u got a boyfrnd, he keeps frowning at you giving guys ur number. wat has number got to do with faithfulness and he kips nagging that u are too frndly with guys when u are just being urself and really loves him and doesnt really care if he has other girls as frnds.he accuses just too much.[

I hear you girl. But you see, just to avoid arguing, try not to be that friendly with guys anymore if you see this is so disturbing to him, BUT apply the same thing on him. After all, it has to be a mutual thing. It's all about compromise. Or you could also try introduce him to those male friends of yours. He will feel more secure, knowing you actually don't have anything to hide.
Good luck!

hes just INSECURe dump him u just too gud 4 him or try n talk 2 him like its u dat i want not em talk

@ kike , i dont get that

he read some sms and was bitter cos they wer romantic ones 4rm sum guys. but it isnt my fault cus i didnt tell dem to send dem,dats wat i bilif.

If you are friendly and outgoing, you should go out with a friendly and outgoing guy.
There's no point in secluding yourself from other men until you are happily married. It's good to have plan Bs!

hmmmm

I hope you know it works the other way round too? i.e you wont complain if he becomes friendly with othergirls and you find romantic sms from other girl on his phone!!
Obviously you+ your botfriend have trust issues!

kkutecolo:

u got a boyfrnd, he keeps frowning at you giving guys your number. what has number got to do with faithfulness and he kips nagging that u are too frndly with guys when u are just being yourself and really loves him and doesnt really care if he has other girls as frnds.he accuses just too much.[

question 1:
kkutecolo, to be realistic, will u mind if he gives other babes his number and they send all sorts to him

question2:
it seems here that we are having TRUST AND TRANSPARENCY ISSUES;

i am a marketer and my dear 99.9% of my clients are guys and my fiancee doesnt frown wen he sees me give guys my number cos the trust is there.

but lets reason together,if i didnt give him my number ow on earth would he think we will date. considering the fact that he is also a guy.

my sis just relax and be wise in ur dealings with him, in as much as that there are no strings attached to those guys.

think about it this way will you hate it if he collects other girls number? if u would then stop complaining, but if u would not mind then u gotta talk to him explain to him that you are with him not any other guy  he gotta trust u and so on

@bunmii well said you are the only one with a reasonble response. A guy knows how other guys think he knows the reason a guy will ask for a gals number. If you don't mind him doing that (that is askin for other gal's numbers),then you can carry on but if you do, then pls stop am.
it also depends on the stage you are in a relationship, @seun you said sumtin abt a plan B from my experience plan b more often than not backfires becos a woman will never give her best when she knows she can work out and go to her plan B. if you want to date exclusively then date exclusively no extras on the side.

I personally don't think it is healthy for a woman to have very close male friends my opinion is your partner shoud be ur best friends. you can all disagree but i have done a survey of marraiges that have lasted over 30yrs and they all agree.

if you value ur man and see a future with him then behave urself, dont force him to cheat.

For peace to reign stop giving guys ur number in his presence, simple
And stop being friendly to guys too , _{he is a jealous lover}

hmmm interestin 

@kkute

how would U feel if he did da same thing
if he took other gurls phone number in ur presence??

if it wud bother U
then U shud know where hes coming from

girl it not adviceable to date such guy, i thaught love goes hand in hand with trust.if he really trust u, i don't think there will be any problem. why don't u talk him out of these.

Why are u giving other guys your # if u have a boyfriend

Put yourself in his shoes too, if it was all the way around wouldn't u be jealous if he was giving girls # or if they were giving him #s to

i wudnt mind if he gets other girls numbers though i havnt seen him do dat.maybe he does do it wen am not there, come to think of it i avnt seen him receive or call other girls.

why would u be giving other guys your number, its like a sign of disrespect to ur boyfriend, and he obviously values you thats why he doesn't give his number to any girl, im sure u would be jealous if he does the same thing and calls them back,

c'mon be reasonable, he has a valid reason to nag at you.

@topic, if there's nothing like class work or business btw yu and da guys and they're not related to you , then there's absolutely no reason for you to give them ya numbers. It shows disrespect and unseriousness in the relationship on ya part.

Depends on y u give dem ur number, sometimes, if its business, as per work den its okay, basically it all boils down 2 TRUST, as long as u guys trust eachother, then there shd be no basis, for his anger!!

am getting to understand hw he feels

wat now

am getting to understand hw he feels

hmm it shudnt have taken U this long

Free:

hmm it shudnt have taken U this long

true, yet better later than never!

why would you want your boyfriend to accept you giving guys your number? would you like him to collect girls numbers? please are you still a teenager?

@kkutecolo

What's that ur number again?

If u want ur boyfriend telling u wat to do, maybe u might as well stop giving guys ur number.

There's is no trust and moreover depends on ur intentions behind the phone number giving. it might not be u but the guys u're giving ur numbers to. . they can be real jerks just to get under ur skirt.

that simple.

@bolarge
my number wat?

put it here - u know.

Girls are sometimes funny ,

Would you accept your boyfriend taking a girls number? How would you feel if you read sexy sms on your guys phone?

Wouldn't you be kind of Jealous . ?

I also disagree with my girl giving her number to guy , I nearly stab a guy to dead on friday night simply because he sent a sexy sms to my lady and i mistakenly read it,

, If you already have a boyfriend and you really love you , what on earth would make you give your number to another guy? what exactly do you want from him? Girls are always funny,

Have a nice day,

N.A.S.T.Y

If guys are calling you to hit on you then that should be a problem for you too. And in Naija, you just know thats gonna happen. For peace just restrain yourself and try not give out your number in front of him.

my dear its very bad to do that, please please him and displease your so called number collectors, be serious know what he like you doing if u love him, since you've confessed he neva call or recieve girls calls. Its up to you.