MicroBox:
Cowards always walk away or quit ...
Cowards are always quick to think suicide just to run away from disappointment/trouble....
Cowards are always the loser at long run...
Cowards always act without thinking...

Because your husband is having affairs, the solution is to run away and render your children a broken home. You cant stand by him and win your thing back? He is your property dear wife...
Because one oga in your office want to give you trouble, the solution is to quit your job without backup plan?
Quietness, humbleness and easy going doesn't make a person mumu.. Standup and fight for what belongs to you at the right time.

That shows how weak you are for agreeing divorce. Those olosho are theives who want to steal what belong to you so giving up reveal your weakness. Or maybe you also want that freedom to continue slaying...

ItzBIM:
Deep down we all know she’s sad as fuckkkk

FannySwindler1:
She couldn't fight for her right(man) , had to let go off him. Doubt if she ever loved him in the first place. Probably she wants to be Dicking around. Her choice and Her happiness. Marriage is not for everyone.

mhisbliss:
Now she's free to run loose and ride every tom DICK and harry like a pony, Go girl

Mindfulness:


You would advise the husband to fix his marriage if the wife was the cheat?

Mindfulness:


You would advise the husband to fix his marriage if the wife was the cheat?

AmoryBlacq:


this is not a gender debate!

gave my opinion on this topic in my third sentence!

my opinion in the last paragraph, circumnavigates around life in general!

nnol:
some of the ladies,if you count the number of beds they have slept on,it is enough to open seven general hospitals.

makydebbie:


Leave all these double standard fools.

Mindfulness:


I am yet to see a man being advised in this nonsensical way. And these people want to be the heads and lead when they cannot even control their d.icks.

makydebbie:


Imagine someone saying for the sake of their kids. Did the man remember kids when he was cheating? Please ignore this people, they're not worth the stress at all.

harmbhrosz:

Lol! Who cares if she stays in the marriage? I'm talking about the custody of her kids

If her husband was a cheat and she provided evidence, the custody of her kids would have been given to her. No court will give the custody of the kids to a cheating husband.

No responsible mothers will prioritize her happiness (with age 30+) over the happiness over her little kids that needs shaping and nurturing.

When you see stories like this on social medias, tend to judge logically, don't just judge issues based on one side of the story

esbjaygmailco:
WAOOO, you mean you faced all these mess for many years, you are a strong woman.....but a little more patience, prayer and probably counselling would have safe your marriage

Walking out of your marriage is not the solution to the problem, if you truly love your children as you claimed, you will not hand them over to a total stranger (another woman) to cater for. trust me, those children will not forgive you if anything should happen to them.

I sincerely understand what you passed through.

No marriage is perfect

Mindfulness:

So?

Husty:
All I see is a weak woman who couldn't stand for what rightfully belongs to her: A woman who couldn't hold the home front together for her kids. Now her brain is working in reverse to the extent of celebrating 'divorce'.

Fix your home for the sake of your kids woman!

Biko don't quote me o.

AmoryBlacq:


hard but not impossible!

besides she's not blaming the man but the women that runs after him!

wishing her well!

Husty:
All I see is a weak woman who couldn't stand for what rightfully belongs to her: A woman who couldn't hold the home front together for her kids. Now her brain is working in reverse to the extent of celebrating 'divorce'.

Fix your home for the sake of your kids woman!

Biko don't quote me o.

Kobicove:
Why is she telling us all this stories?

I hope she knows she has kids who will grow up to read this in future...

harmbhrosz:
so since the husband was the best for kids then why are you guys now castigating him here as if he's the devil based on what the wife wrote

funmisticqueen:
and so? if they read it, what will they do? use ur head joor.

Husty:
[s]All I see is a weak woman who couldn't stand for what rightfully belongs to her: A woman who couldn't hold the home front together for her kids. Now her brain is working in reverse to the extent of celebrating 'divorce'.

Fix your home for the sake of your kids woman!
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Biko don't quote me o.

AgricSalt:


Inexperienced mentality. She would be used, she would be played, she would lose her sense of dignity, she would lose her sanity, if she ever tries your suggestion.

The best is to pray for a better man, who will honour and dignify her

Tedassie:

And why're you so thrilled?

Hydrolysis:
Who have noticed that nairaland now have new members every seconds