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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by TheWalkingMind: 1:41am On Apr 01, 2018 |
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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by selfemployed(m): 1:42am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Newboss: Seems you didn't see the word need there. There are times you urgently need a loyal human being around you, maybe in time of sickness. You think those girl friends would have time for you? |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by twosquare(m): 1:48am On Apr 01, 2018 |
pander1234:How many husbands are older than their wives yet the marriage ended in divorce? If you can predict the ratio, then you have your answer that age is inconsequential. You left weightier issues to attend to things people who are only after the natural looks at. As per ageing...when will Kokumo not die...even if you marry someone 5 years younger, she will still age and fade later on. Perhaps you should ask certain men why after marrying a younger beautiful woman still go ahead to cheat, abandon and look for fresh 'meat.' Then you should know the problem isn't age/fading. I don't normally comment on a thread like this, but I just want to challenge your judgment (how you view life) because you still need the wisdom of God, not the stereotypical way of viewing things people hold and yet hasn't produced better marriages so far. WHat would a wise man do? Will he go for her because he will have peace of mind with her and full of virtues or because she doesn't age faster? 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by virtuejoan(f): 1:51am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Shugarlord213: look at idiot talking about loyalty, from all indications u are still a very big fool at ur stupid age. Yeye d smell 3 Likes |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Newboss(m): 1:56am On Apr 01, 2018 |
selfemployed:That's not true! That's why I said you need to learn how to live by yourself! That woman you call your wife is a human being, not a robot! She is not your mobile phone that you can press anytime! She can resist every move you make! She has absolute control over your life! She can give you high blood pressure! No human being needs that! The girlfriends change every single year... Once you have a life, you can have more than enough girls falling over each other for you. I don't abuse women, so don't even think about it. You need a woman for company, just give her a call! They will even be checking on you from time to time! Just have a life of your own, and you will be just fine! That's how life is meant to be lived! Both men and women deserve freedom, not a cage called "marriage"! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by MiddleDimension: 2:08am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Shugarlord213: i dont think you were like this at the time you were in the university. i think you finished the university a virgin. and i also think you were betrayed in love |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by SylB(f): 2:13am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Shugarlord213: I can only advice you to get a life... That's all u need at the moment |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Octaves(m): 2:19am On Apr 01, 2018 |
@op, if you love her and think she'll make a good wife go ahead. or else there is some other reason you don't want to marry her. I don't think age is a serious issue here since you are both the same age. the way women age depends on their genes. some age faster. some with or without cosmetic/ nutritional maintenance look good as they age. I know two cousins with older wives. one about 2 yrs difference, the other roughly the same age. they are doing just fine. the women are still looking good after 8 years and some kids. it depends on understanding and love. most people here giving advice are not even married. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by mtngloetiartel: 2:21am On Apr 01, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:i rise |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by mtngloetiartel: 2:39am On Apr 01, 2018 |
CsRockefeller:mtchww. Mumu line. 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by akpota94: 2:44am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Oga so its now that you are ready to take decision abi,why did you start dating her in the first place when you weren't sure you will end up with her. after she has given you 2 years of her life its now you are seeking for advice, the stuff that you saw in her that kept you guys together for 2 years should also kept you guys in marriage,and for those saying the lady will get older than the guy and start looking like the guys mom plz Not in all cases there are some ladies 50 years of age with children and grandchildren and dey still look sweet 16 African ladies once dey get married and give birth to 2 children they don't take good care of themselves and it not good. 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:09am On Apr 01, 2018 |
TheWalkingMind: Thank you so much for re-affirming. I've dropped a message on Whatsapp. Kindly reply at your leisure time. |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:11am On Apr 01, 2018 |
mikolo80: No! I was only pained by the way he judged 'Women'. We aren't some piece of trash. He should learn to accord us some respect. He is too vulgar. 2 Likes |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:16am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Dheartless: Whatever pitiable story he had to tell should have been kept to himself. We don't need his indecent choices of words. He is too vulgar, and I detest such people. I'm not one to foolishly comment on every dumb threads, I just couldn't let that pass. I needed to give him a share of my madness. |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:17am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by CuteMadridista: 3:19am On Apr 01, 2018 |
