AmoryBlacq:
why did you get in, in the first place?

Oh, he was a cheat!

Well, Good luck in your future endeavors!

Just to chip this in: People nowadays have a throwaway mentality, nobody want to fix things. from that childhood toy you no longer play with to that out of vogue phone, electronics, friends you had issues with one time. It's easier getting a new one than putting effort fixing the old one, so we think. Sadly many bring this mentality to relationships, if it's not moving smoothly move to the next instead of finding out why it is so!

Mindfulness:


Another i.diot.

dominique:
The marriage must have been a rollercoaster ride of emotional torture for her, good thing she freed herself from the mess. No woman that knows her worth will ever drag man with anybody, a public dog for that matter.

Husty:
All I see is a weak woman who couldn't stand for what rightfully belongs to her: A woman who couldn't hold the home front together for her kids. Now her brain is working in reverse to the extent of celebrating 'divorce'.

Fix your home for the sake of your kids woman!

Biko don't quote me o.

MicroBox:
Cowards always walk away or quit ...
Cowards are always quick to think suicide just to run away from disappointment/trouble....
Cowards are always the loser at long run...
Cowards always act without thinking...

Because your husband is having affairs, the solution is to run away and render your children a broken home. You cant stand by him and win your thing back? He is your property dear wife...
Because one oga in your office want to give you trouble, the solution is to quit your job without backup plan?
Quietness, humbleness and easy going doesn't make a person mumu.. Standup and fight for what belongs to you at the right time.

That shows how weak you are for agreeing divorce. Those olosho are theives who want to steal what belong to you so giving up reveal your weakness. Or maybe you also want that freedom to continue slaying...

pcguru1:

Lol cute , but am not castigating the husband if he gets the kids and they can both make it work shared time with the kids, that's not bad am castigating the fact that the mother has to sacrifice happiness just to stay in a troubled marriage just for the kids and the same advice not given to men.

GogobiriLalas:
From Tonto to this wan...all these bitter women don't know how to celebrate divorce

Ameeboh:



Lmao. Gorgeous eyes?

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Husty:
All I see is a weak woman who couldn't stand for what rightfully belongs to her: A woman who couldn't hold the home front together for her kids. Now her brain is working in reverse to the extent of celebrating 'divorce'.

Fix your home for the sake of your kids woman!

Biko don't quote me o.

pcguru1:


Seriously we Africans have a warped way of thinking its why we are backwards so who gives fvck if they see it. The kids will prob grow and have troubled marriages also, I don't get all this sheltering and making up appearances.

pcguru1:


Seriously we Africans have a warped way of thinking its why we are backwards so who gives fvck if they see it. The kids will prob grow and have troubled marriages also, I don't get all this sheltering and making up appearances.

MicroBox:

He is not just any man but her husband "Her Crown"
No reasonable Queen will watch her crown taking away by someone else.

onmyowncj:
u are very unreasonable,what was she suppose to do To continue begging him to love her and leave other women he was not married to U think everyone is as cheap as u Fool!!! Or maybe stay and be killed or the other way round get so angry and get someone killed Injustice must follow all who supports it

victorian:


God bless you dear.

Men like that, wants who they will use high blood pressure kill before her time.

She knows she couldn't cope in such toxic marriage anymore. Better to be divorced and have peace of mind, then live long and be free, than to be married and be miserable, scheming every night and day on how to teach a grown asszed man on how to keep his home.
Men think to keep a home, is only the woman's effort. News flash! It's joint effort.
No woman has time to waste on any irresponsible public dog, spreading diseases upandan.
Gone are those days, married women end up in psychatric hospital due to their husbands' fucvking upandan.

You die for a man trying to stay married and protect the kids. last last he will still move on and bring in another even before the burial proceedings of his dead wife.

