This has been a reoccurring theme here and on other forums . All the Nigerian men in my circle of friends, family and acquaintances are adamant that they will never date or marry a Nigerian women I find this point of view very unsettling so I will ask the Men of NL....What particular aspect when it comes to MOST Nigerian women do you struggle with?
Bear in mind you have sisters and aunties that are Nigerian think about it first before dishing out the insults

Hmmmm

Not all
Nigerian men

Tell us how many men you have asked. A hundred?a Thousand?a Million?

I can bet my left balls that it's not even up to 10, So their opinion on that matter doesn't matter.

Anyone who made such statement must have lived in another country. Many of us are yet to cross Nigerian borders, so we can't endorse that myopic opinion.

Culture has a big say in today's marriages.

With that said,
we are sticking with Nigerians ladies.

For example if I happen to travel outside the continent, I will marry a Latin American girl.

Cutehector:
For example if I happen to travel outside the continent, I will marry a Latin American girl.

Keep dreaming.

MissRaine69:
This has been a reoccurring theme here and on other forums . All the Nigerian men in my circle of friends, family and acquaintances are adamant that they will never date or marry a Nigerian women I find this point of view very unsettling so I will ask the Men of NL....What particular aspect when it comes to MOST Nigerian women do you struggle with?
Bear in mind you have sisters and aunties that are Nigerian think about it first before dishing out the insults

While Nigerian men keep marring Nigerian women every Saturday in the country?

I will always marry a Nigerian lady anything anyday, because I am too used to them

I honestly feel the major problem associated with our women is the entitlement mentality in relationships


It's only in Nigeria that you will see a lady tell a man to go and work for money before dating her, while she sits comfortably in her parents house

Cutehector:
For example if I happen to travel outside the continent, I will marry a Latin American girl.

...yeah we believe u...travelling from lagos to ondo state..SMH

greiboy:
I will always marry a Nigerian lady anything anyday, because I am too used to them

I honestly feel the major problem associated with our women is the entitlement mentality in relationships


It's only in Nigeria that you will see a lady tell a man to go and work for money before dating her, while she sits comfortably in her parents house

them full this thread o.

Cutehector:
For example if I happen to travel outside the continent, I will marry a Latin American girl.

Latino's for life brow. You sabi my taste

last 2 weeks saturday i attended a wedding a friend invited me to and guess what...........?

the groom was a nigerian (an igbo man) and the lady was also a fuccking nigerian (an igbo lady)


last saturday i attended a friend's wedding (i was part of the groom's men) and guess what again......?


the fùcking groom was a fûcking nigerian man (a benin man) and the bride was a fùcking nigerian too (an urhobo lady)


check this out too:
just yesterday i attended the 20yrs wedding anniversary of one of my church members and fuccking guess what....?


yeah you guessed right, the man was a fuccking nigerian and the woman a fuccking nigerian (a calabar woman)



and as a bonus, do i intend marrying a latino lady?...............fuccking hell no


why?...............
.cos i'm gomna marry a fùcking nigerian lady

ro miss what the fùck you talking about?

OfficialDad:


Latino's for life brow. You sabi my taste

my brother, their language dey burst my head.. E dey turn me on

Who vouched that....everything you hear or see online is illusion and fallacies.

I don't stay in Nigeria but nothing will stop from marrying my Nigeria soulmate....even without my parent constraint.

Cutehector:
my brother, their language dey burst my head.. E dey turn me on

Lolz. And they've got fine azz and nice standing boobs brow. My spec

swiz123:
Tell us how many men you have asked. A hundred?a Thousand?a Million?

I can bet my left balls that it's not even up to 10, So their opinion on that matter doesn't matter.

Anyone who made such statement must have lived in another country. Many of us are yet to cross Nigerian borders, so we can't endorse that myopic opinion.

Culture has a big say in today's marriages.

With that said,
we are sticking with Nigerians ladies.

You have said everything that needed saying , case closed ..... three gbozaa for you..

