david2:


It is o, this will tell u that our mentality in Nigeria is still backward

and thats a very bad mentality... We are in the 21st centuary for Petesake.

david2:


The reason they have regreted it is becos if their belief, what u believe will definitely work for u

who will marry a lady when you believe you will regret it?

XhosaNostra:


She has a point. Because you jubilate when someone marries a white person (outsider) but discriminate against your own. Where is the sense in that?

doesn't change d fact that we're different

MIKOLOWISKA:
doesn't change d fact that we're different

Different how?

XhosaNostra:


Different how?

we still take our parents advice into consideration when making decisions
cos they've seen things
been around the block

MIKOLOWISKA:
we still take our parents advice into consideration when making decisions
cos they've seen things
been around the block

Yeah, but it's strange that parents would be against you marrying someone from another part of your country & yet don't mind when you marry someone from an entirely different country. It's better the devil you know as they say, no?

XhosaNostra:


Yeah, but it's strange[b]
not at all
[/b] that parents would be against you marrying someone from another part of your country
bad history as evidence
& yet don't mind when you marry someone from an entirely different country. [b]
better history
[/b]It's better the devil you know as they say, no?

yep
they know the two devils and prefer the foreign one based on experience

MIKOLOWISKA:
yep
they know the two devils and prefer the foreign one based on experience

Ok.

XhosaNostra:


Ok.

yep lesser of two evils