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What Life Has Taught Me. by Martinez19(m): 4:12pm On Feb 21, 2018
1) Learn to say no and create boundaries.

2) Never make friends with someone you can't say no to or speak your mind to.

3) True friends/companion is a scarce commodity. To be on the safe side, trust no one be it stranger, family and relatives or neighbours.

4) Someone hates your progress and it could be anybody.

5) Money is everything and god in our society even though it's not supposed to be. Unfortunately, it will always be so.

6) Human beings are mean-spirited, shortsighted, selfish, full of vanity, vainly competitive, jealous and envious without bounds, wicked, untrustworthy and backstabbing, very opportunistic and would even live off the misery of others. Trust no one and be watchful when you make it in life because fake friends and gold diggers will come.

7) Wickedness, greed, vanity, stupidity, ignorance and cowardice are the foundation of all of human beings' problems.

cool All world religions and conspiracy theories are false. They are ridiculous garbage. Same goes for other world mysticism like voodoo, witchcraft, spells and curses, charms, incantations, money rituals etc.

9) Life is more complex than it appears. You will never know something until it happens to you. If you see someone going through things you haven't gone through, don't talk or try to be a judge. Instead be ready to listen.

10) You can't always be right and you might be wrong.

11) If you are rich, be stingy because human beings are snakes and mean spirited opportunists. They will run you down mercilessly and put their problems on your head. Funny enough when things go bad for you, they will abandon you and when they see you on the road, they will snub you. Give only when you feel like not because someone asked you---- they might as well be lying. Learn to say no.

12) make it a point of duty to understand your world, the system and how it works.

13) A single mistake can turn your life upside down no matter your investment, opportunities, privileges and hard work. Be wise.

14) stay away from hard drugs, porn, marijuana, alcohol, and gluttony. Learn to save and manage money. Don't squander anyhow.

15) add yours

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Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by QueenSuccubus(f): 4:15pm On Feb 21, 2018

7) Wickedness, greed, vanity, stupidity, ignorance and cowardice are the foundation of all of man's problems.



This is VERY TRUE. grin All men are so guilty of these...
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by greatnaija01: 4:16pm On Feb 21, 2018
WOW.... am amazed at the WRONG LESSONS you have wisely learned. Well before you die many of these listed things will be changed. Lessons leanred on earth actally changed when a person dies and discovers truth on the other side.


Martinez19:
1) Learn to say no and create boundaries.

2) Never make friends with someone you can't say no to or speak your mind to.

3) True friends/companion is a scarce commodity. To be on the safe side, trust no one be it stranger, family and relatives or neighbours.

4) Someone hates your progress and it could be anybody.

5) Money is everything and god in our society even though it's not supposed to be. Unfortunately, it will always be so.

6) Human beings are mean-spirited, shortsighted, selfish, full of vanity, vainly competitive, jealous and envious without bounds, wicked, untrustworthy and backstabbing, very opportunistic and would even live off the misery of others. Trust no one and be watchful when you make it in life because fake friends and gold diggers will come.

7) Wickedness, greed, vanity, stupidity, ignorance and cowardice are the foundation of all of man's problems.

cool All world religions and conspiracy theories are false. They are ridiculous garbage. Same goes for other world mysticism like voodoo, witchcraft, spells and curses, charms, incantations, money rituals etc.

9) Life is more complex than it appears. You will never know something until it happens to you. If you see someone going through things you haven't gone through, don't talk or try to be a judge. Instead be ready to listen.

10) You can't always be right and you might be wrong.

11) If you are rich, be stingy because human beings are snakes and mean spirited opportunists. They will run you down mercilessly and put their problems on your head. Funny enough when things go bad for you, they will abandon you and when they see you on the road, they will snub you. Give only when you feel like not because someone asked you---- they might as well be lying. Learn to say no.

12) make it a point of duty to understand your world, the system and how it works.

13) A single mistake can turn your life upside down no matter your investment, opportunities, privileges and hard work. Be wise.

