage, she doesn't have ambition and what's the phrase again? "They've nothing to live for".


Africa mentality, you cannot be genuinely happy until you're married.

The ultimate goal is to be happy, and that can be achieved without marriage.

Making a Lot Of sense Bae.

is it a crime to want to settle down? to stop sleeping about, have your own kids and be settled?

ladies are not built for promiscuity and we love children so much but as luck will have it, nature is not on our side, once you clock menopause it's over. so what else do you want from us?

if you are not ready for marriage then let the girl know so she moves on to better prospects instead of saying nonsense here oga.

pocohantas:
Nothing pleases you lots. The ones that have plans different from marriage, you call them feminist. You threaten them with menopause and loneliness in their old age. You don't allow them breathe in peace. You put it to them they can never be fulfilled without marriage.

A thread was created on how marrying women over 30 is akin to buying evening newspapers. 17pages of you guys reminding and bullying these women to go get married before 25.

How many of you took a minute to encourage same women to improve on themselves and not see marriage as the ultimate goal[on that thread]? The few women that raised these points were silenced and reminded of menopause.

Barely 48hours and here is another complaining all they want is marriage. Why won't they want marriage?
Why won't they keep dumping you lots for older suitors?
It's a vicious cycle. Get used to it.

That said,
Dearest Nigerian men,what do you want from your women?

Would you die if you live and let them live?

Baby girl I love you. Nigerian men do not know what they want. SMh. Confused beings

makydebbie:
So I'm going to say something.


You men are hypocrites!! Crazy ones! Jesus! It's appalling.

Firstly, I'll talk about the op, you met two women who want marriage. Well, let's understand the first lady who the society has given pressure.
Now, you're with one smallie who is crazily in love and and the best way to jam you is with marriage.

Now this op with his myopic reasoning has forgotten, He's what he attracts.
For years now, you've been attracting ladies who are fussed about marriage because the society has put that undue pressure on us. Instead of you to be worried about the fact that the ladies you attract are not goal-oriented. You felt the need to bring up this thread.


You all are confused hypocrites. I once said it here that I'll love to have PhD before I get married. You can only guess the kinds of mentions I got that day.



Anyone who doesn't see marriage as their ultimate goal is foolish in this era, thanks to you all. You've given the mentality that, once you're rich, unmarried and fulfilled, you're still miserable because you're unmarried. You all see marriage as a sort of achievement. You all are mad.

Anyone that has other plans apart from marriage is always given the popular tag on nairaland.


Everyone should know this today! Marriage is not the ultimate happiness. Not everyone under the marriage umbrella is living happily. Chase your goals and ambitions. These men ain't going anywhere.



Nigerian men, what do you want? When you see a woman who isn't fussed about marriage, you'll troll her that she's a fustrated and unhappy feminist. When you meet one who wants the marriage, she doesn't have ambition and what's the phrase again? "They've nothing to live for".


Africa mentality, you cannot be genuinely happy until you're married.

The ultimate goal is to be happy, and that can be achieved without marriage.

Yupppppp

pocohantas:
Nothing pleases you lots. The ones that have plans different from marriage, you call them feminist. You threaten them with menopause and loneliness in their old age. You don't allow them breathe in peace. You put it to them they can never be fulfilled without marriage.

A thread was created on how marrying women over 30 is akin to buying evening newspapers. 17pages of you guys reminding and bullying these women to go get married before 25.

How many of you took a minute to encourage same women to improve on themselves and not see marriage as the ultimate goal[on that thread]? The few women that raised these points were silenced and reminded of menopause.

Barely 48hours and here is another complaining all they want is marriage. Why won't they want marriage?
Why won't they keep dumping you lots for older suitors?
It's a vicious cycle. Get used to it.

That said,
Dearest Nigerian men,what do you want from your women?

Would you die if you live and let them live?

This is a shiithole country afterall

Safiaa:
Baby girl I love you. Nigerian men do not know what they want. SMh. Confused beings

Not all sha

RomeoEmpire:
Making a Lot Of sense Bae.

Thanks dear.

makydebbie:
Thanks dear.

Uwlcm Bae. I guess that's ur pix ryt?