ITbomb:
Get money first before all these

All a girl needs is a rich man who possess all these qualities

newyorks:
Endless list..

Pharaoh001:


You're wrong, clinically wrong self
Money don't attract someone like me and every other responsibile ladies out there.....

GabrielAganyi:


very correct. 97% of ladies prefer men who are non predictable. Just mix pleasure with pain. there you go, ladies will love to possess you.

Correct bro.... .. To be truly attracted to a babe for long.. . Bro you need to be a chameleon (change attitudes and other things with conditions at hand) so truly the list is endless

Pharaoh001:


You're wrong, clinically wrong self
Money don't attract someone like me and every other responsibile ladies out there.....

Pharaoh001:


You're wrong, clinically wrong self
Money don't attract someone like me and every other responsibile ladies out there.....

Pharaoh001:
I won't like it,if anyone challenge or criticize my personal opinion....
“The most” is a tricky phrase to use,
because it might imply that one great trait
is better, more attractive than the other.
That this one trait can be mutually
exclusive from others. That’s not the case.
Instead of a quality, I’ll list a few
qualities. Because men I’m attracted to
have most of these.
If they had them all, I’d probably be
married. If I dated this person and it
didn’t work out, it is probably because I
thought they had all or most of these, but
it turned out they didn’t. (Don’t read the
post thinking I think I’m perfect. I do not
think I’m perfect. No one is. But I do
possess most of the qualities I want from
the other person. The ones I might not
possess, I’m working on every day.)

A lovely smile. The smile is
friendly and confident. It is
wide, real, and the person isn’t
stingy with this smile. The eyes
join in the smile. It’s not a smirk
or a grin.

Manners. I don’t mean opening
the door for me or taking charge
or any of that crap. Although I
don’t mind someone opening the
door for me (or opening the door
for someone), it is not necessary.
What’s necessary is someone
who knows how to behave:
someone who is not picking loud
fights in public places, someone
who is kind/nice to everyone
regardless of their social
situation, someone who is only
rude when the other person
started it, someone who can
keep things calm in a stressful
situation - not the person
starting fights for fight’s sake.

Passionate. I am.

Not possessive. I’m not.

Not jealous. Jealousy is a big
turn-off. (I’m not jealous. OK, I
would love Ramsey Noah
house, but that’s not relationship
related.)

A certain calmness. No one is
calm all the time. It’s not
possible. But I love it when a guy
makes me feel calm. I feel like
someone eradicted all the
nervousness, worry and stress in
the world. (All of my crushes
made me feel like this.)

Respectfulness and loyalty. I
am respectful and loyal. No
cheaters and no pathological
liars.

Self-care. I’m not talking about
being fit here. Yes, fitness is an
attractive trait, but I’m talking
about knowing weaknesses
(when it comes to health) and
taking caring of himself
accordingly.
Will to self-improve. If someone
arrogantly (and ignorantly)
disses all non-fiction, we are not
a good match. If someone doesn’t
read, we are not a good match.

Hobbies other than his job/
family/friends. Life can get
pretty dull pretty fast. Someone
who is passionate about things is
generally more fun to talk to. I
just hope that hobby isn’t all
about just one sport. (Being a
sports fan is fine, as long as it is
not his whole identity.)

Charisma and/or charm. How
charismatic and/or charming I
am is debatable. But I’m
thinking he finds me charming
and/or charismatic. Otherwise,
why did he ask me out? Or why
did he say yes when I asked him
out? (Yes, I ask guys out.
Equality, remember?)

Sense of humor. We need to be
able to make each other laugh.

Things in common. We will
have separate friends and
hobbies and that is normal. But
we also need mutual interests to
make the relationship stronger,
healthier and more fun. Yes, it is
about attraction. I have found
men more or less attractive
based on what they loved and/or
hated. Example: A guy who loves
Justin Bieber is NOT attractive.
I’m sorry, but he is not. I hate
Justin Bieber. (I’m a rock head.)

A normal attitude toward
communication. I don’t want to
date a guy who calls me 10 times
a day or someone who calls me
only once in 10 days. I return
the favor.

Personal space and trust. I
don’t do shared accounts and
passwords. I won’t ask his, I
won’t give him mine. If we run a
business together, we will then
share the relevant business info.

Style. I don’t follow or care for
fashion. (I love clothes, but
trends? No clue. No interest.) He
should have his own style.

Height. Sorry, this is a bit
superficial. But I’ve always found
taller guys more attractive. I’m
5′6″ (about 1.72cms.) Yes, there
are exceptions.

A cool voice. Optional, but it
does increase attractiveness.
Examples: wizkid, Dbanj, Odunlade's.... (There are tons)

Not obsessed with exes. We
owe each other a fresh start.

Numbers don’t matter. I don’t
care how many people he has
dated. He should return the
favor.
Confident, but not arrogant.
Aka likes himself but doesn’t
think he is god’s gift to the
world.
Modest, and kind but not a
pushover.

Doesn’t openly check out other
women when we are together.
Checks them out discreetly when
alone. Bonus point if he is not
too interested in checking others
out, even just platonically. (Yeah,
yeah, not realistic. But it does
increase the attraction.)


Must be very Romantic, Brave and Loyal.

Pharaoh001:


You're wrong, clinically wrong self
Money don't attract someone like me and every other responsibile ladies out there.....