boiz2men: UyaiIncomparabl apparently hasn't seen this question |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:25am On Apr 01, 2018 |
boiz2men: What's my business with their self-acclaimed cars? I don't see that piece of trash as an achievement. It's a total liability. Only gullible girls fall/and will continue to fall for such. I'm not a saint, neither am I trying to paint myself so perfect. The bottom line is- NO ONE really cares. 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:26am On Apr 01, 2018 |
CsRockefeller: Hmm. You're gonna make me blush! |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by CuteMadridista: 3:26am On Apr 01, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Way to dodge a simple question 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:32am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Ire2: Nay nay nay nay! C'mon bro! That was just a cheap talk. Of course, I know you've got its might, and you can put me through. Well, yea, you do other real life activities? That is same here! I just can't readily grab a piece of sheet and start mincing words together, that's tasky for me. Errm, to your comment on my profile picture? Well, I ain't mischievous, neither is that a mischievous pose. That's called a 'Cunny pose'. Goodnight Sir. |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:34am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Horsh(m): 3:35am On Apr 01, 2018 |
No
But I prefer marrying a girl that I senior sha |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by mikolo80: 3:35am On Apr 01, 2018 |
who are the 'us' respect is earned not given if you are not a cheap desperate woman say so but from guys perspective no car no poosie car plenty poosie what do you want them to now think from empirical evidence UyaiIncomparabl: |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:37am On Apr 01, 2018 |
CuteMadridista: I have. The question contains no meaningful content, thus will relay no answer to it. I'm off! |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:38am On Apr 01, 2018 |
mikolo80: I copy. |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by joeluv: 3:58am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Please anything between 1-5yrs difference is no big deal. What matters most is friendship and love. |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Coldfeets: 4:49am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Memories12411: Your level of INSECURITY COMPLEX is really something else! In fact, your level of INSECURITY COMPLEX is really out of this world! You sound as someone who seeks approval from people around you before you can do even the slightest things. Anyway sha, I thank God everyone is not like you. Tufiakwa! Olekwa! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by lowaist101: 5:00am On Apr 01, 2018 |
[b][/b] I Don't Want To Accept It Is Wrong Getting Married To A Woman Who Is One's Age. The Problem With Most Women Is That When they Are Married, They Want To "Dress And Behave Like Married Women". Am Not Talking About Provocativeness But Dress Smart And Do Things With Panache. Apart Frm Menopause, I Don't Think It Has Been Proved Scientifically That Women Get Older Faster Than Men. Our Culture And Tradition Are Responsible For Some Of These Things/discriminations. In Some Places Of Work, Once U R Pregnant, U R Off. Some Women, It Is Religion. Why Can't A Woman Put On Trousers And Shorts? She Sits At Home Most Times Because She Is Cut Off Frm Doing Some Things , Perhaps, Apart Frm Work. Some Men Are The Cause. They Want Full Time House Wives; Someone Who Will Baby Sit For Them.It Is Pathetic That In The 21st Century, Some Young Men Are So Possessive, Jealous And Selfish That They Restrict And Cage Their Wives At Home. Yet, Some Will Come Out To Say They Get Old Quickly. A Man Living A Sedentary And Boring Life, and stress filled life will get very old over night. If u get married to someone that will love and respect you, treat her well. Allow her to dress well and smart but not provocative. The two of you should help each other to live a stress free life. Eat good food; balanced diet and live healthily. Your wife will not get old faster than u. And who says a girl that gets married as virgin cannot become promiscuous? I laugh in Swahili. Poverty and illiteracy are also causative agents of non- attractiveness of women. When I talk about illiteracy, I mean uncivilised mentality. Broadly speaking, we have many educated illiterates. I think we can change this perception... 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by kennycalls(m): 5:06am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Go'head marry your bride, Homie! |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Maj196(m): 5:13am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Your wife will age faster than you only if u no get money. |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Hapigirlxoxo(f): 5:21am On Apr 01, 2018 |
twosquare: After reading your comments, am force to check your profile because you just said exactly what's in my mind. God bless you. Is just left for the op to apply wisdom and may God help him in doing so. 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by adexpa(m): 5:28am On Apr 01, 2018 |
I do not think it will matter in this your case. Suppose you just meet and she is at desperation stage when she can hide her attitudes, i would have suggest you take your time. You guys are of the same age, she can not hide her character. I do not dispute older ladies base on they gets older early, but because many of them hide their real characters just to get married and later changed during marriage. Take your time to reason over it, think of her attitudes so far. Once she is natural attitudinally, and not at despirate stage, you are good to go. |
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