14) stay away from hard drugs, porn, marijuana, alcohol, and gluttony. Learn to save and manage money. Don't squander anyhow.

15) add yours

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Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by greatnaija01: 4:17pm On Feb 21, 2018
All humans... men n women.... BE CLEAR ON THAT

QueenSuccubus:
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This is VERY TRUE. grin All men are so guilty of these...

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Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by Martinez19(m): 4:18pm On Feb 21, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
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This is VERY TRUE. grin All men are so guilty of these...
I meant human beings, I'm sure you meant that too. grin
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by Martinez19(m): 4:19pm On Feb 21, 2018
greatnaija01:
WOW.... am amazed at the WRONG LESSONS you have wisely learned. Well before you die many of these listed things will be changed. Lessons leanred on earth actally changed when a person dies and discovers truth on the other side.


Spot out the wrong lessons.
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by gabinogem(m): 4:26pm On Feb 21, 2018
You are your own problem...until the day you discover who you really are.
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by Martinez19(m): 4:29pm On Feb 21, 2018
gabinogem:
You are your own problem...until the day you discover who you really are.
mmmm, well I don't understand this, can you explain?
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by Nobody: 4:30pm On Feb 21, 2018
I've learnt to drink no water before going for lectures in the morning. Because you go hold urine tire. #LifeLessons
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by Martinez19(m): 4:34pm On Feb 21, 2018
Wiziman:
I've learnt to drink no water before going for lectures in the morning. Because you go hold urine tire. #LifeLessons
lol. Don't forget to add eating. Holding shit during lectures can be hellish. grin
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by greatnaija01: 4:54pm On Feb 21, 2018
NUMBER 5 Money only looks like EVERYTHING when u do not have it, PEACE is everything that money can't buy... u seem to forget that THE RICH ALSO CRY...... someone who has no car is safer than the one who has expensive latest cars becaUse of he has to be security conscious to maintain it and to keep it from being stolen, but the other has no such WORRIES or CARES..... PEACE IS GOLDEN.

NUMBER 6 never ever generalize.... your lessons will only work for u.... ALL HUMANS ARE NOT THE SAME. Even if you said all NIGERIANS... u still would be wrong.... limit your lesson to your unique set of experiences

NUMBER 8 I laugh, your education is really not complete.... go and slap an herbalist or rape his daughter then YOU WILL KNOW that there are other worlds that are not visible to the naked eye. If yahoo and yahooplus works then u are wrong cos IT IS NOT NORMAL... Spells exists and LUCK can be changed. Confirm before speaking. Just because you have met fakes does not mean real does not exist.... NO INVENTOR MAKES A FAKE THING, IT IS USUALLY THE COPY OF AN ALREADY INVENTED THING THAT CAN BE FAKE....... Fake is the PROOF of the REAL.

NUMBER 11 Stingy? for realz? lol.... well rich is not the same as wealthy.... EVERY WEALTHY MAN is generous and generousity is relative.... because you do not give your BLOOD till u are dead to sustain another person's life... YOU SIMPLY GIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS... chikena

no one knows it all, your lessons are limited to only your experience and not for everyone not even your biological kids. We learn daily




Martinez19:
Spot out the wrong lessons.

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Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by Martinez19(m): 5:08pm On Feb 21, 2018
greatnaija01:
NUMBER 5 Money only looks like EVERYTHING when u do not have it, PEACE is everything that money can't buy... u seem to forget that THE RICH ALSO CRY...... someone who has no car is safer than the one who has expensive latest cars becaUse of he has to be security conscious to maintain it and to keep it from being stolen, but the other has no such WORRIES or CARES..... PEACE IS GOLDEN.