My Big aunty died at age 45years of cardiac arrest , trying to make her marriage work. She was thinking about her kids and what will people say. She's dead now and left her kids, while the useless husband didn't even waste time to marry his side chick. Some men are just pure devils, that's why they get served either by a crazy butcher, called side chick or other wives. No single brain, always thinking with their dickkk.

dominique:


Sorry about your aunt, May God rest her soul. If only she knew not all marriages are worth fighting for. I also read a very pathetic story about a woman who didn't know she had gotten HIV from her community penïs husband till it advanced into AIDS. Her husband was treating himself secretly and watched her as her health failed. To make mater worse, he sent her to her people for treatment and never allowed her back in. Now she's at the end stage of the disease, her siblings keep passing her around like a ball as they all have their own young families and it is very risky accommodating a full blown AIDS patient in the same space with small children. They took her to village and abandoned her there, village people sent her back to one of her sisters who passed her to another sister and never called back to find out how she's doing. It's the sister that now came online to ask how to manage an end-stage AIDS patient. The woman is probably dead now and the man is still living his life and possibly remarried. Is it that kind of nincompoop that somebody will now tell me to be fighting over or fasting and praying for? God forbid.

Husty:
All I see is a weak woman who couldn't stand for what rightfully belongs to her: A woman who couldn't hold the home front together for her kids. Now her brain is working in reverse to the extent of celebrating 'divorce'.

Fix your home for the sake of your kids woman!

Biko don't quote me o.

victorian:








Thanks dear.
Can you imagine? God forbid!
My Sister during my late Aunt's time. My mum, who is her younger sister, spoke and even begged her several times to divorce her Randy public dog husband but she said she can't and it's a sin and she wants people to see her as a respectable married woman, especially when her daughters and sons are about to do their weddings, at least their prospective grooms and brides for her children won't say, her kids come from a broken home.
But at the end, she didn't live to give off any of her children for marriage. They all married one way or the other without the dad's consent and knowledge. Cause they ended hating their dad for giving their late mum heartache and tears. They knew his ways killed their mum. After the burial, the first son wanted to kill his dad with cutlass, as he couldn't bear the pains of seeing his tender loving mum lowered into a 6ft grave. It's was a pathetic and horrible moment, seeing son pursuing the father with cutlass . People had to run after them. Caught up with the son and held him tight while they pacified him to be reasonable and no matter what he can't Kill his dad or else he will go to jail.
The father couldn't go back home that day. The boy ended up packing out of their home, followed by his elder sister who took her younger sister along with her. The dad was then left with the last son and his concubine whom he married after 3weeks.

None of his children brought their spouses to him for dowry or traditional marriage. They all sidelined him and rented dads from themselves during the trad and wedding while some use their Pastor as their dads.

For me, marriage will never be do or die.. No man will kill me before my time. In Jesus name amen. And amen.

Tbaby4real:


I hope women reading this will learn and stop deceiving themselves by trying to pray, fast and dress sexy to change a cheating husband. It worthless to start teaching a grown ass man how to be responsible. Its a lot of working training kids. Its better to be safe than sorry, so many women have mental illness as a result of stupid and wicked husband. I hope they learn cos it breaks my heart to read that a woman left her kids cos of one useless husband.

victorian:










I pray women learn, no use dying for a man because of love and one useless commitment which the man no longer respects.

Anyways some crazy wives are killing their husbands, without considering the consequence. Have also noticed some married men on my streets are now behaving rationally and careful nowadays. No more gistin And playing brazenly with side chicks on the same street they live with their family . They are behaving well nw.
With stories of deaths here and there from marriages, I think such realities can reset the brain of a Randy married man.

May God help us all o.

Tbaby4real:



at behaving well.

I hope women start loving themselves first and think about their children. No one could change a cheating and irresponsible husband.

Millz404:
Why do i have a thing for divorced women... It's like a cake you can't eat then you can eat it....
Crazy

But divorce is one thing i really hate... So much i don't like watching it in movies

I downloaded a tv show called "splitting up together". Got really irritated watching the first episode, i had to delete it.... That shit breaks my heart on behalf of the children

makydebbie:


Imagine someone saying for the sake of their kids. Did the man remember kids when he was cheating? Please ignore this people, they're not worth the stress at all.

Husty:
All I see is a weak woman who couldn't stand for what rightfully belongs to her: A woman who couldn't hold the home front together for her kids. Now her brain is working in reverse to the extent of celebrating 'divorce'.

Fix your home for the sake of your kids woman!

Biko don't quote me o.

iyatrustee:
Na wa for all those asking why she couldn't stay back for her kids, Why she could not pray and be patient etc

Her happiness and emotional wellbeing nko?

pocohantas:


Call out their bullshit and they start shouting feminist.
Bunch of dunderheads who don't want women to see the light. That way they can keep getting away with nonsense.

I am just seeing this topic