Pearl05:



Good, a woman with good head over her shoulder can provide for herself beyond the so called benefits you offered to give. The so called flings abi friends with benefits doesn't usually end well. One party will always feel cheated.


Fine you started out stating the rules of the game but at a point she or you starts having feelings for the other, that's where things goes south.

XhosaNostra:



That sounds nice too, but sometimes you just wanna be alone. A part-time husband, maybe?

onward1:


Here I am. I always like to date ladies that want just dating and nothing serious. Part-time woman too.
No disturbance for money and they too understand you better than anyone. No querry on how you live your life yet they have good advice on how you grow big in life. Anyone here?

RoyalBlak007:





Claireshan1 , you need to read this

Marriage isn't a trophy

XhosaNostra:
Not every lady wants marriage, we like our freedom too. The thought of going to bed with a bag of chips, instead of cooking a big meal for a husband & kids, sounds more enticing to me. Another thing is, when you live alone things stay the same, you don't have to tidy up after someone else. You can also do whatever the hell you want without having to check-in with the "head office" before making decisions or going anywhere. So basically, you're a free bird & life is on your terms.

Sigh. Looks divine from where I'm sitting.

XhosaNostra:
Not every lady wants marriage, we like our freedom too. The thought of going to bed with a bag of chips, instead of cooking a big meal for a husband & kids, sounds more enticing to me. Another thing is, when you live alone things stay the same, you don't have to tidy up after someone else. You can also do whatever the hell you want without having to check-in with the "head office" before making decisions or going anywhere. So basically, you're a free bird & life is on your terms.

Sigh. Looks divine from where I'm sitting.

MissRaine69:
Marriage is not for everyone some people should not marry it’s a burden and a life sentence to the unfortunate soul who marries them
It’s a business arrangement or a cover for both husband and wife who have interests elsewhere
For others it actually it makes them a better person if you feel that marriage signaled the end of your individualness then you married the wrong person.

Goddys:
Marriage is a societal and religious construct. I always wonder why ladies always take marriage rites and traditions so serious that atmes they betray their own feelings just to get married.

I am of the opinion that marriage has never helped the male folks except to limit their independence. The worldview that it is to a man's sole benefit that he is survived by his offspring or be considered irrelevant is a fallacy.

The emergence of any new life till adulthood favours the female folks most while the male folks take wholesome responsibility of upkeep and sustainability of the child.

Marriage is a shackle to male freedom. He gives up his independence and emotional stability to a woman in exchange of what please? What does marriage offer to a man aside procreation cos I know a well-to-do man can contract a lady for procreation purposes only and pay her off?

I have observed the life of most married men and discovered that peace, stability, comfort and independence elude them.
Go and sit down. Talking rubbish. Its either you are impotent, can't get married, or You are too poor to take care of a family or you married the wrong person. Stop deceiving people,you are not more intelligent than God who made it so. In as much as everyone must not get married,your right up is that of a loser.

Lalas247:

Some ladies think it’s. Meal ticket ... seen a few on NL .
Because their married everyone who ain’t is chasing men .. or trying to be married smh ..

Marriage is over rated but if you find the one and it’s meant to be go ahead .. but do not base your life finding a husband ..