NUMBER 6 never ever generalize.... your lessons will only work for u.... ALL HUMANS ARE NOT THE SAME. Even if you said all NIGERIANS... u still would be wrong.... limit your lesson to your unique set of experiences

NUMBER 8 I laugh, your education is really not complete.... go and slap an herbalist or rape his daughter then YOU WILL KNOW that there are other worlds that are not visible to the naked eye. If yahoo and yahooplus works then u are wrong cos IT IS NOT NORMAL... Spells exists and LUCK can be changed. Confirm before speaking. Just because you have met fakes does not mean real does not exist.... NO INVENTOR MAKES A FAKE THING, IT IS USUALLY THE COPY OF AN ALREADY INVENTED THING THAT CAN BE FAKE....... Fake is the PROOF of the REAL.

NUMBER 11 Stingy? for realz? lol.... well rich is not the same as wealthy.... EVERY WEALTHY MAN is generous and generousity is relative.... because you do not give your BLOOD till u are dead to sustain another person's life... YOU SIMPLY GIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS... chikena

no one knows it all, your lessons are limited to only your experience and not for everyone not even your biological kids. We learn daily




I didn't say money is in itself a god and everything. I typed that it shouldn't be so. It's the way humans have made it. For number six, I meant most humans. For number eight, I still stand on my claim. For number eleven, I didn't say be stingy all round just like that. I gave my reasons. You would agree with me that there are mean spirited opportunist and gold diggers all around.
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by gabinogem(m): 5:22pm On Feb 21, 2018
Martinez19:
mmmm, well I don't understand this, can you explain?
Unfortunately, not knowing yourself well can result in a meaningless & unhappiness existence. You have not taken enough charge of your life...Because you have no clear idea about what your inner values, core beliefs & goals are, you allow your emotions & decisions to be externally dictated. Instead of making an independent decision, you adopt the values, core beliefs & opinions of your friends, colleagues or parents, as your own....& this is related to the law of attraction; if you have no clear idea of who you are, you will have no clarity in what you want or seek, thus sending mixed signal out to the universe.

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Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by Martinez19(m): 5:24pm On Feb 21, 2018
gabinogem:
Unfortunately, not knowing yourself well can result in a meaningless & unhappiness existence. You have not taken enough charge of your life...Because you have no clear idea about what your inner values, core beliefs & goals are, you allow your emotions & decisions to be externally dictated. Instead of making an independent decision, you adopt the values, core beliefs & opinions of your friends, colleagues or parents, as your own....& this is related to the law of attraction; if you have no clear idea of who you are, you will have no clarity in what you want or seek, thus sending mixed signal out to the universe.
GBAM! I clap to this.
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by damesilver(m): 5:50pm On Feb 21, 2018
To hold these things as lessons may be a barrier to realising your true self. While all these may be a true in your life experience it may not be true for others. The law of life is you are what you attract. If you are vibrating in the ray of love, love will definitely stream towards you. And what you sow is what you reap.

Here in earth good and evil dwell side by side so that we can learn lesson to grow in love. But sadly the lesson a lot learn is that of distrust, suspicion, distaste for life, ingratitude, lacking in passion, loss of empathy, all because they "feel" life is not fair.

Change your vibration and your environment will change.
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by olaboy1: 6:02pm On Feb 21, 2018
OP is on point with all he listed. No matter any counter argument, for the fact that a vast majority of people on earth have gone through various phases of his lists and can relate to them conveniently makes it a golden write up.
Let me see if I can find one Facebook post on my wall by one Edo man billionaire, everything he went through are encapsulated in OP’s list.

I can relate to about 90% of his post. Trust no one, not even your blood.
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by crismark(m): 6:03pm On Feb 21, 2018
wat me av learned so far is jst....

kill dem wit ur absence nd silence.

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Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by drvalency: 6:16pm On Feb 21, 2018
Martinez19:
1) Learn to say no and create boundaries.

2) Never make friends with someone you can't say no to or speak your mind to.

3) True friends/companion is a scarce commodity. To be on the safe side, trust no one be it stranger, family and relatives or neighbours.

4) Someone hates your progress and it could be anybody.

