Same question here. If you like move out of this forum. Your mum loves you more than anyone else and she knows what is good for you. Don't get used. Lower ur ego and obey your parents. Maybe it's even because of the pride in you that has made you single. So on behalf of your mum and all we well wishers "when are you getting married"

Pass well ooo..

uyaima:
My Dear,your own matter tiny.my own b say,mine younger broda say make i go marry,bcus say him want 2 marry.n i dy live 4 d room way my father give me b4 him die 4 d same compound way my broda dy(family house).him say,d wife way him wnt marry no go live with me 4 d same compound,so,make i pack my load n leave.My dear,my age big pass ur own(thirty three) but i no dy fear,bcus i don c lady of 40yrs wed.I just dy thank papa God,wen der is life,der is hope.

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lagosrd:
Same question here. If you like move out of this forum. Your mum loves you more than anyone else and she knows what is good for you. Don't get used. Lower ur ego and obey your parents. Maybe it's even because of the pride in you that has made you single. So on behalf of your mum and all we well wishers "when are you getting married"

when the time is right

JONNYSPUTE:
Your mum is a woman like you and she knows the truth that you cannot be complete as a woman without a man.

You v not seen the ones that were later made incomplete courtesy of battering n domestic violence in the name of marriage.

SAMBARRY:
o please,excuse YOU.the clown you are defending is one rude,arrogant and mischievous lad.never willing to learn,doesn't take corrections,insults the people that corrected him on how to position himself to be successful

If you see him displaying his caustic tongue,you will understand why he is a nobody in the music industry

Like you don't know apart from loose women,alcohol and drugs,pride is a silent ,disgraceful career killer

When he dea will do exploits,however if he continues with his usual habit,he will continue to be a lout.Ask idris abdulkareem why his music career failed


PRIDE
UNWILLINGNESS TO LEARN
LOUSY BEHAVIOURS
TOO INSULTIVE


apparently air force and idris abdulkareem share a lot of similarities

I have see the name often on NL bt don't follow his comments.l believe u kno him beta bt such lashin is quite demoralizing forget we may tak it a joke here.there is always after thought on what people say of us here no matter the moniker

My mom is like this lady's mom...

Being rented apartment simply means you never even one day thought of getting married.

divine2288:
.....take it easy biko... no b quarel.... she is nt d giver of husband... God knows best

It was a harmless question.

selfmade22:
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hope you are seriouse. no jokes pls

Tobycharles:


You v not seen the ones that were later made incomplete courtesy of battering n domestic violence in the name of marriage.

. I ve but the truth is that there must be a reason for her mum to be pressuring her at that age. Maybe she is living a wayward life style and the woman is scared she might get pregnant before marriage and hence,her fear. My opinion though.

mikebrown92:


Hmm
This 1 is strong
Eleyi gidigan.

33yrs, you don born at all?
Wetin dey stop you from getting married?
Shey you no get man at all ni?

Stop all these question you are asking her...I see no difference between the subject matters mother and many of you. Why are you asking her? Anybody can get married at any time they found the right person. We all have our different biological clock. Let's try and understand them and encourage them because they are going through a lot.

kalu61:
I have see the name often on NL bt don't follow his comments.l believe u kno him beta bt such lashin is quite demoralizing forget we may tak it a joke here.there is always after thought on what people say of us here no matter the moniker

but his own insults doesn't demoralize others

I am speaking from EXPERIENCE.he has insulted me before and I have always put him in his place,so I know what I am talking about.stop making him look like a victim because he's a very big bully

uyaima:
My Dear,your own matter tiny.my own b say,mine younger broda say make i go marry,bcus say him want 2 marry.n i dy live 4 d room way my father give me b4 him die 4 d same compound way my broda dy(family house).him say,d wife way him wnt marry no go live with me 4 d same compound,so,make i pack my load n leave.My dear,my age big pass ur own(thirty three) but i no dy fear,bcus i don c lady of 40yrs wed.I just dy thank papa God,wen der is life,der is hope.

mama dey mama.... aunty dey aunty...
8 years left o for m....e.... pause

if only the mum realizes that though...

many claimed to be MARRIED, BUT most are actually SINGLE !

#read inbetween the lines
#only the wise can decode!
#good people go through most sh*t!
#take life easy.

JONNYSPUTE:
. I ve but the truth is that there must be a reason for her mum to be pressuring her at that age. Maybe she is living a wayward life style and the woman is scared she might get pregnant before marriage and hence,her fear. My opinion though.

and so what? If she gets pregnant before marriage,big deal?Na she be the first?

Pregnancy before marriage no be sickness

lagosrd:
Same question here. If you like move out of this forum. Your mum loves you more than anyone else and she knows what is good for you. Don't get used. Lower ur ego and obey your parents. Maybe it's even because of the pride in you that has made you single. So on behalf of your mum and all we well wishers "when are you getting married"

. Thank you for speaking the truth

thesicilian:
So when are you getting married?

Go and marry her.

FortifiedCity:
So what exactly is keeping you from getting married?

.And how is that your fucking business,feel like kicking ur ass now.

SAMBARRY:
and so what? If she gets pregnant before marriage,big deal?Na she be the first?