OfficialDad:


Lolz. And they've got fine azz and nice standing boobs brow. My spec

confirm. Not all these ones here that have sagged finish.

Cutehector:
confirm. Not all these ones here that have sagged finish.

Abeg o, before dem go chop us.

Greedy (Soo interested in the mans bank account at the moment than reason how to build a viable relationship)

Self centered ( Always looking for what to gain than what to contribute if they don't see money no love. Immediately they see money, pretends to love)

Arrogance, contentions, belligerence, low sense of responsibility and care due to feminism mindset when they are educated or the man is not rich or

Poor orientation, low IQ and EI and bad Logic (Some dont even know who Trump's wife or Abbas is) when not educated/ even some educated.

* Of course there are exemptions.

MissRaine69:
This has been a reoccurring theme here and on other forums . All the Nigerian men in my circle of friends, family and acquaintances are adamant that they will never date or marry a Nigerian women I find this point of view very unsettling so I will ask the Men of NL....What particular aspect when it comes to MOST Nigerian women do you struggle with?
Bear in mind you have sisters and aunties that are Nigerian think about it first before dishing out the insults

I'm guessing these guys are in the US.
Problem with a lot of naija babes out here is that they want the best of both worlds but are generally not interested in paying the price for either.
This is a society that actively REWARDS any responsibility a woman intends to take up into her life, at the detriment of the men around her.

Not many naija women that make it out of naija cling to their culture, especially if she starts making small money.
See women from India or other asian countries. When they come out here, they hold on tight to their culture and family regardless of the fact these women make x2/x3 of what african women make.

A lot of naija babes come to the US and na dem go pack tattoo put for body like say na dem be the real akata.

Even with that said, it is still the deep desire of a naija man to find a SENSIBLE naija girl....they grow scarce by the day.

I am quite sure they do not mean it. I think they say it for fun. They get kicks from seeing us feel insecure. Guys know it makes us batsh*t crazy!

SoapQueen:
I am quite sure they do not mean it. I think they say it for fun. They get kicks from seeing us feeling insecure. Guys know it makes us batsh*t crazy!

Same reason why nigerian women feel calling someone "big head" is toasting him

...

I Cant Stand Being Cheated On. I Can Commit Murder

2buffagain:


Same reason why nigerian women feel calling someone "big head" is toasting him

It's just pure sarcasm, my dear. I can call my man "big head ", doesn't mean I don't love him! Okay, Big head? Lol.

Anyway, this is a vlog of a guy giving a wholistic perspective on what is fueling what you are talking about OP:

https://www.facebook.com/clayton.udoh/videos/10156190781544693/

Cutehector:
For example if I happen to travel outside the continent, I will marry a Latin American girl.

but our nigerian brothers overseas many of dem still come to collect wives .u sure when u land for yankee u wont tell u bro to arrange wifey for u for village?

SoapQueen:
I am quite sure they do not mean it. I think they say it for fun. They get kicks from seeing us feel insecure. Guys know it makes us batsh*t crazy!

You see the orientation. Guys are even giving there reasons here but you think they don't mean it when you should be learning (which i believe is why the op opened the thread) and taking correction. God forbid I marry naija girl like that. Very low IQ. Nigerian girls are only good to breed babies.

princfred:
You see the orientation. Guys are here giving their reasons but you think they don't mean it when you should be learning and taking correction. God forbid I marry naija girl like. Very low IQ.

Okay. Thank you very much.

Nigerian women can never be faithful. this generation wet the born me no dey stay one place.

most ladies are competing with themselves on social media post which causes them to want more money and that causes them to do things like sleeping around

JasonScoolari:
I hope one day people will understand that a nationality is just a nationality and not a measure of being a better human. I love my Nigeria ladies, tho some of them are "Desperados"

There are desperados everywhere.... Nigerian girls might be lacking the nice all round qualities of a woman that most of the white girls possess due to the effects of parental upbringing, that doesn't mean we don't have quality wife materials around....The rubbishes just happen to outweigh the wastebins.