5) Money is everything and god in our society even though it's not supposed to be. Unfortunately, it will always be so.

6) Human beings are mean-spirited, shortsighted, selfish, full of vanity, vainly competitive, jealous and envious without bounds, wicked, untrustworthy and backstabbing, very opportunistic and would even live off the misery of others. Trust no one and be watchful when you make it in life because fake friends and gold diggers will come.

7) Wickedness, greed, vanity, stupidity, ignorance and cowardice are the foundation of all of human beings' problems.

cool All world religions and conspiracy theories are false. They are ridiculous garbage. Same goes for other world mysticism like voodoo, witchcraft, spells and curses, charms, incantations, money rituals etc.

9) Life is more complex than it appears. You will never know something until it happens to you. If you see someone going through things you haven't gone through, don't talk or try to be a judge. Instead be ready to listen.

10) You can't always be right and you might be wrong.

11) If you are rich, be stingy because human beings are snakes and mean spirited opportunists. They will run you down mercilessly and put their problems on your head. Funny enough when things go bad for you, they will abandon you and when they see you on the road, they will snub you. Give only when you feel like not because someone asked you---- they might as well be lying. Learn to say no.

12) make it a point of duty to understand your world, the system and how it works.

13) A single mistake can turn your life upside down no matter your investment, opportunities, privileges and hard work. Be wise.

14) stay away from hard drugs, porn, marijuana, alcohol, and gluttony. Learn to save and manage money. Don't squander anyhow.

15) add yours
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by HeWrites(m): 6:17pm On Feb 21, 2018
Martinez19:
1) Learn to say no and create boundaries.

2) Never make friends with someone you can't say no to or speak your mind to.

3) True friends/companion is a scarce commodity. To be on the safe side, trust no one be it stranger, family and relatives or neighbours.

4) Someone hates your progress and it could be anybody.

5) Money is everything and god in our society even though it's not supposed to be. Unfortunately, it will always be so.

6) Human beings are mean-spirited, shortsighted, selfish, full of vanity, vainly competitive, jealous and envious without bounds, wicked, untrustworthy and backstabbing, very opportunistic and would even live off the misery of others. Trust no one and be watchful when you make it in life because fake friends and gold diggers will come.

7) Wickedness, greed, vanity, stupidity, ignorance and cowardice are the foundation of all of human beings' problems.

cool All world religions and conspiracy theories are false. They are ridiculous garbage. Same goes for other world mysticism like voodoo, witchcraft, spells and curses, charms, incantations, money rituals etc.

9) Life is more complex than it appears. You will never know something until it happens to you. If you see someone going through things you haven't gone through, don't talk or try to be a judge. Instead be ready to listen.

10) You can't always be right and you might be wrong.

11) If you are rich, be stingy because human beings are snakes and mean spirited opportunists. They will run you down mercilessly and put their problems on your head. Funny enough when things go bad for you, they will abandon you and when they see you on the road, they will snub you. Give only when you feel like not because someone asked you---- they might as well be lying. Learn to say no.

12) make it a point of duty to understand your world, the system and how it works.

13) A single mistake can turn your life upside down no matter your investment, opportunities, privileges and hard work. Be wise.

14) stay away from hard drugs, porn, marijuana, alcohol, and gluttony. Learn to save and manage money. Don't squander anyhow.

15) add yours



Nice writeup bro..
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by Martinez19(m): 6:21pm On Feb 21, 2018
olaboy1:
OP is on point with all he listed. No matter any counter argument, for the fact that a vast majority of people on earth have gone through various phases of his lists and can relate to them conveniently makes it a golden write up.
Let me see if I can find one Facebook post on my wall by one Edo man billionaire, everything he went through are encapsulated in OP’s list.

I can relate to about 90% of his post. Trust no one, not even your blood.
please share.
Re: What Life Has Taught Me. by HeWrites(m): 6:22pm On Feb 21, 2018
Martinez19:
Reply when you have gotten it so I can cancel this post.

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