Pregnancy before marriage no be sickness

. O boy,today na Sunday o. Take am easy dey vex o.This one you dey para like this wetin happen?

JONNYSPUTE:
. I ve but the truth is that there must be a reason for her mum to be pressuring her at that age. Maybe she is living a wayward life style and the woman is scared she might get pregnant before marriage and hence,her fear. My opinion though.

you might me correct.thats was my take but l was observin comments.most people taking on frm the lady'r prism

Uyi168:
..as a muslim,the only thing u knw is how to behead..insane fellows

Shut up!!

kalu61:
you might me correct.thats was my take but l was observin comments.most people taking on frm the lady'r prism

. Nigerians believe that as long as somebody comes out to lay a complaint first,that he or she must be right.But it doesn't work that way.

SAMBARRY:
but his own insults doesn't demoralize others

I am speaking from EXPERIENCE.he has insulted me before and I have always put him in his place,so I know what I am talking about.stop making him look like a victim because he's a very big bully

I'm not supporting him at all.like l said am yet to observ or folow his comment.Both of you should stop pls.It has aftermate effect on us accept those who doesnt think abt their life at the end of each day

CastedAyo:
A Nigerian lady shared the reason why she left her parents home. According to her, she constantly gets into fights with her because she's consistently reminding her how her mates are married, and she's still in their house.

She said she doesn't have a problem with her father because he didn't disturb her, but she is uncomfortable living in the house because of his mother, so she decided to rent her own apartment.

As seen of The Human of Abuja page;
"I moved out of my parent's house last month because I was always getting into fights with my mother. She was always reminding me day and night about how most of my mates are married and I was still in the house. Always comparing me with her friends' daughters that are married. It got to a point where the house because very uncomfortable for me. Day and night that's all she talked about.

My dad doesn't have any issues with my being unmarried. I am not the only unmarried 26 year old, but my mother always made it seem so. I decided to rent my own apartment in order to regain my peace of mind. My family house is here in Abuja and I rented a house here too. I think giving them some space is just the best decision."

https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/i-moved-out-of-my-parents-house-because-my-mum-always-remind-me-my-mates-are-married-lady.html

Op please if you know the lady very well...I will relate my mothers experience.
My mother was a very ambitious young woman in her youthful time who started succeeding early in life. She bought her first car at 23 years of age and her business was prospering. It all started to reel and collapsed when her mother (my grand mother) started pressurizing her to get married because she is the only child and grandma cannot wait to see her grand children before she die (according to her). The pressure became too much in my mums life, so she got married to the wrong man twice before reaching 27 years. Everything she achieved went away within 3-5 years. (I have my moms story in the diary section though not with this moniker).
Fortunately, my grand mother is still very much alive to see all she made my mum went through. She has apologized to my mum even crying in our presence for the role she played though ignorantly(she thought she had her best interest at heart).
The lesson to all the unmarried ladies:
Never....ever allow ANYONE to push you into relationship and marriage. My mother is fortunate to have recovered some things back after 25 years of confusion. You might not be that fortunate!!!
Once you go into wrong relationship to marriage, your life can NEVER be the same again. Be wise.

cc: Alexialin

toobusy:
.And how is that your fucking business,feel like kicking ur ass now.

Please Dont kick my ass Sir

JONNYSPUTE:
. Nigerians believe that as long as somebody comes out to lay a complaint first,that he or she must be right.But it doesn't work that way.

Haha,there is a sayin when we were kids that the first to report always win no matter what

AndyCole16:

Op please if you know the lady very well...I will relate my mothers experience.
My mother was a very ambitious young woman in her youthful time who started succeeding early in life. She bought her first car at 23 years of age and her business was prospering. It all started to reel and collapsed when her mother (my grand mother) started pressurizing her to get married because she is the only child and grandma cannot wait to see her grand children before she die (according to her). The pressure became too much in my mums life, so she got married to the wrong man twice before reaching 27 years. Everything she achieved went away within 3-5 years. (I have my moms story in the diary section though not with this moniker).
Fortunately, my grand mother is still very much alive to see all she made my mum went through. She has apologized to my mum even crying in our presence for the wrongs she

Please mention me in another thread.. I'd like to read the diary please

kalu61:
Haha,there is a sayin when we were kids that the first to report always win no matter what

. I dey tell you and most of us still ve that mentality

I am wondering of late why marriage is now a serious prayer point among the female folk..


Am thinking is because of joblessness among the male folk[quote author=uyaima post=65544962]My Dear,your own matter tiny.my own b say,mine younger broda say make i go marry,bcus say him want 2 marry.n i dy live 4 d room way my father give me b4 him die 4 d same compound way my broda dy(family house).him say,d wife way him wnt marry no go live with me 4 d same compound,so,make i pack my load n leave.My dear,my age big pass ur own(thirty three) but i no dy fear,bcus i don c lady of 40yrs wed.I just dy thank papa God,wen der is life,der is hope. [/quote]

braimeddy:
So by getting ur own apartment, u think u have solved the issue? My dear I will advice u to go back to ur parent's house and just ignore ur mum's comment. If actually u really need a husband, a man will value u more if u re with ur parents than u being living alone.

Good point! !!