samyfreshsmooth:



oga read op's post again and come back to tell me if you saw where he mentioned he's 28

Mrbehave:
Thank you, but I wanted to lie about genotype how do you see?

MelaninQueen:



He said it.himself that he's 28 and she's 26. Check the first or second page

PrincessB1:
He actually mentioned it that his age was 28 in the post.

Just go back to the first page and read the the post slowly, you will see it.

samyfreshsmooth:



oga read op's post again and come back to tell me if you saw where he mentioned he's 28

Mrbehave:
My relationship with her is one and a half year and we are to get married by the end of this year. The problem here is that am only two years older than her which so many people complained that the age gap is too small that she will get older than me very soon, infact some thought that she is older than me.Our height are thesame and we are not short.

The man who married her friend who is two years younger than her is five years older than me.The boy friends of all her mates and friends are much older than I am.

My uncle who is a pastor advised me that he doesn't want me to be involved in extra marital affairs base on the fact that my fiancee will grow older than me and might loose interest in sex due to aging.

I cried and cried, prayed to GOD to make her loose interest in me but to no avail.The dowry will be paid this month, I don't like it but my hands are tied.

During the engagement my pastor and church elders were present and they endorsed it.

I don't have any problem with her just the issue of age and zero love that I have for her. She fainted several time because of her last break up, hmm am afraid.Please am tired I want a break up but I don't know how.

Nymeria247:
Dear OP, there is no correct way of breaking up a relationship. It is commendable that you are worried about her feelings but that should not stop you from doing what you have made up your mind to do. Start by avoiding her, stop calling and chatting her. Stay away from anywhere that she will see you. If she is not sharp enough to read between the lines; send her a text that you need some time away from her to review your life. it is okay that you don't love her enough to marry her and grow old with her. Any relationship built on pity and emotional blackmail is bound to hit the rocks eventually. Better now than later. I suggest you summon courage and call off the relationship as quickly as possible. Do not base your happiness on the opinion of your church, your pastor or anyone...Time heals ALL wounds. Good luck.

cliqtips:
Maybe you need glasses

Anyways, I'll help a brother
"So many were happy for her for finding me as I am the right man according to them since I have never been laid and I am 28."

Mrbehave:
My relationship with her is one and a half year and we are to get married by the end of this year. The problem here is that am only two years older than her which so many people complained that the age gap is too small that she will get older than me very soon, infact some thought that she is older than me.Our height are thesame and we are not short.

The man who married her friend who is two years younger than her is five years older than me.The boy friends of all her mates and friends are much older than I am.

My uncle who is a pastor advised me that he doesn't want me to be involved in extra marital affairs base on the fact that my fiancee will grow older than me and might loose interest in sex due to aging.

The problem here is that I engaged her early this year but right now I don't have single love for her that even when I travelled I don't want to come back soon cos i never missed her.This my fiancee started a relationship with a guy at the age of 15.The guy deflowered her at teen age, promised her marriage and dumped her after 8 years of being with her and married another girl and now is me her dreamed man who wants to leave her again, so difficult.I have never had sex with her, was only involved in a French kiss with her and sucking of her boobs.

When I started friending her I told my family that it was GOD who spoke to me to friend her just to gain there approval, can you see the confusion here? We live in thesame street with her just three houses between my house and hers and her mother advised that we should never let anything come between us as it may affect the both families due to the closeness.

So many were happy for her for finding me as I am the right man according to them since I have never been laid and I am 28.

I don't just know what happened I felt unattracted to her and lost interest in her and this has been happening for 8 months now but I hid it because seeing what happened in her past relationship I became afraid.

I cried and cried, prayed to GOD to make her loose interest in me but to no avail.The dowry will be paid this month, I don't like it but my hands are tied.

During the engagement my pastor and church elders were present and they endorsed it.

I don't have any problem with her just the issue of age and zero love that I have for her. She fainted several time because of her last break up, hmm am afraid.Please am tired I want a break up but I don't know how.

samyfreshsmooth:



oh yeah..................just saw it (and i didnt have to read it "slowly" before i did )


perharps i failed to see it last night when i first saw the post or he editted his post


anyways thanks

samyfreshsmooth:



ok


do you need your award now

samyfreshsmooth:
ok do you need your award now

CarlosTheJackal:
You don't even knw what marriage means. I pity the girl because she is about to make the biggest mistake of her life.



I can imagine how big your pimples are because at 28 ypu are still a virgin

Mcy56:

Young man, always learn to take correction to improve on your knowledge and increase in wisdom. Insulting people wouldnt help you.
#My50CentOpinion#

cliqtips:
You can keep it please... instead of you to say common Thank you!

samyfreshsmooth:
and when the correction was not given in the right way nkor?.............
and when, how, where did i insult anyone "old woman" ? abeg carry you and your 50 Cent opinion comot from my mention jareh

Mcy56:
I laughed in Spanish.

samyfreshsmooth:



why you no tell me say na "thank you" you dey find since



oya THANK YOU SIR!!!


happy now?

kimbraa:
So many kids in relationships. Look at your narrative and judge yourself. You'll be saving that girl a lot if you don't marry her. See your mouth like "I'm two years older than her". The truth of the matter is, you're not matured yet, age is only but a number and you've never loved her. Maybe you were infatuated. Some women are older than their husband and they're doing very well in their respective marriages.

xtervaganza:
if you lose a good woman because of senseless issue like age you may live the rest of your lives with regret.



And trust me, you can grow to love her much than anybody. Just be sure she's a good person in and out.



I'm not your friend, family or mate, but if within you, you're very sure she's a very good lady I'll advise you proceed with the wedding. You'll remember this comment and be glad you took

PrincessB1:
Lolz, yeah he might have edited the stuff.

You're welcome

samyfreshsmooth:



yeah............he did (which i'm 85% certain of)


i went back to that page and saw 4 diff people also asked the same question


he probably decided to add it so he doesnt get asked again